What Do Bachelors Know?

[Anonymous 6]

Bachelors are single precisely because they know what woman is, will be, and has been. A married man is clearly someone who did not know what was going on. People also make the assumption that being married is better than single – there is much to sell to woman in our materialist Anglosphere – so the merchants that be can’t say single is better, lest their sales of useless items go south permanently, thus our merchant culture of matrimony. Marriage has always been an obligation to man, but at least he got a hefty dowry from the woman in the past to compensate him for his troubles.

We all know in the Anglosphere that for men and women the majority of marriages end in divorce. Add the divorced to the never married and the majority are single, and stay that way.

Not-married is the norm for most people today.

Moreover, it is safe to say a relationship that leads to marriage is not a measure of success for a man, although society would have you think otherwise, but then again matriarchal wage slaves are needed to keep it running.

In our present reality, marriage, most of the time, is the first step towards divorce. It has a lousy track record. Statistically, most divorced people marry again (and divorce again.) The majority of first marriages end in divorce. The majority of second marriages end in divorce. The majority of third marriages end in divorce, etc. It seems folks like marriage, but they don’t like who they marry. In other words, if your car was as reliable as marriage, every time you got in it you’d have a better than one in two chance of crashing.

Thus, following reason, one should marry someone you don’t like and make someone miserable who deserves it. As the comedian said, he was going to buy a house and give it away to a woman he hates and skip the entire marriage/divorce part.

That is a fact of life today.

Anyway we cut it, marriage is a failure as it is now employed, which implies the married man is a failure – right out of the gate.

Furthermore, we all know of the study by the marriage counsel of Princeton University reporting that the marriage rate has never been lower. For such a “great” institution, marriage has a lousy track record that is only getting worse – record high divorces and record low proposal rates.

Wishing is wanting it to be better. Reason tells us it is in jeopardy as a social institution.

Single men far and wide are some of the happiest people in the world. They are successful in their endeavors of choice and their accomplishments of them, while the married man is still dreaming of his – which he knows he will never attain – slaves are accustom to dreaming, freemen are accustom to living their dreams out.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 745]

I agree.

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

@venom

i read a few of the forums topics you started

you are certainly a great writer with valuable wisdom.

thanks for sharing

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 6]

No problem, just saying things that i think about all the time. Alot of these topics are things that i often wonder about. Whether i’m right or wrong, i just like to start a conversation and get other people’s opinions

[WallyParticipant]

I too am loving your topics. The divorce rate for 2nd marriages is higher than first marriages (60%) from my understanding. Upwards around 90% for 3rd marriages. Isn’t this the definition of insanity?

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

I think I’ve finally come to accept this fact.

It was difficult to swallow at first, but I’m actually very much looking forward to the future knowing that its going to be focused on me and my self development only. I’m getting better at my job (I don’t need to text anyone if I don’t want to) and I have all the time I need to work out and read and become smarter, and relieve stress by doing what I like.

Life is so good being single..

Brother, we need to stick together.

[GrumpyParticipant]

As a bachelor.

I personally know that being single/alone/unattached is liberating for my body, soul, and mind. I am only responsible for my own stuff.

I also know misery loves company, and misery demands I take care of its stuff too.

F~~~ misery

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[narwhalParticipant]

I disagree with some of your conclusions.

A married man is clearly someone who did not know what was going on.

I think most men are aware of the divorce rates, but believe it will not happen to them. I don’t see lack of information being the problem, just a believe that they can beat the odds.

Anyway we cut it, marriage is a failure as it is now employed, which implies the married man is a failure – right out of the gate.

I disagree with this as well. Yes, marriage as an institution is failing, but that does not mean the married man is a failure. As someone who was married and then divorced, I freely admit to my mistakes, but in no way consider myself a failure now or while I was married. I think most men are victims of marriage and the women who they married, and I don’t care to call victims failures. Married men make plenty of mistakes, but they can be successful in life where it matters, and don’t need to be labeled as failures on top of everything else they have to deal with.

Ok. Then do it.

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