What Is With This "Aren't You Afraid To Die Alone?" Bulls~~~?

[Anonymous 2]

Anytime I say “I have no interest in dating”, this same question always comes up: “Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?!”

I find this question to be completely ridiculous. It seems to imply that life is meaningless unless you are married. I’m just fine with my life the way it is. Just because I’m not living with a woman does not mean that I am “alone” in life. I have plenty of family and friends to spend time with when I want to be social. The truth is, I value my alone time. I like to be able to read, watch sports, play music, or do whatever else on my own schedule. I don’t need to go throwing everything I have out the window just to comfort myself by conforming to some social expectation.

For a man, getting married is the equivalent of laying your head on a chopping block, handing the woman an ax, and then praying that she doesn’t bring it down on your neck. You are literally giving her the power to destroy your life and make you a financial slave for her.

Besides, even if your marriage lasted until death did you part in old age, that still means that one of you is dying “alone”.

The whole thing seems to be based on a “living single means living in misery” assumption, and that’s just pure bulls~~~. I love my single life, and I’m not about to put my money, assets, and freedom on the line just to bow down and conform to some societal expectation.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Everyone dies alone.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[UntamedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The whole thing seems to be based on a “living single means living in misery” assumption…

That’s just it, assumptions. What the hell can they possibly know about you or your life when they’re so busy figuring out how they’re gonna f~~~ the next guy out of his livelihood, house, car and children? And she wants YOU to be next!
Aren’t you afraid to die alone?
Aren’t you tired of asking stupid questions?

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

This is exactly the topic that has occasionally crossed my mind when I’ve been stringing barbed wire lately. When you put up fences you have plenty of time to think.
I started early in the day and seeing the sun rising behind the clouds .. for some unknown reason I thought of all the people in the world. Everyone sees the same sun during it’s daily cycle whether you are in the outback of Australia, Scandinavia or here in the Upper-Midwest. All the billions of people either getting up or going to sleep as the sun rises and falls. So what does this have to do with dying alone?
Basically .. none of us are alone. We all share the same sun, moon and stars. We are all to some extent related because of our interdependence on an amazingly fragile yet dependable system. Here we are on the surface of a relatively small planet hurling through orbit. Look up .. it’s just gravity that keeps all of us and our atmosphere close to home. We’re all in this thing together.
Yes, no one is alone. The world is made up of billions of people .. the majority of these folks are very nice and would help someone in need. There are countless people who would give you more than a moment of their time. Right now, as I sit here having my sandwich and grapes for lunch .. I don’t need that. I prefer relative isolation .. I love the idea of having an evening meal alone and sitting down late this evening for an hour of either reading or maybe some classic sci-fi; possibly, a concert.
I realize that ‘dying alone” actually refers to having someone special at your side. Well, pulling that one off long term is a tricky one. Years ago, I mowed lawn and did some house sitting for a young couple who seemed to have it all. The new house, the careers, they even had a sailboat moored at a local dock. Picture perfect .. someone to rely on and always be there; right? She began attending the local college taking some courses. I was also a student there and sometimes saw her crossing campus in the evenings. A year later they were in a messy divorce. She wanted to run off and dig bones and rocks with her Archeology professor .. and their marriage also hit the rocks, big time. So much for the long haul and someone being there.
Here is the point; no one need worry about being alone.. not now or ever. Have a great day; a fantastic week .. get out and just have a blast. We’re all on this planet together.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Classic projecting. The woman whom ask this question are afraid to die alone, so they mentally project this towards men by asking men such questions.

While the “die alone” question does not bother me much.

If a woman asked. “Are you afraid to spend months dying in bed, while in agony, with no real help?” That question might raise a few concerns.

[Anonymous 22]

I would rather die alone than have some wrinkled old hag next to me. And she probably wouldn’t even be there.

[Clockwork PenguinParticipant 50]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Everyone dies alone.

Took the words right out of my mouth, bro.

