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I’d never go to couple’s therapy (man blaming) and individual therapy is grasping at straws when the problem isn’t a person in the room. Blue pills love it though, because if it doesn’t work there is someone else to blame.
My experience was kind of different. It was the wife’s idea, and I had no problem going along. I paid attention, I did the homework, I accepted recommendations and implemented them in my behavior. My then wife did not. She then accused me of using therapy as a means of controlling her.
Insane. No matter what, they will always try to lay blame on you. My x blamed me for making her sick, as if I somehow had the power to cause her gallbladder to fail. She also blamed me for her miscarriage. I’m surprised she didn’t try to blame me for her 3 previous failed marriages.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
3 previous marriages. I’m glad you’ve recovered from your previous white knight status. I married a girl who was a virgin before I took some test drives prior to the contract. Still a fail, but we’re all here. If I can’t laugh at my own stupidity how can I laugh at everyone else… and man, do I laugh at guys marrying pros without the pay.
New seniors graduate every year in June. Why accept a used up model?
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
3 previous marriages. I’m glad you’ve recovered from your previous white knight status. I married a girl who was a virgin before I took some test drives prior to the contract. Still a fail, but we’re all here. If I can’t laugh at my own stupidity how can I laugh at everyone else… and man, do I laugh at guys marrying pros without the pay.
New seniors graduate every year in June. Why accept a used up model?No white knight here. That’s never been me. I was young and dumb and unable to understand what I was doing at the time. I have no idea why I have done the stupid things that I have. I have however been able to learn from those mistakes.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I wasn’t slamming you Hermit but Marrying a thrice divorced woman was a white knight move.
I ‘m a purist. Purity from her. 18-22 two previous Ds (max), that why I accept alone as a valid option. I’ve got s~~~ I want to do, and old slags aren’t part of that program.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
She looked young for her age. LOL
I don’t even remember if I knew she had been married that many times when I married her. Like I said, I was really young and making some pretty stupid decisions, obviously.
The cold hard truth in this saying will haunt me to my grave……….”Youth is wasted on the young”.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I’m surprised she didn’t try to blame me for her 3 previous failed marriages.
She probably did – you are part of the patriarchy and therefore guilty by association.
The hamster wheel can rationalise absolutely anything away.
I felt peaceful reading it.Of course all the people out there can’t fathom why you’d choose the quiet river. It’s ‘dull’ and ‘unexciting’. They thrive on the drama the rapids bring. This is why you end up dropping so many people from your life, you want to paddle your kayak in tranquillity and leave the fools to capsize and drown in dangerous waters.“Still waters run deep”.
Awesome reply as well. I love sitting in silence and just let my mind wander. I know I should let go of everything (I’ve been meaning to for years, but I can’t seem to) and just concentrate on meditation but I guess I’m not at that point yet. But I agree, I long for the quiet river.
As soon as I read his post about the river, it immediately threw me back in time when I lived way out in the country and we had a small, but wonderful river nearby. All us kids would go there and fish and swim and sometimes just to hang out and watch the water slowly roll by. Sometimes we’d paddle a boat way up the river and find a nice sandbar to pull up to and just kick back and enjoy nature. We’d sit there for hours. It was so peaceful. I miss that river so much it makes me sad that I don’t live there anymore.
Sweet. Just living purely and simply.
Insane. No matter what, they will always try to lay blame on you. My x blamed me for making her sick, as if I somehow had the power to cause her gallbladder to fail. She also blamed me for her miscarriage. I’m surprised she didn’t try to blame me for her 3 previous failed marriages.
I’m not surprised:
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
All good posts, brothers! For me, I have never been married and will never be. I enjoy the quiet river and laugh at the ones who capsize on the rougher waters. It is not that I want to see people fail, mind you, rather I find it absolutely fascinating to witness people who willingly and knowingly go towards their own destruction. People create their own hells and willingly live in them, then complain about the hell they are in. I have seen this time and time again in life. It utterly confuses me yet utterly fascinates me at the same time. People are definitely their own worst enemies.
