What Made You The Person You Are Today?

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

It was back in the 1980’s, long before there was anything called the Red Pill, I had a lesbian cousin who insisted I get what she called “The Inoculation”.

She worked in construction, with men. And one of the reasons she was happy in that work is because the men she worked with came to treat her with respect because she came to work, not shop for a new man to use.

And, being a woman and closeted until she got outed by her own sister, got to hear all the things straight women said about men behind their back. She also knew of lesbian and bi women who would say the same things. She also saw how the men she worked with, who taught her the trade and respected her, got treated by “their women”.

Was she some “unicorn” ? No, she just considered herself an exile from what we would call The Hive. She had an honest streak in her a mile wide and a work ethic to go with it.

We used to spend hours at her place, drinking beers, ordering take out and talking.

S~~~ tests ? She called that “jumping through hoops”.

“Upgrading” is what she called hypergamy.

Marriage ? “Are you crazy ? I’m a goddamn woman and know better than to trust them !”

Gay Marriage ? “Screw that ! I don’t want to go through what my coworkers have been through !”

Wedding cake ? “Perfect for killing a straight woman’s sex drive. Except if you are the Mail Man !”

Anytime I questioned or forgot a lesson, some woman would prove her case and she would respond, “See ? What did I tell you ?”

Pump and Dump ? She said “Dine them and do them before they divorce and divest you ! That’s what I would do !”

“Isn’t that using them ?”

“What do you think some of these married women do with us ? They are trying to use you !”

She was the one who told me to take a hard look at married men, see how their lives really where. And when they would tell me that marriage was their biggest mistake, she would point it out, “Don’t just take my word for it.”

When I decided at 17 to never get married, she gave me the biggest bear hug and said “Thank God someone listened !”

Between her and those men, they made me what I am today.

Free, single and never trapped with a ball and chain.

Frank V.

PS: I think if she where alive today (lost her in a car accident in the 1990’s) she would look at MGTOW and simply say “Who can blame them ?”

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Being a Nice Guy and ignored/used by women. Working in offices with women also puts you off women a bit. Oh, and having a nutty sister, does not help either.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

My dad was my major influence. He taught me to be the man I am today. To not succumb to my emotions and to think rationally.

Aside from this others are as follows:
– Countless bulls~~~ from women
– Selfish people
– Blue Pill men and white knights
I learned lots from them to do the opposite. Also see women for what they really are and can spot the bulls~~~ easily.

As for the good things well
– music has helped me lots
– lifting weights and wokring out. My goal is to lift 500 Lbs. I lifted 350 so far
– working out
– anime teaches me to balance things out
– spirituality
– and meditating

These all helped become the person I am today. I am not complete as I still have much to learn.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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