What would anyone add to my life? – especially an AWALT

[hmskl’dParticipant 6410]

As a self professed introverted type of individual .. I’m thinking about relationships and why would I want any?
I know that line of thinking sounds simplistic .. and the way I worded it even worse .. but, hey, I’m tired and here are the basics of my brainstorming

1. An AWALT would always add net misery to my existence after all is said and done.
2. Loneliness is a state of mind, I honestly believe it is caused by far more complex triggers than simple solitary living ..

In other words, defining loneliness .. it goes way beyond simple relationship choices .. and can be addressed in other ways.

I don’t think about being alone much any longer, rarely if ever crosses my mind .. except during posts like this .. I really can’t explain why .. I have a couple of theories why it’s left my daily thoughts .. If I can put them into words, maybe, someday I’ll post why I believe it’s evolved this way in my life.

In conclusion, whatever makes your world run smoothly and gives you the net positive outcome .. some want to be in groups of people, party and run with a crowd ..

.. as far as I’m concerned .. tonight I made myself a fav BBQ Chicken Thin Crust Pizza .. I’m spending the evening working on my MacBook and installing a new SSD. I also need to replace all four rubber feet under the case. I bought some replacements and need the case open .. so it’s a good time to do that as well. I enjoy these small quiet projects. Over the weekend some simple winter hiking. Doesn’t cost anything and fresh air .. and that small lunch always tastes best sitting in the woods.

.. sound boring way to spend the evening, maybe to some .. but I can’t think of anything else I’d rather be doing .. and I’m not feeling at all sad with these evening plans, so maybe, just maybe .. things are just fine. I may have wandered a little with this post .. sorry for that. Have a good day.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Solitude has become the DESIRABLE state for myself.

I’ve done all the rest, and am not quite finished with it yet.

Simply, I just have no desire to do it all over again, and seek out MY TIME above all else.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

For me, ‘me’ time beats ‘we’ time all the time.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I just cant stand people for more than 30 mim, if i visit someone i just wanna leave, if they visit me i want them to leave.

Im in my toilet right now, door open, absolute silence, only noise i can hear is the neigboors… That bothers me but i should not kill them.

Peace and quiet.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Men were uniting just for hunting a mammoth. And I’m sure after that, each of them was coming back to his very own way of spending time. Humans really need their own freedom. We are created so.

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

I need a certain amount of human interaction in my life. That doesn’t mean it’s got to be women, although interacting with some of them on a more casual basis is o.k. That said, I enjoy spending time with myself.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

TIme alone.. Is the best time.
Doofy knows best..

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Reply To: What would anyone add to my life? – especially an AWALT

I had some other thoughts about this as you did ask what an AWALT could add to your life?

1. Debt
2. Emotional/Psychological MANipulation
3. Heartache/Grief
4. Confusion

5. Frustration
6. Wasted Time
7, Wasted Energy
9. Wasted Effort
10. Potential Incarceration for WHATEVER She Dreams Up

So, here’s just a starter list of all that a Cute lil girlfriend can add to your DAILY Life.

I guess that it’s time to hit up OK Cupid!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AFTParticipant 2722]

I’ve thought about a lot of issues in depth, ever since I’ve had time to myself. About loneliness which you have touched upon and seems to be the major theme of your post, with AWALT women as a potential cure.

Firstly loneliness is not so much a function of a lack of people surrounding you, as much as it is of boredom and an inability to occupy your time. Try being lonely when you are busy fulfilling self directed responsibilities.

It’s amazing how we all get programmed so much, why is female companionship so important? I can remember the pain and hardship I went through being married, with no benefit other than the gratitude I have now for my freedom and sovereignty.

The cure for loneliness is overcomming boredom. Finding things to do that fulfill you. Once you apply yourself towards a goal or aim loneliness disappears along with boredom.

Good luck finding something better to occupy your time.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

AFT wrote:

It’s amazing how we all get programmed so much, why is female companionship so important?

Hit the proverbial nail on the head !!

Men, by and large, are programmed from a very early age that our “function” as a man is to provide and serve a wife and family, and if we’re not doing that then we are missing out on the purpose of our life.

It’s ALL BULLS~~~.

Find other things that are important to you whether it be a business endeavor or a sports car and focus on those things that make a difference to YOU.

Let them call you selfish or whatever, THEIR opinion has no value and YOU shouldn’t let it have any influence over YOUR LIFE !!

F~~~ Em One and ALL !!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3768]

To feel complete ! Hahahaha, give me a break.

If you need a woman to feel complete, then you’re no real man.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Outside of work, everything I do is because I WANT to do it. If I don’t want to do something, I don’t do it.

How would that be possible with a woman in your life? Anyway you look at it, a woman just adds limitations to your life.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[Anonymous 38]

hmskl’d wrote:

.. as far as I’m concerned .. tonight I made myself a fav BBQ Chicken Thin Crust Pizza .. I’m spending the evening working on my MacBook and installing a new SSD. I also need to replace all four rubber feet under the case. I bought some replacements and need the case open .. so it’s a good time to do that as well. I enjoy these small quiet projects. Over the weekend some simple winter hiking. Doesn’t cost anything and fresh air .. and that small lunch always tastes best sitting in the woods.

Sounds idyllic to me.

I believe most MGTOW are above average intelligence and mostly introverted. I contend that men in this group are the least likely to be able to live happily with a woman.

You are what you are. The justification of your personal choice to the world at large shows a reluctance to accept the programming society gave you (man up, wife and kids). When you know it was simply programming and know yourself, there’s no longer any need for justification. You need not justify your lifestyle and life choices to any one, you simply LIVE it and only you are responsible for your choices.

[Anonymous 1]

I’ve thought about this a lot too. I get offers to date young women although I never do. Why should I?

The only time I used to get lonely was when I had nothing to do. I live alone, but I have an overwhelming amount of projects to work on outside of my day job. Plus I enjoy watching red pilled content on youtube.

Electronics hobbies are a good way to spend time. If I feel really ambitious I may build some Tesla circuits and get a HAM radio license. Give the magnifying transmitter a try.

I got a whole bunch of old physics books from the 19th century. Reproducing some of Michael Faraday’s experiments would be fun too. I might make a youtube channel just reproducing old electrical experiments. Does that sound like something an AWALT would “allow” me to do? No, that stuff would get stopped real quick.

MGTOW is my Super Power.

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