Keep on the smooth road and the quiet river brothers!
Man I tell ya’, before I finally figure out women, I almost went insane. Their illogical behavior baffled and confused me for years. I could not understand why there was no pleasing them. I didn’t get why they’d just get mad at you for no damn reason at all even though you did nothing wrong. Why was there no compromise? Why didn’t they make sense? Why would they tell you they love you and then be so damn mean and hateful? Why would they say one thing on this day and then get p~~~ed off and say the opposite the next day? Why is it ok for them to call you an asshole, but not ok for you to call them a bitch?
Then, FINALLY, finally I figured it out. Women are overly emotional, stupid and childish. That’s it. It’s that simple. Once you come to that realization, along with the realization that they are ALL LIKE THAT, and you learn to just stay the f~~~ away from them, life gets easier.Damn, I swear that you and I are the same person, LOL. My wife was like this several years ago when the kids were toddlers (still this way to an extent but not as bad). She was always bitching about something, and it was my fault no matter if I had anything to do with it or not. Being the beta that I was at the time, I tried to do everything just right so she wouldn’t be mad – doesn’t work (yes, I was dumb). She’d tell me how she couldn’t trust me to do anything, how dumb I was, etc., but if I said anything back, then I’m mean and hateful. If I missed a parking spot, she’d act like I just committed the most heinous crime in the world – of course, if it was anyone else driving, then it wasn’t a problem.
Once I figured out that I needed to bark back at her, things improved somewhat. I recall coming home late from work as it was my busy time of year, and she was having a fit because she was supposed to go out to meet a friend. Told her to go ahead and leave since I was home, and she kept giving me the martyr syndrome (“No, I’ll just stay home”). Finally yelled at her that I’m home and to just go ahead and leave. Needless to say, she was shocked and didn’t like it, but it did improve her attitude.
Man I tell ya’, before I finally figure out women, I almost went insane. Their illogical behavior baffled and confused me for years. I could not understand why there was no pleasing them. I didn’t get why they’d just get mad at you for no damn reason at all even though you did nothing wrong. Why was there no compromise? Why didn’t they make sense? Why would they tell you they love you and then be so damn mean and hateful? Why would they say one thing on this day and then get p~~~ed off and say the opposite the next day? Why is it ok for them to call you an asshole, but not ok for you to call them a bitch?Then, FINALLY, finally I figured it out. Women are overly emotional, stupid and childish. That’s it. It’s that simple. Once you come to that realization, along with the realization that they are ALL LIKE THAT, and you learn to just stay the f~~~ away from them, life gets easier.
Damn, I swear that you and I are the same person, LOL. My wife was like this several years ago when the kids were toddlers (still this way to an extent but not as bad). She was always bitching about something, and it was my fault no matter if I had anything to do with it or not. Being the beta that I was at the time, I tried to do everything just right so she wouldn’t be mad – doesn’t work (yes, I was dumb). She’d tell me how she couldn’t trust me to do anything, how dumb I was, etc., but if I said anything back, then I’m mean and hateful. If I missed a parking spot, she’d act like I just committed the most heinous crime in the world – of course, if it was anyone else driving, then it wasn’t a problem.
Once I figured out that I needed to bark back at her, things improved somewhat. I recall coming home late from work as it was my busy time of year, and she was having a fit because she was supposed to go out to meet a friend. Told her to go ahead and leave since I was home, and she kept giving me the martyr syndrome (“No, I’ll just stay home”). Finally yelled at her that I’m home and to just go ahead and leave. Needless to say, she was shocked and didn’t like it, but it did improve her attitude.You and I may be the same, but our women are not, at least not where yelling is concerned. Raising my voice to my x got me at least 2 days of the silent treatment but that was it. There was nothing I could say or do to get her to do anything. She is one of the most hard headed broads I’ve ever met.
Sh!t I’m so happy I’m not with her anymore!
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Was there couples therapy two hundred years ago? Therapy is a bulls~~~ profession invented to drug people for profit. The whole industry is a farce.
