What Was The Final Straw ?

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I never had a Final Straw or an actual Marriage. I was a 25 year old soft-hearted Simp living with a single mom, paying her rent etc… We were supposed to get married and she was pregnant with my kid. All within 48hrs; she mis-carried/aborted (not sure which) called off the wedding and threw me to the curb…

I remained steadfastly BLUE PILL well past that point gentlemen, CRYING and trying to Woo her back for weeks! I was heart-broken like the worst Emo-Kid you have ever seen LOLOOLOL. I was creating love letters and using glue sticks and construction paper for Christ’s sake! LOL

It was not until LATER, a couple of years of gutter-bottom drinking, some Dating App Hoes telling me how many men they’d boned and finally after I circled the alcoholic bottom and came out SOBER… Then, out of confusion and anger about the “woman problem” I found a Sandman video on Youtube in 2013, right when he was just getting started. It may have been a Karen Straughn video talking about atheism… either way, I found MGTOW on Youtube which led me to the Stardusk Compilation — THAT IS WHEN I LEARNED.. THAT WAS THE EPIPHANY.

Every year since 2013 has been filled with more confirmation, more stories read from men like the ones in this thread, more examples observed firsthand and more understanding of the social sciences explaining it all.

Nags4Cash wrote:

I said with no tact at all, that she sees him as a tool for money and a resource to help with her baby. That is an obvious point that she is more trouble than she’s worth, but he doesn’t quite see it.

He doesnt quite see it — is right! He was just like me bro. Desperate for female touch and sex… absolutely he will do anything to hold onto it. You’d be surprised the lengths he will go (addicted to the chemicals her presence and touch releases in his brain) … he is a Goner.

Its gonna get ugly… thats all I can say. Hopefully he survives it. Its that Grave of a threat. If he is prone to substance abuse then his life is in danger. When she hits the ejection switch — he is going to descend into a year or two of the worst events… She is about to pull the rug out… its literally going to burst his heart and brain functions.. the PAIN is REAL.. Emotional Pain is fuc.king REAL bro.

The whole roller coaster of emotion that women take you on IS NOT WORTH IT

[OgreParticipant 5863]

There was no final straw, just the camel collapsing and saying “No more”.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[WallyParticipant]

Never married or have kids, father told me to never get married. After years of interacting with women decided the old man was spot on. Seeing that the divorce rate for first marriages over a 40 year span is closer to 70% was pretty much a slam dunk as well.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[MenckenParticipant 693]

I never had a final straw because I never had a first straw. I was annoyed by the double standards early and saw what happened to other guys.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Gravel Pit wrote:

All within 48hrs; she mis-carried/aborted (not sure which)

I suspect the third option was the most likely.

Are you sure she was pregnant in the first place?

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

My final stra was when she returned from her vacation with our kid and her family. She left me a honey do list of things she wanted done while she was gone. I was working 10 of the 12 days she was on vacation. ER docs don’t get to take 12 days off over Christmas and New Years.

I came home from work after she got home and she’s angrily putting up Christmas decorations. I asked why she was upset. She yelled that “Obviously I can’t follow instructions and do the things she tells me to do.” I told her that I was only off for 2 days. She yelled at me again, “Two days was enough to do everything she told me to do.” It began to irritate me that she kept saying ‘told’ and not ‘asked’. I began to raise my voice and told her that while I was funding her 12 day vacation, that maybe I didn’t want to spend all of my 2 days off doing chores. Maybe, I might want some time to relax too. This was the woman who had recently told me that my job was a vacation from taking care of our kid.

I was on a tear. I told her that all these lights, decorations, inflatables, etc was what she wanted and perhaps she could help putting them up and taking them down. All I wanted was a Christmas tree. She yelled at me that she wanted a divorce. I said ok, packed some clothes, and went to my brother’s house for the night.

It spiraled down from there.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

NoMore wrote:

It spiraled down from there.

Seems to me that it spiraled up.

I mean you’re here, aren’t you? Not still stuck there putting up bullsh​it christmas decorations to pumpkin’s satisfaction, right?

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

NoMore wrote:

I told her that all these lights, decorations, inflatables, etc was what she wanted

NoMore wrote:

All I wanted was a Christmas tree.

Ahhh, yes !
The f*cking annual ‘perfect Christmas’ stress-fest………..I’m sooo over any such nonsense………
Thanks for the red-pill booster shot !! <G> (bfg)

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

NoMore wrote:

I came home from work after she got home and she’s angrily putting up Christmas decorations. I asked why she was upset. She yelled that “Obviously I can’t follow instructions and do the things she tells me to do.” I told her that I was only off for 2 days. She yelled at me again, “Two days was enough to do everything she told me to do.” It began to irritate me that she kept saying ‘told’ and not ‘asked’. .

Isn’t it amazing that these Selfish Ho’s have the audacity to do things this self centered?? To go on vacation YOU paid for and then bitch that you didn’t do “what she told you” to do on your days off?

Men, on the other hand don’t even ask a stay at home mom for a sandwich due to feeling guilty – when that is THEIR job as a homemaker.

