What I know so far…

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Men, AWALT.

As many of you know my wife passed just over a week ago. We were separated and I was being fed the “we need time apart line” along with potential divorce.

So.. I tried to play along, hoped it would return, but over the past few months it became obvious we were through. We were together at Thanksgiving and had a good week. I knew it was a ruse, but played along buying time. Christmas was bad and she passed three days after.

After going through her home, and dealing with her family and friends… Here is how she was just like the rest (and yours may be too):

* The friend living with me needed a home, and is helping he around here ( in reality, he is still an alcoholic mess who she wrote love letters to, and rejection letters too, just like me and not much was fixed around the house)

* we are not intimate ( well, suffice it to say the love letters indicating opposite of this, the k y jelly, the condoms, the after sex rags I cleaned up, make this bulls~~~)

* he sleeps on the couch most nights (no he doesn’t as the bed smells of him)

* he only drinks (no he doesn’t as he smokes pot with your relatives)

* I don’t do drugs (the evidence we found in the house indicates you do, and the ‘friend’ when pressed admits that they do hard core drugs together)

* I am paying the bills (nothing has been paid in months, and the estate is in severe jeopardy because of this) with the money you provide me

Think this can’t happen to you?

Wait.

I am amazed and outraged. But, because of the nearly two years I have been learning about MGTOW, I understand. I am disgusted that a human can take advantage of another human in these ways.

Be men. Go your own way. And never forget, though they may seem different for a time, AWALT.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 54]

Hes just a freind.

Never buy that bs Gentlemen.

[Anonymous 42]

Please don’t take me crass, her passing was a blessing in disguise! Once they go haywire there’s no telling what they’re capable of next! Perhaps a life changing event has been averted, perhaps even your own death in some concocted botched robbery!

Sky’s the limit when you’re dealing with a lit rocket!

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

This and worse can happen WHENEVER ANY MAN CHOOSES to get Married.

Dating leads to Relationships

Relationships Lead to Marriage

Marriage Leads to Misery

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[HitmanParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Dating leads to Relationships

Relationships Lead to Marriage

Marriage Leads to Misery

engagement RING
wedding RING
SUFFERING .
.
just don’t marry.
just don’t.
.
sorry you found all the crap she was up to.
thank GOD it’s over.
move forward as soon as possible.
FREEDOM bro.
it’s yours now.
don’t let it go !!!

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Hitman wrote:

Awakened wrote:

Dating leads to Relationships

Relationships Lead to Marriage

Marriage Leads to Misery

engagement RING
wedding RING
SUFFERING .
.
just don’t marry.
just don’t.
.
sorry you found all the crap she was up to.
thank GOD it’s over.
move forward as soon as possible.
FREEDOM bro.
it’s yours now.
don’t let it go !!!

I can only hope this is it… Only time will tell.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Dont do it again…The lesson learned is enough for a lifetime…

Hope you are doing well brother…Stay strong…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Hey Gerald,

I’m sorry you had to experience that. After some time, I hope you are able to salvage the rest of your life.

—Fun

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Of course she lied to you she wanted to hurt you with as much pain as she could possibly cause to you. She didn’t care about you or your property and you better believe she was bad mouthing you to all your former friends and family. There will be more you will find out in the coming months from these people as they try to latch onto you now that she is gone to get more drama in their lives by poking you with their vile words.

Protect your daughter from these parasites and look out for yourself. Make sure that loser she was shacked up with never has anything to do with you or your house he was staying in any longer he needs to be gone from there (hopefully he no longer lives there if not get rid of him today).

You probably still emotionally involved with her death but you honestly dodged a huge bullet and in a few years you will realize this when you think back to this time. Be strong more stuff will come to light the truth always does and you will be able to handle it when ready.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

To the OP: I don’t intend to be glib or cynical but the death was a blessing, especially if she died before the finalization or initiation of a divorce. A divorce which, by all sensible accounts, was inevitable and all for the best.

As for the “lies” she spread about, they did no more to offend the truth than the simple transparent fibs uttered by a child to escape verifiable realities. No one believes them, depends on them or acts on them. No one expects a woman in flight from her marriage, shacked up with shabby and inferior man and using “hardcore” drugs to get cozy enough with the truth to admit it. You lost little, the cost of burial and tying up her loose ends.

