What Was The True and Total Cost of Your Marriage?

[Anonymous 0]

0$! If you count relationships maybe around a 2k$ surplus because I was the one being spoiled all the time.

For my dad I believe something around 550k€, He kept the house though, didn’t have to pay child support (just alimony for 2 years), my sister stays around half of the time with each and I just stayed with him.
This was 3 years ago. He is way happier tan when they were married, looks much better, is healthier, and has another couple (xD) He jumps on from girl to girl though, I don’t believe he’s gonna fall in any trap again. Anyway, it’s not a conversation he’d want to have because he is kind of paranoid of his privacy and intentions.
My mother is quite miserable but she can get money from her parents and survive.

Uly, I’ve never been a father but my sister was about to die when she was born. She had a massive heart surgery on her eight day. It’s kind of a miracle that she survived. And I saw their affliction over the stress, actually, part of my mother’s brain health stayed there with that event, she’s never been the same. What I mean is that I cannot understand the sorrow but I’ve seen something borderline close to it and I (almost) know how destructive it can be. I’m so sorry

[JVBParticipant]

Dam Uly !!! Sorry my man. Just horrible.

Peace is > piece.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10915]

US 200K for spousal support, home equity money in bank attorney’s fees, bar bill for reception. Does not include paying all the bills for 9 years.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AlexeiParticipant 28]

Loss of my true aspiration of becoming a touring musician.

Years of mental anguish dealing with ex wife while kids grew up.

All told, probably $750,000 of income over 22 years of child support, divorce, and s~~~ I can’t even bear to think about. I put her through school. bought her a car. the list is endless

I learned my lesson very well.
Women are mercurial
They will change over time, and that sweet innocent young girl can morph into a bitter pill you have to take every day.

DO NOT ever have sex without a condom, unless you
get a vasectomy, and you go get tested at least TWICE
afterwards

DO NOT ever live together. That is the way women will begin to exercise control over you, rearrange your life, and you’ll be sorry

DO NOT EVER MARRY. Why chain yourself to the legal system and why sign a contract that is so expensive to get out of.

[BarnstormerParticipant 190]

Anonymous wrote:

What was the total financial cost of your marriage? As in how did the wedding cost, divorce court, assets that you lost, etc. etc.

Divorce Division of Assets- $250,000
Child Support Paid over 10 years – $250,000
Alimony – ???

I will be done with $2241 monthly child support on 10/20/17. The little cupcake still needs to sell or refinance marital home. But she is procrastinating and I will most likely need to file for contempt. Although divorce was finalized in 2008, she still may be able initiate additional divorce rape via alimony. I will fight it hard if she does so. I heard of one case in my state where the husband did a lump sum payment of $275,000 to his ex-wife to get her out of his life for good. I do not have that much to barter with.

Anonymous wrote:

How long did it take for you to work through the psychological damage done by your ex-wife? Are you still paying?

10 years and counting; however, I do not consider the Red Pill to be psychological damage. It is simply common sense. I do not trust any woman after my experiences and recently ended a cohabitation with girlfriend after I smartened up.

If you're going through hell, keep going.

[HermitParticipant]

I guess I was lucky that I married a woman who was very experienced in divorce and she knew that it could be an ugly fight. She agreed that I take what’s mine and leave what was hers. The marriage didn’t cost us anything. It was small and free. We shared a cheap lawyer and so my half was around five to six hundred dollars for the divorce. I didn’t have to pay her anything and child support was only a couple hundred dollars a month for less than a year. Now however, I will have a house payment for the rest of my life. I don’t like that, but it’s certainly much better than my previous situation.

Emotionally….that s~~~ was done and over with way before the actual divorce, so glorious glee and happiness was instantly mine after I had that signed divorce decree in my hand. Five and a half years later, I’m still very, very happy and content. Life is so good now that I’m not legally bound to a hateful miserable woman.

The greatest loss is the 21 years of my life, that should’ve been the best part of my life. It’s gone and can never be regained. I was in the best health. I could’ve been living great times. Instead, I was being controlled and I was miserable……for 21 years…..I was doing everything I could to try to make the marriage work and to try to make her happy. Strange that no matter what the situation, it was always MY fault and never her fault. I was always apologizing and I was always changing, but it was never enough. She was never satisfied and I was always miserable……..for 21 years……21 years just thrown away.

I don’t really blame her anymore. No one forced me to get married. I made the stupid choice. I was the one who threw my life away.

Do not do it. Do not get legally bound to a woman. What is the reason? What is the purpose? There’s no good reason to get married. Why do it? If you have a female you enjoy being around, then be with her on your terms, but don’t marry her. Do not move in with her. If she insists on getting married, insist on her kissing your ass and tell her to head on down the f~~~ing road. There is no logical reason to get married. It is not the normal thing to do. It is not what everyone is supposed to do. Never, ever throw your life away by getting legally bound to a female. You’re an idiot to do so.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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