What is wrong with my generation?

[aidanParticipant 12]

I’ve read so many stories here, thank you all so much. It gives young people like me a chance.

One thing I’ve learned in my short 21 years of life is relationships, of any kind (friends, work, family, romance), are only worthwhile when both people are genuinely interested in helping each other better themselves.

This is inherent in my family, and although rare, I’ve found a handful of great friends who live up to this expectation. We want the best for each other, truly. Because of past work relationships, I’ve become a hawk for uncovering “users” and “manipulators”, learning most from a sociopathic business partner.

But to the MGTOW point: I’ve never met a woman in my life who live by that simple rule my friends, coworkers, and family exemplify.

To preface, I’m a young college dropout on the fast track. I’m attracted to independent, ambitious woman who take on life like I do. The women in my circles present themselves as go-getters, bleeding with ambition, and leading with an independence so fierce you want them to want you. They’re assumably future makers & shakers, business leaders, even politicians, and it’s so easy to get sucked into their rhetoric, it’s sexy as hell.

Like clockwork though, usually right after sex, they settle back into their true selves. I think the best way to describe it is that they think they “have you now.” They go from female quarterback to cheerleader, from driven career woman to princess, partner for life to housewife, and thus you learn the depth of their lies. I’ve had pregnancy scares and so much emotional manipulation thrown at me, simply because I chose to walk away.

I’m beginning to think the only way a woman can uniquely better me is by providing me with children, in exchange for my everything. I don’t want to think this way, but I’m finding most women in my life, consciously or not, act and operate the way they do to seduce a man into providing for them. I’m not having it.

So that’s why I’m here; I’m refusing to settle, I’m refusing to seek out any relationships, I will simply go my own way till life figures it out for me, if it ever does.

[LeoYourKingParticipant 225]

Welcome brother!!
Before you think about having children with a women you should be aware of how it can negative affect you. A woman can take away your children and money (child support) or she can poison their soul talking s~~~ about you with them. If you really want to have a kid you can always adopt. You can choose your child form any race..LOL Woman cannot benefit you on the long run and some MGTOW will say not even in the short run. Just have fun with them, use them, and left them.
I see the same in women. They present themselves as someone who really can be your soulmate. Same ambitions and likes. However, when they become comfortable they get lazy and show who they are. I had a bad experience with one woman before my MGTOW awakening. I could say that she was like my other me but in female. We had a great relationship for long time. However, she started to become lazier and lazier. She wanted me to take care of every thing in my life and her life. I pushed her to become better but she did not want to. So I just left.

[LeoYourKingParticipant 225]

Dammmm your photo when for normal to creepy really fast….LoL

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to MGTOW! You say; “what is wrong with my generation?”, I say the same thing that’s wrong with mine, it’s human!

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

aidan wrote:

the only way a woman can uniquely better me

A woman can never “better you” except by her absence.

Welcome but please leave the excess baggage at the door. If you are still attracted to women for more than anything but a pump&dump you’re in for serious trouble. You are in need of radical de-programming and fortunately you’re in the right place for that.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome to the brother hood.

Having kids to a woman is like giving her a gun to hold you hostage and torture you .
Government, cops,court are there to help her too.Hope you learn from all the guys here so this never happens to you.Trust me my friend it is not worth the pain.Ps.i love my kids.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Welcome Aiden ,

There are good people I learn from here everyday, just reading the forumns. All I can say is be wise according to your MIND and excersize good judgement, and avoid allure because thats all it is(temptation of and to the unknown.)You seem to know that already.You’re twenty-one and on the way to a bright future however, i sensed doubt in your writing.Your attraction to ambitious women is because you think them different somehow–rude awakening–its a result of fantasy and imagination hence its imaginery.
Who doesnt love what they imagine.

To the MGTOW point:since your young and expirience hasnt taken your for a drive, if you’re unaware , a clear understang of women

Women Don‘t follow rules so any expectations you’ll have regarding relationships dont exist within that frame.Without trying to be hurtfull your expectations will never serve a womens purpouse for: herself. They are purpouse-built around happiness that of self-reverence.There is no self-revealing nature to them, they only see you and see that you should obey.Just be carefull.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! Do heed the wise words in the previous posts.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome.
You want to throw away your freedom? ..
Have a kid.
At 21 you can wait 25 more years and then screw up your life like I did!
It’s not worth it.
Don’t knock up any woman or you’ll be very very sorry. ..
I wish it wasn’t like that, but it is.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Having kids is wonderful, wonderful god dammit! So wonderful, that you will throw your life away for them, and you will keep on doing it no matter how miserable that c~~~ you had the kids with makes your life. And then, one day, she will take them away from you, together with everything you own, and she will turn them against you. And you will hate your life, but you will still love them, because you(us) are just another animal programmed to do so.
Be strong brother! Welcome!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

aidan wrote:

I’m beginning to think the only way a woman can uniquely better me is by providing me with children, in exchange for my everything. I don’t want to think this way, but I’m finding most women in my life, consciously or not, act and operate the way they do to seduce a man into providing for them. I’m not having it.

That was the one and only reason I got married; kids. Big fat mistake. What I never realized was that women are just like children, but set in their ways.

LeoYourKing wrote:

They present themselves as someone who really can be your soulmate. Same ambitions and likes. However, when they become comfortable they get lazy and show who they are

I learned this the hard way. My wife was actually much more attractive on my wedding day than when I met her. She moved from an 8 to an 11. After the first year of marriage she got comfy and never looked back. Now she’s just another child I’m supporting who’s let herself go and is laaaazzzzzzy.

You’re 21 and I envy you, because you have an awareness of the Red Pill before making any critical sacrifices.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

If men suddenly could also get pregnant and have their own babies, it would change society so much, the feminists’ heads would explode.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

In yours 21 it’s absolutely normal don’t settle down and keep on looking for your own way. But why MGTOW? On the forum I read men wishing for the new relationships, from time to time.

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Anonymous 8]

Welcome to the forums.

Enjoy your youth, women know they are on the biological clock, men have no such deadline.

aidan wrote:

I will simply go my own way till life figures it out for me, if it ever does.

That’s a good attitude to have, no need to be in a hurry all the time.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Aiden
Don’t do it. She may be all sweetness and nice now but after you say “I do” she will say “no you don’t” and turn into a shrieking harpy.If you have kids with her you will be doubly f~~~ed.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m looking at your Avatar and I’m thinking now there’s a face only a mother could love. Do you live downwind from a chemical factory?

[JVBParticipant]

Snip snip. The plane lands but there’s no passengers on board. Best decision I ever made. Welcome brother. You’re young with time on your side. Keep bitches at arms length and watch for their cunning ways. Kids change everything forever.

Peace is > piece.

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