Was there couples therapy two hundred years ago? Therapy is a bulls~~~ profession invented to drug people for profit. The whole industry is a farce.
It is idiotic. Therapy is a joke. IF I needed someone to talk to, I have a friend or even an acquaintance, but I can’t remember ever NEEDING to talk to someone when I have a problem.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Man I tell ya’, before I finally figure out women, I almost went insane. Their illogical behavior baffled and confused me for years. I could not understand why there was no pleasing them. I didn’t get why they’d just get mad at you for no damn reason at all even though you did nothing wrong. Why was there no compromise? Why didn’t they make sense? Why would they tell you they love you and then be so damn mean and hateful? Why would they say one thing on this day and then get p~~~ed off and say the opposite the next day? Why is it ok for them to call you an asshole, but not ok for you to call them a bitch?Then, FINALLY, finally I figured it out. Women are overly emotional, stupid and childish. That’s it. It’s that simple. Once you come to that realization, along with the realization that they are ALL LIKE THAT, and you learn to just stay the f~~~ away from them, life gets easier.
Damn, I swear that you and I are the same person, LOL. My wife was like this several years ago when the kids were toddlers (still this way to an extent but not as bad). She was always bitching about something, and it was my fault no matter if I had anything to do with it or not. Being the beta that I was at the time, I tried to do everything just right so she wouldn’t be mad – doesn’t work (yes, I was dumb). She’d tell me how she couldn’t trust me to do anything, how dumb I was, etc., but if I said anything back, then I’m mean and hateful. If I missed a parking spot, she’d act like I just committed the most heinous crime in the world – of course, if it was anyone else driving, then it wasn’t a problem.Once I figured out that I needed to bark back at her, things improved somewhat. I recall coming home late from work as it was my busy time of year, and she was having a fit because she was supposed to go out to meet a friend. Told her to go ahead and leave since I was home, and she kept giving me the martyr syndrome (“No, I’ll just stay home”). Finally yelled at her that I’m home and to just go ahead and leave. Needless to say, she was shocked and didn’t like it, but it did improve her attitude.
You and I may be the same, but our women are not, at least not where yelling is concerned. Raising my voice to my x got me at least 2 days of the silent treatment but that was it. There was nothing I could say or do to get her to do anything. She is one of the most hard headed broads I’ve ever met.
Sh!t I’m so happy I’m not with her anymore!Ah, the dreaded silent treatment, LOL. At least you got some quiet. My wife isn’t too bad on this, but she’s had her moments. I recall when her siblings had an issue between them, and her drama queen sister called my wife to complain about something their brother did or didn’t do. My wife had been visiting her family with the kids that day while I was at work, and when I got home (which is right after they got home), wife was giving me the silent treatment, which I figured was due to her having the kids all day (she made it seem that taking the kids to see her family was a death march – she’d always be p~~~y when she got home while I’d take them to my family and we’d be fine). Couple days later took the kids to the sitter and asked the sitter what the deal was as she and my wife are always texting. Sitter tells me that wife was mad at me because her sister was upset with her brother, and she knew that I usually sided with the brother in times like this, so wife was mad at me (yes, makes zero sense). Told the sitter that it was amazing how I got in trouble for something that I had nothing to do with – sitter actually agreed with me.
Insane. No matter what, they will always try to lay blame on you. My x blamed me for making her sick, as if I somehow had the power to cause her gallbladder to fail. She also blamed me for her miscarriage. I’m surprised she didn’t try to blame me for her 3 previous failed marriages.
I’m not surprised:<iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/0g9_wfkYjfo?start=31&feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allow=”accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture” allowfullscreen=””></iframe>
BUwhahaha. That clip is GOLD to the last second. Jack is the best!