The fact that women (or people in general for that matter) are trying to goad you into a relationship (or whatever) simply because of some illogical fear of “dying alone”, isn’t the individual(s) trying to instill fear of seclusion into you, per say. More so that the individual(s) are openly proclaiming there own illogical fear of death and isolation.

While it may sound a bit melancholy, I’ve been feeling pretty dead inside as of late, and to be quite frank, the act of physical and literal death would be a welcome release for me. I’m rather sick and tired of how pathetic the world is becoming, and the sad knowledge that an individual can no longer change the world, individually, is chaffing at what’s left of my sanity.

In short, if some little bitch feels compelled to whine to you about there own fear of dying penniless, worthless and alone – just share a friendly middle finger with them, and (ever so politely) ask that they not try to pawn there own fears off on you.

Just a thought.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Why would I want my whole life to suck just so I’m not “alone” when I die? I’d rather just have my last few minutes suck than the next 50 years.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

this same question always comes up: “Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?!” I find this question to be completely ridiculous.

It IS ridiculous bulls~~~ and totally transparent.

“Not Dying alone” is a woman pressing the panic button, and her last desperate sales pitch. That’s the BEST reason she can come up with to “sell you marriage”: not dying alone.

THAT’S HOW PATHETIC A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER IS. She can’t think of ANY other positive reason or make it appealing for a man, so she uses a fear tactic as her best and only hope.

All women who use the “dying alone” scare tactic are projecting her own fear on to you. Since women outlive their husbands by an average of 8 years, even if you were to marry her negative ass… it’s far more likely SHE will “die alone” . Point that out to every woman who tries it.

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When “not dying alone” is the BEST sales pitch she has to want to be with someone, run as quickly as possible away from her. Women will actually stay in BAD relationship — just because it PAYS — while telling themselves garbage like “at least I won’t die alone”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[narwhalParticipant]

Well, I figure I’ll either die in some sort of accident or sudden medical issue, or I’ll essentially die slow in a hospital bed.

In the first case, since it’s not planned, there’s a good chance that the hypothetical wife isn’t there, and quite possibly anyone else I really care about. Getting married has no real effect on dying alone.

In the second case, I would not want a wife or anyone else to be there when I die. I’d rather die peacefully in myself, without anyone feeling like they are obligated to sit by bed till I kick the bucket.

Besides all that, a wife is expensive, so having a wife means I would have worse medical care when I die. I am very much afraid of dying in a cheap sticky hospice surrounded by SJW who think they are so compassionate because they clean my bedpans once a day.

What they are really saying is, “Don’t you want your life to have meaning?”. They are saying that if a man isn’t attached to a woman, then his life has no meaning. Which really begs the question back to them…Do you feel your life is meaningless without a man?

Ok. Then do it.

[TuneoutParticipant]

The thing that I find most amusing are all those Gov’t backed studies the liberal media spreads about married people living longer and being happier. What a bunch of BS and how dumb do you have to be to fall for it?
The Gov’t is just worried about the declining birthrate which means less future tax payers to waste money with.
I personally know plenty of unhappy,unhealthy married folk and I’m sure you guys could chime in too.
On the other hand I eat right,exercise,have a circle of good friends and family members that meet all my social needs and I don’t fear dying as I believe that we just blink into nothingness.
A full time women would just ADD unnecessary stress IMO.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

All women who use the “dying alone” scare tactic are projecting her own fear on to you — since women outlive their husbands by an average of 8 years. So even if you were to marry her worthless, negative, boring & miserable ass… it’s far more likely she will “die alone”. Point that out to every woman who tries it and make her sorry she even tried.
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Beat me to it. The sales pitch she is giving you is the one that haunts her worst fears at night. That’s what she is ready to “compromise” for. She’ll finally give up on her Prince Charming for Justin Case as a compromise so she doesn’t die alone. Because that’s HER WORST fear.

