What was your first red pill moment?

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

It’s weird because most of my teenage life I was mysoginistic to woman got my first girlfriend the summer after I graduated and changed everything about myself for her.

My first red pill moment was either when I realized I’d lost all my friends for a less than average companion.

That I was constantly broke, yet at 18-19 years old I had over 2 grand saved.

Or for one of her birthdays I wore sweatpants and a tshirt and I can remember her dad saying how come I didn’t dress up more like her friends did. I literally had 17$ in my chequings account, I hadn’t bought a pair of pants for myself since before our relationship started 3 years earlier.

I was like who the f~~~ do you think you are? I’ve given up everything to be with you’re daughter and all you can pick out is how poorly dressed I am? F~~~ you.

I’m currently days from dumping her ass, once the final month our our lease is up she’s getting kicked to the curb. I’ve gotten rid of 600 dollars of debt and am currently debt free.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

I was a mangina until the military, then became a white for the next few decades.

Did my research to marry the foreign unicorn. Brought her to the land of milk and honey. She couldn’t keep up her end of the bargain after our second kid and just became a lazy child.

However, she excelled at keeping up appearances, and worked hard to continue to show the guise of the good trad-con wife.

Then one day, she slipped up. I would have been white knight for life, but she slipped up. She slipped up after a decade, of being the pious, trad-con wife.

Instead of lovingly, as she typically would, say, “Thank you for paying the bills, I appreciate you supporting the family. I don’t understand why you’re so upset because I didn’t give you the bill until it was very past due.”

She said, “Yes, you pay all the bills, my bills too, so why are you whining, the bills are paid aren’t they?”

I felt my entire head turn red, and steam shoot out of my ears, like in those old Tom and Jerry cartoons.

“I’m whining?” I asked. Then she tried to backpedal, the way women do when they know they’ve REALLY fcuked up.

I stared at her seething, and I could feel all the hints and tips and life lessons just all come together in that single moment. I saw my entire life of being a mangina and then a white knight and all of the s~~~ tests over the years.

Then I pulled a 180 on how I would typically finish such an argument. I finally said, “You know what? I have been whining. I’ve been whining like a girl. But let me fix that. I’ll fix that, and you’ll never here me ‘whine’ about this again.”

I took every single bill in her name on my desk, arranged them neatly. I put then in a thick rubber band and plopped them on the coffee table in front of her, then when to bed. Best night of sleep I had in weeks. I discovered Sandman the next day. That was 18 months ago.

While I’m still married. I’m healthier, happier, make and keep more of my money, and can’t wait until my kids are 18 so I can downshift and work from a few of my most favorite spots on the planet and come home just to reset my visas.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

I had a natural inclination to be a MGTOW since childhood. I grew up in a family full of man hating feminists and i was hurt and repulsed by the constant male bashing that went on. And these women show all the classic contradictory behaviour that we associate with women as a species. It was a real eye opener for me.
I also learned at a young age that all the great men of the world were either total celibates or kept women at a very safe distance. I also saw how some men who achieved greatness fell flat on their face after they got too close to women.
Today i see many men suffering in marriages and they make jokes about being slaves to the woman.
I recently spoke to an old school friend who admitted to me that his wife is a tyrant but like many others made jokes about it. And asked me to join the club so we could suffer together. No thanks!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

sonofthedestroyer wrote:

I had a natural inclination to be a MGTOW since childhood. I grew up in a family full of man hating feminists and i was hurt and repulsed by the constant male bashing that went on. And these women show all the classic contradictory behaviour that we associate with women as a species. It was a real eye opener for me.
I also learned at a young age that all the great men of the world were either total celibates or kept women at a very safe distance. I also saw how some men who achieved greatness fell flat on their face after they got too close to women.
Today i see many men suffering in marriages and they make jokes about being slaves to the woman.
I recently spoke to an old school friend who admitted to me that his wife is a tyrant but like many others made jokes about it. And asked me to join the club so we could suffer together. No thanks!

Stay strong, brother!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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