Man I tell ya’, before I finally figure out women, I almost went insane. Their illogical behavior baffled and confused me for years. I could not understand why there was no pleasing them. I didn’t get why they’d just get mad at you for no damn reason at all even though you did nothing wrong. Why was there no compromise? Why didn’t they make sense? Why would they tell you they love you and then be so damn mean and hateful? Why would they say one thing on this day and then get p~~~ed off and say the opposite the next day? Why is it ok for them to call you an asshole, but not ok for you to call them a bitch?Then, FINALLY, finally I figured it out. Women are overly emotional, stupid and childish. That’s it. It’s that simple. Once you come to that realization, along with the realization that they are ALL LIKE THAT, and you learn to just stay the f~~~ away from them, life gets easier.
Damn, I swear that you and I are the same person, LOL. My wife was like this several years ago when the kids were toddlers (still this way to an extent but not as bad). She was always bitching about something, and it was my fault no matter if I had anything to do with it or not. Being the beta that I was at the time, I tried to do everything just right so she wouldn’t be mad – doesn’t work (yes, I was dumb). She’d tell me how she couldn’t trust me to do anything, how dumb I was, etc., but if I said anything back, then I’m mean and hateful. If I missed a parking spot, she’d act like I just committed the most heinous crime in the world – of course, if it was anyone else driving, then it wasn’t a problem.Once I figured out that I needed to bark back at her, things improved somewhat. I recall coming home late from work as it was my busy time of year, and she was having a fit because she was supposed to go out to meet a friend. Told her to go ahead and leave since I was home, and she kept giving me the martyr syndrome (“No, I’ll just stay home”). Finally yelled at her that I’m home and to just go ahead and leave. Needless to say, she was shocked and didn’t like it, but it did improve her attitude.
You and I may be the same, but our women are not, at least not where yelling is concerned. Raising my voice to my x got me at least 2 days of the silent treatment but that was it. There was nothing I could say or do to get her to do anything. She is one of the most hard headed broads I’ve ever met.Sh!t I’m so happy I’m not with her anymore!
Ah, the dreaded silent treatment, LOL. At least you got some quiet. My wife isn’t too bad on this, but she’s had her moments. I recall when her siblings had an issue between them, and her drama queen sister called my wife to complain about something their brother did or didn’t do. My wife had been visiting her family with the kids that day while I was at work, and when I got home (which is right after they got home), wife was giving me the silent treatment, which I figured was due to her having the kids all day (she made it seem that taking the kids to see her family was a death march – she’d always be p~~~y when she got home while I’d take them to my family and we’d be fine). Couple days later took the kids to the sitter and asked the sitter what the deal was as she and my wife are always texting. Sitter tells me that wife was mad at me because her sister was upset with her brother, and she knew that I usually sided with the brother in times like this, so wife was mad at me (yes, makes zero sense). Told the sitter that it was amazing how I got in trouble for something that I had nothing to do with – sitter actually agreed with me.
That is definitely typical of all women, including women I work with. They just decide they need to be mad at someone even if there’s no reason at all. My x blamed me for her miscarriages before she was finally able to have my son. Yeah, I’m sure it had nothing to do with the fact that she was in her mid 40’s when we were trying to have a child. She also blamed me for her gallbladder going bad. How in the hell could I possibly be responsible for her gallbladder needing to be removed?
Women are stupid, childish and illogical. When shi.t goes wrong in their lives, they have to blame someone for it, even if they bring it about themselves, (which they do most of the time).
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
That is definitely typical of all women, including women I work with. They just decide they need to be mad at someone even if there’s no reason at all. My x blamed me for her miscarriages before she was finally able to have my son. Yeah, I’m sure it had nothing to do with the fact that she was in her mid 40’s when we were trying to have a child. She also blamed me for her gallbladder going bad. How in the hell could I possibly be responsible for her gallbladder needing to be removed?
Women are stupid, childish and illogical. When shi.t goes wrong in their lives, they have to blame someone for it, even if they bring it about themselves, (which they do most of the time).My wife’s sister is like you describe. She has been through multiple jobs and marriages, and never is it her fault. The woman is your stereotypical drama queen, and the fact that she’s had all of these marriages and jobs is the fault of her ex-husbands and ex-bosses. Funny thing is her kids (both young men) know how she is, and the one has even told me about some of the dumb stuff his mom has done.
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