Society has programmed women to expect men to serve them: Earn the pay, demand we do 50 percent of the child rearing and housework. WTF

[GeraldParticipant 3628]

I was too blind to know that moment until well after… see my posts on my story for clarity.

I should have known it was over the moment the ring went on the finger.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Gerald wrote:

I was too blind to know that moment until well after… see my posts on my story for clarity.
I should have known it was over the moment the ring went on the finger.

Well you are lucky, YOUR BITCH IS DEAD.

how does it feels to be a real free men?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[GeraldParticipant 3628]

Carnage wrote:

Gerald wrote:

I was too blind to know that moment until well after… see my posts on my story for clarity.I should have known it was over the moment the ring went on the finger.

Well you are lucky, YOUR BITCH IS DEAD.
how does it feels to be a real free men?

It is good, though the blue pill is strong and there are times I reflect and am saddened. Life is good though, amazing how much debt I am crushing and things I can accomplish… or not accomplish by just drinking beer in the pool.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

CombatRoll wrote:

Men, on the other hand don’t even ask a stay at home mom for a sandwich due to feeling guilty – when that is THEIR job as a homemaker.

I think the last “homemakers” died out in the 70’s…MAYBE, a few made it into the 80’s, but their replacement models are far from anything related to being a Home Maker….Then again that’s expecting a lot out of the lil HO’S that have only learned to jump from c~~~ to c~~~ from the age of 14 not to many were taught or have bothered learning how to cook, bake, clean, sew, SUCCESFULLY take care of children, etc. etc. etc. etc.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Gerald wrote:

Carnage wrote:

Gerald wrote:

I was too blind to know that moment until well after… see my posts on my story for clarity.I should have known it was over the moment the ring went on the finger.

Well you are lucky, YOUR BITCH IS DEAD.how does it feels to be a real free men?

It is good, though the blue pill is strong and there are times I reflect and am saddened. Life is good though, amazing how much debt I am crushing and things I can accomplish… or not accomplish by just drinking beer in the pool.

When you have an ex is never over if she is alive, even without kids, something comes up, old documents, people contact you, stuff like that.

Dead wife, happy life.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Carnage wrote:

When you have an ex is never over if she is alive, even without kids, something comes up, old documents, people contact you, stuff like that. Dead wife, happy life.

When my wife died, I severed all connection with her family. I vanished. No forwarding address, nothing. Before I gave them her photo albums, I removed any picture that included me.

I’ve had to keep some paperwork for legal reasons, but that’s in a box in the loft.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I SHOULD have know it was over even before it began, before we married. I did a prank where I seemed to have died (she actually DID think I was dead) but she had no reaction at all. I asked her “well, what exactly were you thinking then”. Answer: “What do I do with dead body?”. Should have been obvious she just wanted a beta-bucks.

I was a damn idiot to stay, but the blue-pill haze is real, and pussy is a helluva drug. I’ve never done any illegal drugs, but pussy has to be one of the worse legal drugs.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Nags4Cash wrote:

Hmm what’s interesting to me is that no one said they had the full realization at the earlier more subtle signs.

Men are naturally fixers and we “try to do the right thing”. We will ignore the subtle signs for years because we aren’t quite red pilled and don’t fully understand what’s going on in her pea brain. Men are brought up from a young age to believe they are the problem in a relationship and women are highly skilled at reinforcing and developing this SELF BLAME that men have. They often batter men down for years and even decades, manipulating the man into believing that the problem lies with him instead of with her crazy ass. Manipulation, mental and emotional abuse is at the core of the feminine.

Awakened wrote:

I can also throw in the mix that she became/is a COMPLETE JESUS FREAK.

My ex went down many spiritual paths (i.e. Buddism) and has only recently immersed herself in Christianity. Anything to avoid the real world. Every time she starts something like this she goes all in. Christian women are absolutely some of the worst.

As for the final straw for me….there were bales of hay piled on my back for years before she one day replied to me “If I have to get a job I don’t want to be married”. I said great and 12 weeks later our house was sold. It’s been a cluster f~~~ since. I still have that chain from the plantation around my ankle but I have more or less complete control of my kids. Unlike other guys my wife never cheated, didn’t bring any debt into the relationship, still looks great at 48 and worked hard until the day we decided to have kids. I then spent the next several years working, raising kids and going into massive debt while she flaked out. With very few exceptions any man having children with a women in her 30’s is just being stupid. His wife is like having two extra children. Watch out for the borderline personalities and narcissists gentlemen. If you are not wise to this gynocentric catastrophe known as society you will get f~~~ed.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

Carnage wrote:

When you have an ex is never over if she is alive, even without kids, something comes up, old documents, people contact you, stuff like that.
Dead wife, happy life.

If my wife manages to play the game right I’ll be on the hook paying for her till the day I die. Slavery is alive and well and the formerly married man is the new slave (black, brown, white or yellow).

NoMore wrote:

This was the woman who had recently told me that my job was a vacation from taking care of our kid.

As if stay at home mom isn’t the easiest job in the world. So many of these t~~~s want to be that 1950’s mom minus any of the housework or child rearing responsibility. Even in the 50’s that average woman was fully retired between 22 and 40. The new division of duties in the home appears to be men work and provide the cash while raising the kids and keeping the house clean because muh vagina.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

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