What color would you call THIS pill?

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

I know a lot of you fellas have been through the wringer with marriage. But I am in the complete opposite situation. I told my girlfriend we would never get married, day 1. She stuck around, for 8 years. We don’t fight, I shut down her games the instant they come up, and the last time she called me a f~~ because I didn’t come running when the pussy horn was sounded, I laid into her. That was 6 years ago, she doesn’t dare do it again. I pretty much in control of the relationship. She gives me space, we have no joint bank accounts or anything. My house, everythings in my name, she goes to school and pays for her tuition, her car everything. First half of the month I get the food and extras, last half of the month she pays. She is bigger, and I don’t mind her size. I don’t care about body type as much as I do the face. She likes sex, I can do without. Completely lost interest in sex at all when we kind of figured out one of us isn’t capable of having kids ( she likes recreational dull sex, I think sex is ultimately for procreation and not much else). She’s afraid I will force her to get tested to find out (we never admit it, but I think we each believe it is her who is the one with complications). Not real happy about the circumstances, but other than a few things out of her control, she really hasn’t done anything to make me want to get rid of her.

So my question to you all, is…what would you call this situation?

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

GonzoZiiByrnnar wrote:

So my question to you all, is…what would you call this situation?

Tolerable, at best.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Tolerable, at best.

and at worst?

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

GonzoZiiByrnnar wrote:

and at worst?

At worst she will come to the realization that her SMV is plummeting and will try to talk you in to gaining 50+ pounds in order to lower yours. Either way she will treat you with disdain for “not being man enough to keep someone younger, hotter, sexier, etc than her” and then the real s~~~ begins. Verbal/physical abuse, isolation attempts, accusations of rape or violence, trial & conviction in a feminist run judicial system, then you find you’re the queen of cell block D. That’s the worst.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

You are both comfortable with eachother….cell mates.

I guess we’re both lifers then. Never thought it would be this way, always saw myself alone. Always thought “if I ever went to jail, Id like to be in solitary confinement, would stab a prison guard just to get in.” Thing is, she dislikes people more than me. Our silences aren’t awkward like so many complain about, they just are how we’ve always rolled.

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

At worst she will come to the realization that her SMV is plummeting and will try to talk you in to gaining 50+ pounds in order to lower yours.

She hardly ever complains, but she has expressed “concern” that I am actually healthier, losing weight recently, riding bikes, quite smoking etc. and she seems to be getting sicker, lazier and heavier. I don’t know about the rest though. Years ago she saw what I did to people in my family that screwed up big time, I hold a grudge and always get even. But, nobody ever suspects the woman next to them will do the things they do. Can’t dismiss it.

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[Anonymous 42]

I’m happier solo. I like everything in my home as I left it. I come home to a house untouched.
Imagine coming home to a house where your woman is touching another man? Chances are it will happen to you when you’re diagnosed with an STD. They act like animals therefore they belong in the barn f~~~ing the animals.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

GonzoZiiByrnnar wrote:

but she has expressed “concern” that I am actually healthier, losing weight recently, riding bikes, quite smoking etc.

Yeah. Get your mind around that. “I’m concerned that you’ve quit smoking, you’re eating better, & exercising.”

When you love someone, you WANT them to do the things that prolong life, and make life better. You encourage them along that path, not express concern that they are heading down it.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[RoyDalParticipant]

GonzoZiiByrnnar wrote:

So my question to you all, is…what would you call this situation?

Your tale starts out sounding like she is the exception that makes the rule, a true NAWALT. But … that bit about how she doesn’t want you looking after your health and well being is pure AWALT.

My SCUBA instructor told us not to pet the moray eels, no matter how friendly they appear.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

RoyDal wrote:

Your tale starts out sounding like she is the exception that makes the rule, a true NAWALT

Don’t get me wrong, she is not what I would consider a NAWALT. I fully believe that if I had abandoned all my reason and common sense and married her a few years back, things would be a lot worse. We all have little ticks, I can deal with that. She has been complaining though about the stereotypical “skinny guy with a fat woman”. I don’t lift weights like I used to when I lived in a bad neighborhood and got into fights, but I am thinner and she is getting bigger. I think we both try less. But I know I can’t bring her exercising with me. Ive tried, she couldn’t bike 2 miles before she ended walking the bike…correction I walked both of our bikes. When I get the motivation to work out and be who I really am, its with the bros. Im kind of leaving her in the dust right now, not going to make the effort of dragging her along. I do my own thing, and she hers. She doesn’t get in my way but she is a typical woman, she wants without earning it

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[narwhalParticipant]

It sounds like a dangerous situation to me. I don’t know the details of common law, but after 8 years, you’re probably considered to be married. She may be paying her fair share now and you may feel like you have control over the situation, but you cannot control everything.

I would not be surprised if she decides to move on, and can take half of your finances with you. She can probably pawn off half of any debt she has on you as well. If she sleeps around and has a kid, you may have to fight to prove it’s not yours.

Even if she behaves and you stay together, what happens when she has big medical expenses due to her poor health? They will come looking to you to help pay for the expenses.

And you have to ask, why is she with you? She’s not getting the marriage she wants, she’s not getting the sex she wants, you aren’t making her feel good about her lack of good health…so why does she stay? I get that you have personality similarities, but I would guess she would move on if she had an option to.

Ok. Then do it.

[OldBillParticipant]

GonzoZiiByrnnar wrote:

So my question to you all, is…what would you call this situation?

Willful ignorance at worst and blue pill delusion at best.

Tons o’ Fun hasn’t been hanging around for eight years for nothing, brother. She firmly believes there’s a pot of gold at the end of the your rainbow. You need to determine why she’s been sticking around for all this time with a guy who can’t even be bothered to f~~~ her and a fat broad’s typical lack of self esteem is not the reason.

First, investigate the common law marriage statutes where you live. They’ve been in quite a flux lately, reintroduced where earlier removed and with requirements being lowered. You may be legally married and not even know it.

Second, nail down the “Can’t have babies” angle. There’s a big difference between “Can’t easily conceive” and “Can never conceive”. You may not be f~~~ing Tons o’ Fun that often, but it only has to be once and all your s~~~ is suddenly hers.

The fact that all the bullets have missed so far doesn’t mean you’re bulletproof.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Tolerable, at best.

….aaaaaand thread over in one.

You sir, win teh internets. 🙂

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

be careful of common law stuff but your situation isn’t bad. just don’t get too attached emotionally

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Banal. At least you have rules and all that. The way I look at it, if I don’t enjoy someone in my life, then they’re gone. Man or woman. If you aren’t adding something to my life and only take away and drag me down, then there’s no place for you.

It sounds like things are “normal” and she’s not really making you happy.

CONTENT would be the word to desccribe it.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Gen.OivanParticipant 88]

yep, same situation here, mine will tell people all the time that it’s better to settle with a decent person than fight the dating pool, she has settled, you provide what she needs while she is in school. Saw it happen to a friend of mine, he was working and put his through school, she had a “gay” friend that she wound up pregnant and married to a month after she graduated.

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