What Aware (or even just logical) man would…..

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

1. ….get married if he was told the woman would increasingly stop having sex with him, robbing him of his sexual enjoyment of having his own wife?

2. …get married if he was fully aware of what a divorce would do to his personal wealth, but anything she has she keeps? That all the financial risk in divorce is 100% on him and not her?

3. ..get married when all it takes to get thrown in jail is one phone call from her, lying if she wants?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

I would rather grab my shotgun and end my life without going through all that drama.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5646]

It has taken me 11 years to rebuild my finances since the divorce. I have more to lose now than before. I would be the dumbest member of this board to ever let a woman into my life again.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

All we have to do to be liberated is say no. It’s never been easier.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I take the bullet.

Hummm… give me two just in case.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Give me 3 bullets!

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Could add the 4. rapid depreciation in SMV over 5 years, wallination followed by menopause…

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Nawalt counters all logical arguments. If a guys friend goes through a nasty divorce and the wife is a sexless c~~~, first guys wife can say “I’m not like that honey”.

Boom, another victim.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22515]

The awake guy knows NAWALT is a total lie.

The non-awake guy but logical guy at least knows the odds about divorce and has anecdotal horror stories that show guys heavily getting hammered hard in divorce, and it ought to make him think very hard about it happening to him.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Modern Day WarriorParticipant 499]

I like this analogy:
You go to get a new cell phone. The deal is the phone bill will go up constantly, but service will deteriorate until the phone doesn’t work at all. You must sign a lifetime contract, and if you break the contract must pay severe financial penalties. If you refuse, you go to jail. The cell phone company will always have the option to break the agreement, and if they do you must surrender half of your wealth, and continue to pay them over time. Any takers?

"One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact." - Neil Peart

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Modern Day Warrior wrote:

I like this analogy:
You go to get a new cell phone. The deal is the phone bill will go up constantly, but service will deteriorate until the phone doesn’t work at all. You must sign a lifetime contract, and if you break the contract must pay severe financial penalties. If you refuse, you go to jail. The cell phone company will always have the option to break the agreement, and if they do you must surrender half of your wealth, and continue to pay them over time. Any takers?

This is a great analogy – I like to think I’m logical, but guess I wasn’t when I decided to get married. No sex, constant nagging, worried about money. Her aunt passed away a couple of days ago out of state, and I’m hoping that she goes to the funeral so that I can get a break for a couple of days (and I’m not happy that her aunt passed away – she was a nice lady but she was in bad health).

Can’t stress it enough – DO NOT GET MARRIED!! I’m stuck because of two little kids at age 50 and am only staying for them as their mother has the maturity and emotional level of a 14 year old. As much as I love my boys, I’d give anything to wake up one day and realize that this was all a very bad dream and I’m back in my early to mid 30’s, single and doing what I want.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Aposematic wrote:

Could add the 4. rapid depreciation in SMV over 5 years, wallination followed by menopause…

That’s assuming they’ve even attempted to get married before they hit the wall and their SMV has begun to plummet. Considering the average age for a first marriage is near 30 now and most women start to decline hard in their late 20s…wallination may be rather soon upon marrying them. Plus we know how they like to let themselves go after marriage and the first kid…it may only be a year before your honey is a land whale who doesn’t give a s~~~ anymore because she owns you.

Crowbar wrote:

Can’t stress it enough – DO NOT GET MARRIED!! I’m stuck because of two little kids at age 50 and am only staying for them as their mother has the maturity and emotional level of a 14 year old. As much as I love my boys, I’d give anything to wake up one day and realize that this was all a very bad dream and I’m back in my early to mid 30’s, single and doing what I want.

I’m in my early 30s, single, and doing what I want. Sometimes I think I’ll regret it later in life if I don’t have kids…but then I read posts like yours and its like f~~~ it…odds are I’ll regret it even more if I do. I don’t want to be tied financially to some c~~~ til I’m well into my 50s because I had kids in my mid-late 30s…I want to be retired and living a life of leisure well before then.

Modern Day Warrior wrote:

I like this analogy:
You go to get a new cell phone. The deal is the phone bill will go up constantly, but service will deteriorate until the phone doesn’t work at all. You must sign a lifetime contract, and if you break the contract must pay severe financial penalties. If you refuse, you go to jail. The cell phone company will always have the option to break the agreement, and if they do you must surrender half of your wealth, and continue to pay them over time. Any takers?

One change though…you aren’t even getting a new cell phone…you are getting a used one. How many guys do you think are marrying hot young virgins? Practically none lol. The average marriage age these days is near 30 and I imagine the average c~~~ count is double digits.

Modern marriage is like making that deal but right from the start you are getting a used phone in poor condition that has already been obsolete for a few years.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

He wouldn’t; hence, I’m never going to.

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

sjt1975 wrote:

I’m in my early 30s, single, and doing what I want. Sometimes I think I’ll regret it later in life if I don’t have kids…but then I read posts like yours and its like f~~~ it…odds are I’ll regret it even more if I do. I don’t want to be tied financially to some c~~~ til I’m well into my 50s because I had kids in my mid-late 30s…I want to be retired and living a life of leisure well before then.

You have the right attitude – I love my boys, but the trade-off is that I have to deal with my wife, who is just basically a PITA. It’s to the point that I can’t stand to be around her. Just riding in the car sucks, because she feels the need to comment on how every other driver on the road is a total d-bag, and how the parking spot that I chose to use isn’t the right one because it’s one over from the one that she wanted.
The reason that I won’t divorce her is because she’s the type that will tell the boys what an a-hole their daddy is – I’m literally married to someone with the maturity of a middle-schooler.

[narwhalParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

1. ….get married if he was told the woman would increasingly stop having sex with him, robbing him of his sexual enjoyment of having his own wife?

2. …get married if he was fully aware of what a divorce would do to his personal wealth, but anything she has she keeps? That all the financial risk in divorce is 100% on him and not her?

3. ..get married when all it takes to get thrown in jail is one phone call from her, lying if she wants?

All men know these things (except for #3…we still think guilty until proven innocent). Where men mistakes, where I screwed up, is when they assume that she has the same sense of honor, loyalty and care for the ones you love as they do. I wouldn’t do these things whether legal or not and thought she was of the same mind as me.

The mix of their biology, being less physically capable, being legally equal, and desire to be taken care of….does not mix.

Ok. Then do it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Why would anyone want to put up this s~~~ the rest of their life.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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