In six months you’ll be down the road and, I dare to say, far better off than you might have been if she had lived. Just my opinion.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Continuing to find more as I dig through emails, pictures, etc. I knew things were happening but not the depth.

I can’t necessarily recommend it, but ok, f~~~ it, I DO recommend it. Log into your girls phone, look at her pics, texts, instant messenger posts. Find out how she is betraying you and ice her the f~~~ out… This is for you lurkers who think a lot of this is bulls~~~.

For those who know… The mantra is true… No co-habitate, no marriage!

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 12]

You jumped head first into the Poo-Poo pool?
You Mad, bruh????

That is one Big load of red pills you are taking on right there.
I believe you have learned your lesson-?
Don´t f~~~ up your mojo?

I could not do that.
Steel b~~~~.
Much respect.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Everyday I hear and read stuff like this and everyday I am glad I never got married and decided to never share my space with a woman. I work in an industry where I see so many men who are nothing more than soulless drones working away because they have obligations in the form of kids.I know when they are done with work most of these men will be tossed aside like a used rag.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Anonymous wrote:

You jumped head first into the Poo-Poo pool?
You Mad, bruh????

That is one Big load of red pills you are taking on right there.
I believe you have learned your lesson-?
Don´t f~~~ up your mojo?

I could not do that.
Steel b~~~~.
Much respect.

Thanks G-mow. It has been a giant pool of s~~~ and keeps getting deeper… and yet I had to know.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m sorry for all you’re having to go through Gerald.

Ok. Then do it.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

It’s better to know. The upside is you’ve now got a dose of red pill so strong that it’s in impenetrable shield around you for the rest of your life. Now go live a fabulous beautiful fulfilling happy life!

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Anonymous 12]

Gerald wrote:

Thanks G-mow. It has been a giant pool of s~~~ and keeps getting deeper… and yet I had to know.

I don’t know man… It’s still pretty disgusting. I hope the digging and unearthing of these horrible things ends soon.

Keeping faith in humanity gets harder by the day.
OTOH you of all people deserve the truth and nothing but the truth, even if tears are part of it.
No more deception, no more lies.
Let truth and experience be your guide.

Whenever needed, feel free to puke here. No need to carry that s~~~ alone.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Anonymous wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Thanks G-mow. It has been a giant pool of s~~~ and keeps getting deeper… and yet I had to know.

I don’t know man… It’s still pretty disgusting. I hope the digging and unearthing of these horrible things ends soon.

Keeping faith in humanity gets harder by the day.
OTOH you of all people deserve the truth and nothing but the truth, even if tears are part of it.
No more deception, no more lies.
Let truth and experience be your guide.

Whenever needed, feel free to puke here. No need to carry that s~~~ alone.

I have been and appreciate the support of the members who have been supportive. I know I’m not fully there yet, and I’m not as aggressive about it as others, but appreciate what you all have been willing to offer. This site is saving lives, saving sanity for many, and I just don’t want any other good men to go through what I’m going through.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

I will add this today men, my adult daughter and I went through digital photos today I recovered from one account, over two thousand of them. Many were good memories, and we enjoyed that, but what sticks with me is one single photo and another photo set.

The very clear picture of another mans penis, taken obviously on my patio…

And the set of six selfies taken while naked and being done from behind by her ‘impotent friend’

A little awkward to see those for the first time with your kid sitting next to you.

And even more heartbreaking when she says “not surprised” to both.

Sadly, even though she thought I should know, the inherent hive mindset prevented her from telling me what my wife was doing.

AWALT

F~~~ this s~~~. I can’t believe I have months to deal with this estate s~~~ as well.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[OldBillParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

A little awkward to see those for the first time with your kid sitting next to you.

Good grief… your late wife was a real piece of work, wasn’t she?

Sadly, even though she thought I should know, the inherent hive mindset prevented her from telling me what my wife was doing.

Sickening isn’t it? Keep good old dad in the dark ’cause we girls got to stick together.

Where’s the “good” friend she wasn’t having sex with? Out of the house I hope.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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