What to do about blue pill friends?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Hi everyone,
My question is, what should I do about my friends who are all blue pill men, white knights, manginas, etc…….Some of them are currently in a relationship, some of them currently single…….I don’t want to give up my friends, I’ve known them for years.. I’ve been MGTOW for less than one year. However, non of them want to take the red pill. Any suggestions?

Thanks

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[WolfParticipant 890]

They won’t take the red pill until they want to. You can’t force it. Unfortunately, many men don’t take the red pill until they have stepped on a land mine and got their leg blown off. For those that haven’t experienced it, they may see examples of it, but claim that their sweetheart is a NAWALT.

I have blue pill friends. They know how I feel. They don’t argue with me about it, nor do I argue with them. It’s their life and they have to lay in the bed they make.

[Anonymous 11]

Secretly laugh at them as you easily predict what happens to them weeks, months or years in advance. Be there to pick up the pieces. Plant a red pill and hope for the best. Until a blue piller gets his head bashed in repeatedly, it’s difficult to reach them. They won’t listen. Encourage them to buy candy, flowers and cards for sport.

I’ll take a woman for a friend over a mangina any day. At least a woman is not a traitor to her sex.

[Anonymous 26]

It’s a fine line to walk along…. you don’t want to lose your friends over their weeemin. Some guys are pretty solid with the bro code believing that “hoes come and go, bros are forever”.

It depends if some of them you can push their buttons with humour and slowly get them to start seeing a little more through red lenses. Brotherly ridicule goes a long way sometimes…. and other times it can totally backfire.

(Am not a psychiatrist nor an expert in men or human behaviour)

Though question MgtowUnited !

[Anonymous 42]

I hate to put it this way,,,,, watch them fall, one by one, until there is none….
The pussy is all they understand, MGTOW is too foreign to them! Some men just keep getting burned until he has nothing remaining to burn, but even then he’ll go out to earn more to gain approval and start the cycle all over again!
It’s like they’re addicted to giving more and more effort for less and less return! go figure! Wait, I retract that, you already did go figure, and like most here, you figured MGTOW……
They’ll learn the hard way! I had an old friend I ran into, he was actually envious of my free man position in life, he was out getting baby formula, I was NOT!
One thing’s for sure, you can’t put the baby back in the oven, you can only stop from making another!
He left the store somewhat regretting his life’s choices, I left the store in jubilee with my supplies to go skiing!
His powder is Jonson&Jonson for baby, My powder is Solomon & Marker for knee deep in fresh!
Why do men do it??? What do they see??? I’m bewildered??? It’s like going to a hand chopping contest! whoever cuts off both hands wins!!
Life is GOOD when you’re not a slave!!!
And he was driving a s~~~box car to boot!
He’d divorced now, but still as blue as the sky on a sunny day!
You can’t stop blue from being blue, you can only change yourself from red to redder! My BABY blue days never were, and never will be!
Baby toting through a divorce? F~~~ THAT!

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Lead by example. Let your life be an example of the good things mgtow can do for a man. All we can do is show them the alternative. The choice is theirs.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

Get rid of them. Don’t be mean, just let them slip away.

Personally I’ve gotten rid of most of my friends this year, after going MGTOW.

I get tired of hearing them complain. My one friend has a gf that he makes sandwiches for.. Gets no pussy whatsoever. Not even a sniff.

He cant stand his master, but the thought of leaving doesn’t even cross his mind… Stockholm syndrome??!

Not my property... Not my problem

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

NotMyProblem wrote:

Get rid of them. Don’t be mean, just let them slip away.

Personally I’ve gotten rid of most of my friends this year, after going MGTOW.

I get tired of hearing them complain. My one friend has a gf that he makes sandwiches for.. Gets no pussy whatsoever. Not even a sniff.

He cant stand his master, but the thought of leaving doesn’t even cross his mind… Stockholm syndrome??!

This sounds easy but most of us don’t have friends who are MGTOW. “”get rid of them”” means having no friends left.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

It really depends on the person you’re talking to. 90% of the time it will backfire but if he has some red in the mix already it might help to talk to him.
I had some red in the mix when i was in my last relationship.Funnily i got some red pill advice from a blue pill man, and then i snapped and said “f~~~ it” and ditched her.
Pick the ones that are looking for the red pill ignore the others.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Blue Skies wrote:

Sovereign wrote:

Get rid of them. Don’t be mean, just let them slip away.

Personally I’ve gotten rid of most of my friends this year, after going MGTOW.

I get tired of hearing them complain. My one friend has a gf that he makes sandwiches for.. Gets no pussy whatsoever. Not even a sniff.

He cant stand his master, but the thought of leaving doesn’t even cross his mind… Stockholm syndrome??!

This sounds easy but most of us don’t have friends who are MGTOW. “”get rid of them”” means having no friends left.

Well, that is one option.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I still hang out with my blue pill mangina friend… we have arguments and I tell you guys about them, hearing his point of view keeps me focused almost as much as being here does.

