What does "frame" refer to?

[survivorParticipant 610]

Afternoon gents,

I hear/read this word tossed about a lot but don’t quite get it. What does “frame” refer to in relatinships? Thanks for shedding some light on it.

S.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Men’s testosterone goes to lower level when we see tears in women eyes..bcz we are hardwired to protect and provide for them ..So the frame importance is necessary when women try to s~~~ test you by fake tears and emotional manipulation,its better to keep your logical ability to analyse things at that point of time rather than bring up the emotional side of yours..If you brought up the emotional side of you,she will totally destroyed you any time bcz you show the weakness in terms of emotions..So its better you dont give a s~~~ about her s~~~ tests..Think in terms of mgtow every time makes your frame stronger every time,so it saves you from emotional manipulation and lies..

[hansmolemanParticipant 194]

survivor wrote:

Afternoon gents,

I hear/read this word tossed about a lot but don’t quite get it. What does “frame” refer to in relatinships? Thanks for shedding some light on it.

S.

Ask Roosh.

[RoyDalParticipant]

“Frame” is one of those terms that can mean almost anything. Mostly, it can be used against you if you pick one of the more obvious meanings and make it public knowledge.

As for Roosh, well . . . he is off in a world of his own. . .

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[Anonymous 42]

Frame? That’s what you bolt the engine and wheels to.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Frame? That’s what you bolt the engine and wheels to.

Yup!!

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[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Skip the dating, and don’t worry about changed definitions of words like: equality, rape, marriage, frame, etc.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I believe that is a pua term for what I would call boundaries. What you will not change for a woman is a part of a frame. They believe by maintaining their frame, women will respect them and they can stay in control of the relationship. I just don’t do relationships and avoid that mess. I’m sure there is some truth to it, but I’m skeptical. The rooshforum seems to have some rather intelligent guys, perhaps you can search it for a discussion on frame there.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

You will hear it more talked about in “game” circles and among PUAs.

“Frame” (in the Manosphere) refers to your “mini universe” and the way you operate things in that space. Owning a situation (or dialogue) to follow a path of your chosing. Being master of your own universe and maintaining that “frame” is important in MANY daily interactions. You decide how things will go.

People will often try to “reframe” you… and they WILL if you let them.

One example off the top of my head:

1. You “approach” a woman because you want to find out if you are (or could be) interested in her, and you say “hi”.

2. She says “I’m not interested”.

She has just attempted to “re-frame” you by pulling you out of your “frame” and into hers. You haven’t even decided if you are interested in her at all, and she is already “rejecting” you (in her own mind).

You can now respond to what SHE said (fail)….. or maintain your frame, decide she just killed it for you, understand what just happened, apply some amused mastery, and ignore her / walk / or whatever.

If you respond to her attempted “rejection” and react to THAT directly, then you have been suckered out of your frame.

You could re-frame the interaction again by deflating her outrageous ego with:
“Cute try, but I was looking for the nearest ATM. Do you know where the closest one is?”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

survivor wrote:

What does “frame” refer to in relatinships?

Who cares? If you’re never getting into any relationships it doesn’t matter.

It sounds like some bulls~~~ feminist or PUA “redefinition” anyways.

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