Of course, if she changes her mind 5 years later, she gets half of Justin’s s~~~ because vagina and gets to try again for Prince Charming.

And the closer to the wall she is, the more haunting that fear becomes. It’s like a game of musical chairs for women, except it’s a c~~~ carousel. Wait too long on the carousel and the music stops and you die a lonely old spinster. Oh yeah, and most don’t realize the music will ever stop.

A girl that asks that question just understands that eventually the music will stop and she will be a post wall hag that no one will want to date. She is scared as f~~~ that she will be forced to sit in a room with nothing but her own thoughts.

That’s enough to drive anyone insane. I’m pretty sure women talk as much as they do because they have to release the air pressure in their head. If they didn’t talk the pressure would build up with all those insane thoughts swirling through their head, kind of like a nuclear reaction. Within 10 minutes their head would just explode.

Oh, and for the record, women don’t really want someone to talk to. They want someone to talk AT.

Order the good wine

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I just hope in my last moments there are no women/c~~~s around.
I want at least my last view at the world to be c~~~/ugly s~~~ free.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Whenever women say that, I just say that I love being alone though. So why would I be afraid of dying alone?

They have no comeback after that. And even if they do, it’s because they’re trying to “shame us” in order to come back to the plantation.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Tuneout wrote:

The thing that I find most amusing are all those Gov’t backed studies the liberal media spreads about married people living longer and being happier. What a bunch of BS and how dumb do you have to be to fall for it?

Yeah…it is quite bulls~~~. It always seemed to me like people put on weight when they are in a relationship because they don’t have to bother trying to attract anyone anymore…and extra weight is unhealthy. Additionally the most stressful times of my life have been while in relationships…go figure. I don’t understand how someone packing on weight and being stressed out could help them live longer lol.

[Anonymous 2]

Tuneout wrote:

The thing that I find most amusing are all those Gov’t backed studies the liberal media spreads about married people living longer and being happier. What a bunch of BS and how dumb do you have to be to fall for it?

These studies are all just rigged statistics anyway. A lot of the “single” men that die young are actually divorced men, but oops…they forgot to add in that little tidbit. Out of men that are married, men that live their lives single, and men who are divorced, it is very clear that divorced men have the shortest lifespans of all.

Do married men live longer than men who stay single? Most likely, but NOT for the reasons the media tries to paint it. Single men do not die younger than married men because they are miserable, which is what the media wants you to believe. They die younger because they are more likely to go out drinking and partying, and they probably have a less healthy diet because they are likely to eat fast food more often. It really has a lot to do with diet and lifestyle, and very little to do with happiness. These studies are trying to paint a picture of “longer lifespan = happier”, and that is pure bulls~~~.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Anonymous wrote:

For a man, getting married is the equivalent of laying your head on a chopping block, handing the woman an ax, and then praying that she doesn’t bring it down on your neck. You are literally giving her the power to destroy your life and make you a financial slave for her.

Powerful words and well put!!!! The logic “man shamers” use in “Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?” unequivocally contradicts death itself. As an earlier poster stated, “we all die alone”. We will all face death one day and I honestly don’t think it will matter to any of us if a bunch of people, or one person, are sitting around us watching us die.

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

“Aren’t You Afraid To Die Alone?”

If you answer “yes” to this question, imo you are motivated by fear to be in a relationship, rather then for a positive reason.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Everyone dies alone.

Not me. I have plans.

But seriously, just look at life expectancies. It’s women who die alone. Then they are eaten by their many, many cats.

[MyCocaineKeymaster 182]

Red_Pill_Soulja wrote:

“Aren’t You Afraid To Die Alone?” If you answer “yes” to this question, imo you are motivated by fear to be in a relationship, rather then for a positive reason.

I hate the not dying alone thing. She doesn’t make living with her any fun at all, it’s more important that you don’t die alone. Women are terrified of that because women are more likely than men to die alone.

I don’t think women have any idea how stupid they sound sometimes.

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