I know I’m not going to change him… and I’m not going to beat him over the head with my point of view… but if he hears me say something and it piques his curiosity and he goes out and starts down the path on his own, then good for him. Meanwhile I get to enjoy watching his little mangina hamster run on its wheel while he tries to justify why we need to pay women’s bills, raise their pay, take care of their children, protect them from combat, encourage them to go into in STEM, make LEGOs for them and generally fall all over ourselves in hopes of getting a thank-you blowjob from one of them, some day,

But this guy is involuntarily celibate and is unlikely to actually get into any sort of relationship, blue pill or otherwise. The worst blue pill men I used to know aren’t friends of mine anymore because the female in their lives have forced them to cut me off. So that pretty much takes care of itself.

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Blue Skies wrote:

Sovereign wrote:

Get rid of them. Don’t be mean, just let them slip away.

Personally I’ve gotten rid of most of my friends this year, after going MGTOW.

I get tired of hearing them complain. My one friend has a gf that he makes sandwiches for.. Gets no pussy whatsoever. Not even a sniff.

He cant stand his master, but the thought of leaving doesn’t even cross his mind… Stockholm syndrome??!

This sounds easy but most of us don’t have friends who are MGTOW. “”get rid of them”” means having no friends left.

@MgtowUnited We are on the same boat, what I do is just ignore their blue pill ways
They are your friends, hopefully overall nice guys but you cant just force them to go MGTOW

Being a MGTOW must come from one’s initiative cause only then you get the resolve and tell yourself “I have had enough”

Forcing them will only create a rift between you and them so just go with the flow but stick with your values and have them respect that since you give them the same respect.

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

I would cut them off slowly. If you don’t they will sure try to stuff you with blue pills.

[Anonymous 3]

What is your definition of friend?

To me it’s someone that I can trust and who will look out for me, the same way I’m there for them.

Never met a blue piller that I could say that about. The only person that can trust a blue piller is his female master, and even she knows not to trust him completely and probably ultimately can’t stand him.

So instead for me what it really is, it’s other dudes that are acquaintances that maybe share a hobby. As long as the community is strong for whatever hobby it is, men will come and go but there will always be people you can share it with.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

The same question has been on my mind since i entered this forum, but i never made a topic about it, because deep inside i was pretty sure that my attempts to save my friends will fail. I gave it a little shot to both of my best friends, because 1 is going to get married in the next 0-3 years and the other one is in real danger too. Both chicks are gold diggers… thats obvious to me, but i checked if i can do anything for my friends so i made a few tests…result: no i cant! I will have to watch them fail it seems…they dont wanna hear anything that they havent thought of already on their own.
Thats how most people are… they cant accept that you know something that they dont know. Id say give up on teaching them about women, because they will hate on you for trying to help them ( they think they are smarter than you anways, thats typically human )

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

I’m at a point where I don’t seek anything out there. I have my project to work on and that’s my life right now.

I’m also an introvert that has an extremely extroverted job, so I have hundreds of acquaintances I see on a day to day basis.

People overload. So it’s easier for me to drop a few people out of my life.

Not my property... Not my problem

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

I’m a introvert similar to some of you. That’s helped me adapt to MGTOW. I feel happy, and fulfilled when I’m alone. I love listening to music or going on a walk by myself. Me and my thoughts. Thanks for all your ideas. From now on, when I am with my friends, I’ll just be laughing on the inside. Several years from now, when they realize the blue pill tastes like s~~~, they will envy my life.
Cheers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

the blue pill idiots are all over the place …start some red pill thinking with them and feel them out …it’s usually not gonna work out for you ….let them learn on their own …you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink ! ..be patient and you will see them ruin their lives …then , if you really are a true friend ..be there for them .

[BDParticipant 1146]

I find the blue pill friends entertaining, they ground me, because every time I hear about a blue pill spending or slaving for a vagina, I realize how good my life is, like free red pills.

Talking to them, as a metaphor, Is kind of like traveling to a third world country, you’re always happy to come home to Mgtow civilization.

NotMyProblem wrote:

I get tired of hearing them complain. My one friend has a gf that he makes sandwiches for.. Gets no pussy whatsoever. Not even a sniff.

I eliminate all toxic people, I give them a few warnings and then explain straight up why i am ditching them, I tell them to contact me when they stop living in drama bulls~~~ because I am not a councilor for people who self inflict their own hardship. Life is too short to bother with that.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[RoyDalParticipant]

They won’t wise up until they are good and ready, as so many of the previous posts have pointed out. If you think Mr. Blue is on the cusp of being receptive to changing the thought patterns and habits that have dominated his life since childhood (it could happen), then:

Have him read this article:
13 Lies Men Tell Themselves to Stay in Bad Relationships
http://shrink4men.com/2015/08/29/13-lies-men-tell-themselves-to-stay-in-bad-relationships/

If he needs more, then …
Have him read this book, so he can figure out how she is manipulating him (buy it used to keep your price low and no royalties to the man-hating authors):
How to Keep Him on a Short Leash by Jessica Rubin, Lindsey Musante
http://www.amazon.com/How-Keep-Him-Short-Leash/dp/0061862754/

If either of the above has him ready to make plans to save himself, then …
Have him read The Manipulated Man from the Books section of this site. Be warned, it’s strong stuff. A shortened version is available as a free download PDF, if you search for it. In addition, it has been read aloud and posted on YouTube
/books/

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