What would you say to that guy

[freedomParticipant 5129]

A guy wrote in advising forum what to do, it’s not in English so I’ll translate

we dated for a year and we are married for 6 months, she doesn’t work and I have a successful business.
Personally, I don’t have a problem with her not working because she has no education and experience, what can she bring in? 2k ?

so on the first month of our marriage I got her a credit card to my account, on the second month she spent 2K on bulls~~~, from which 500$ was on a painted picture.
I am not talking about Spa, Nail fixing, Massages and beauty sallons which I’m cool with, she spends it on stuff much more stupid.
Anyway, I got angry and limited her credit card to 1K a month and now she is not sleeping with me, what would you do?

[Anonymous 6]

Never do joint accounts
Never put a credit card for “her” in your name
Always put property in your name
Always have separate accounts

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Anonymous wrote:

Never do joint accounts
Never put a credit card for “her” in your name
Always put property in your name
Always have separate accounts

Wrong, brother, you should put your property on your parents’ names, if it’s on your name, she can screw you later on.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Simply ignore her. Start preparing to bale out. If she’s like this now, it’s not going to get any better.

What country/legal jurisdiction is this?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

freedom wrote:

I got angry and limited her credit card to 1K a month and now she is not sleeping with me

That’s “love”. You know……. “for better or worse”.

Specifically, worse.

I would tell him….

——- A RELATED STORY FROM A MARRIED MAN WHO’S WIFE PULLED THE SAME S~~~ ——

One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says “I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.” I said “WHAT????!!! What was that?!” So she says the words that every husband on the planet dreads hearing . . . . “You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.”

She then responded to my puzzled look by saying:

“Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?”

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night I went to sleep.

The very next day, I opted to take the day off from work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take so I told her we’ll just buy them all.

She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you…. she was so excited.

She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn’t even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said: “That’s fine, honey”.

Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said:
“I think this is all dear, let’s go to the cashier”.

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out: “On second thought, no honey, I don’t feel like it.”

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled “WHAT???!!!”

“Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile. You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.”

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added:
“Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?”

Apparently I’m not having sex tonight either.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

2 can Play that game.

Cut Off her Credit Card to Zero.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 6]

Or you could put the property in the name of an LLC.

Or you could put it in a trust with someone else as the beneficiary.

There are ways to fix this stuff up, just have to do it years before you get married

[OldBillParticipant]

Six months in and she’s already using sex as a weapon?

He’s f~~~ed, and not in the good sense of the word.

Tell him he needs to start planning on his divorce. The longer he waits the worse things will get and the harder it will be.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

OldBill wrote:

Six months in and she’s already using sex as a weapon?

This man’s wife turned immediately after the wedding – on their honeymoon.

Women Who Use Sex as a Bargaining Tool
/audio/women-who-use-sex-as-a-bargaining-tool/

The intro is 4 mins, but it’s a very satisfying listen.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

File and leave. It’s just going to get worse. He was a target, and she hit bullseye.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

freedom wrote:

Venom wrote:

Never do joint accounts
Never put a credit card for “her” in your name
Always put property in your name
Always have separate accounts

Wrong, brother, you should put your property on your parents’ names, if it’s on your name, she can screw you later on.

Or, put it in an LLC and then a (irrevocable) trust owns the LLC. BULLETPROOF.

Saw Venom posted first. Didn’t read til now.

[Anonymous 6]

Let’s be serious here, Do men not realize that women use sex to get what they want??

Women outright say the s~~~ all the time. Watch those chick flicks, girly magazines, daytime talk shows and reality tv shows. They say what they do, ALL THE TIME!!

Do men really not pay attention to the obvious s~~~ in front of them?? February is a great example of this. The sex she gave you on Feb 13th for free, you have to buy her something to get it on Feb 14th. Think about that. You are buying her something and her gift to you is sex. She didn’t buy you anything, she just spread her legs and said “Happy Valentines Day”???

Fellas you gotta start thinking. The minute you understand that she uses sex to get what she wants, you take away any power she has over you. Besides sex, they have nothing else.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

That’s an expensive whore he got himself there. So $2000 buys him pussy from her but $1000 does not?
He should just write off all the cash he spent on her so far as Sunk Costs and Fire That Bitch!
Get a divorce, or better yet, an annulment since it’s less than a year.
After that NEVER MARRY AGAIN. Just use that $2000 a month to pump and dump the finest pussy that country has to offer.
There, problem solved.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

Let’s be serious here, Do men not realize that women use sex to get what they want??

Women outright say the s~~~ all the time. Watch those chick flicks, girly magazines, daytime talk shows and reality tv shows. They say what they do, ALL THE TIME!!

Do men really not pay attention to the obvious s~~~ in front of them?? February is a great example of this. The sex she gave you on Feb 13th for free, you have to buy her something to get it on Feb 14th. Think about that. You are buying her something and her gift to you is sex. She didn’t buy you anything, she just spread her legs and said “Happy Valentines Day”???

Fellas you gotta start thinking. The minute you understand that she uses sex to get what she wants, you take away any power she has over you. Besides sex, they have nothing else.

Ain’t that for s~~~ sure. Sad. Just a sad and unfair state of affairs (no pun intended).

[Anonymous 6]

This guy needs to start getting out NOW. The longer he waits the more expensive it will become. His business is on the line here, so are all of his other assets. A woman willing to pull that s~~~ is willing to go to court and pull some really stupid s~~~ there too, like make all kinds of baseless accusations. The meter in that taxi cab is running up a debt, and it will come out of his ass in the end.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

John Woods 13 wrote:

That’s an expensive whore he got himself there.

I don’t know why this doesn’t occur to women. Or maybe it does, and they just refuse to admit they are whores. Be a whore, fine. Have sex for money and be clear that’s what the arrangement is. But don’t MARRY the guy under the false pretense of “love”.

Whore wives literally have sex “on credit”, and expect to get paid out AFTER in the divorce.

And isn’t that what being a whore is? Just like a divorce.
You don’t pay a whore to f~~~ you. You have to pay her to LEAVE.

And it makes them positively giddy!

She has sex with his friend for FREE, but the husband has to pay the whore 3Million + property to not have sex with her – and GET LOST.

/audio/3-million-dollar-bitch/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 18]

freedom wrote:

limited her credit card to 1K a month and now she is not sleeping with me

Which whore won’t f~~~ for 1,000 doll-ahhss?

Yup a married whore.

[Anonymous 6]

ForeverDone wrote:

freedom_Roy wrote:

Venom wrote:

Never do joint accounts
Never put a credit card for “her” in your name
Always put property in your name
Always have separate accounts

Wrong, brother, you should put your property on your parents’ names, if it’s on your name, she can screw you later on.

Or, put it in an LLC and then a (irrevocable) trust owns the LLC. BULLETPROOF.

Saw Venom posted first. Didn’t read til now.

Is that legal??

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

freedom_Roy wrote:

Venom wrote:

Never do joint accounts
Never put a credit card for “her” in your name
Always put property in your name
Always have separate accounts

Wrong, brother, you should put your property on your parents’ names, if it’s on your name, she can screw you later on.

Or, put it in an LLC and then a (irrevocable) trust owns the LLC. BULLETPROOF.

Saw Venom posted first. Didn’t read til now.

Is that legal??

Prior to marriage, yes. After marriage, ehh, a Judge will have to decide. All mine was done prior to my engagement, dating, certified and signed. Worked for me.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

OldBill wrote:

Six months in and she’s already using sex as a weapon?

He’s f~~~ed, and not in the good sense of the word.

Tell him he needs to start planning on his divorce. The longer he waits the worse things will get and the harder it will be.

YEP — x2

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