What are the tips to be happy and successful in life

[JakecarguyParticipant 18]

There are so many experienced members here in MGTOW and I believe that their experience in life is far more valuable than reading some motivational books.I am a 23 year old man.

I would like to know the tips to be happy and successful in life and also things that one shouldn’t do.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 745]

Go Your Own Way

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

SOLI2DE wrote:

Go Your Own Way

And try not to allow stress to rule your life.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

I don’t know if you can get a copy in India of the book Beyond Success and Failure: Ways to Self-Reliance and Maturity by Willard and Marguerite Beecher. Go to Amazon.com to read the reviews. I have had a copy for decades and it has been one of the most helpful books I have had. They explain what psychological maturity is, and how happiness and serenity can be achieved. Their book says everything that is said here on MGTOW except to ignore women. However, the Beecher’s would not approve of any of the immature, infantile, and manipulative behavior of women that members are reporting here. They would agree not to interact with them if at all possible. I have had to deal with problem people all the way from dirt farmers up to university level professors and that book has saved me from making many mistakes.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Never marry.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Invest early. 70% of Americans die in poverty. If you were to invest $500 per month for the next 47 years you would have accumulated $453,000 by the time you are 70. Assuming 7% compounded interest. Invest in a product that has a guarantee on the principle. There are financial and investment advising agencies out there that will give you their time at no charge. The only money they make is from commissions.

Buy a little gold and silver. It’s a hedge against the possibility of a financial doomsday or a Zombie apocalypse.

Learn to cook for yourself. You have the benefit of delicious and nutritious meals. There is also something rewarding about creating something.

Pursue your own passions and interests.

The biggest lesson I had to learn is to heed the warnings of my inner voice/instincts/intuition. After my divorce, I paid heed to my instincts and have found that I have less trouble and drama.

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Never marry.

This! This is the best advice to hand on to your own wealth and resources.

They say money can’t buy you happiness. Perhaps, but it damn sure helps. It is a tool with which you can accomplish goals.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Do what the previous posts said, and add meditation and hatha yoga to the list. As an alternative, add meditation and some form of martial art to the list.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 3]

For success, turn your hobby into a paid job. That worked out for me. It wont be easy at all, you will struggle a lot sometimes but it is funny to learn something everyday.

And never let any bitch in your life. Watch them only from a safe distance through a web browser window. Love is a big lie but it has a very good and strong marketing to be honest… First months of a relationship may feel good, but it it just the bait. Girls can pretend a totally different personality for a short time, than they are in reality. All my relationships caused more stress than they relieved ever. And it is not about choosing the right girl. Not even about me being some sort of unbearable personality. Since all the songs on the radio are about the love and about needing but not getting the love and having pain and neediness due to the situation. And there are all the stories here on this site. That about self preservation.

For happiness, it is a good question. I am heading toward my goals all the time, but I feel boredom and burnout time to time, and beer or the so-called runner’s high while bike riding (only have time at weekends), or the vitamins I take do not help enough. Sometimes I feel like I want to cuddle some hot Japanese hentai girls I see on porn for the night. I know love is a lie, but fapping is just not the same, and there is nothing to do to get the emotions that are supposed to be given in theory by real love. I take magnesium + B6, multivitamins, valerian root for sleeping and a lot of coffee through the day. Still not enough. I am falling apart, and I gain a lot of weight, +50 pounds now.. It is said, metabolism slows over age of 30 and I am always hungry.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Good to plan for future as well as remembering and learning from past .. also, so important to try and find enjoyment in present moments.

[experiencedParticipant]

(be happy in your work, happy in your activities) (verbs vs noun)

http://biblehub.com/ecclesiastes/3-22.htm

it’s much more fulfilling to give it 100% effort.

elevate your work to an art form

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9544]

This is what I think are good ways to pursue happiness:

1 Stay out of trouble with the law
2 Don’t marry and have any kids
3 Do what you love to do (hobby) and break free of employers by running your own business.
4 Save your money, and not spend it on useless bulls~~~ you don’t need.
5 Live every day of your life as if you think it’s your last, because there will be a day where it will be your last and it could be today or tomorrow or 50 years from now.
6 Do physical activity you enjoy.
7 Be healthy. Overweight people tend to be miserable. I know.
8 This goes with #4 and that is keep yourself free of debts. When your debt sober, you’re free.
9 Take care of yourself 100% and that includes your own cooking.
10 Surround yourself with the right people. That includes successful people who are also happy. I wish I had.
11 Don’t let little things bother you. Like I should talk.
12 Personalize your living space to fit your personality.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Invest early. 70% of Americans die in poverty. If you were to invest $500 per month for the next 47 years you would have accumulated $453,000 by the time you are 70. Assuming 7% compounded interest. Invest in a product that has a guarantee on the principle. There are financial and investment advising agencies out there that will give you their time at no charge. The only money they make is from commissions.

Buy a little gold and silver. It’s a hedge against the possibility of a financial doomsday or a Zombie apocalypse.

Learn to cook for yourself. You have the benefit of delicious and nutritious meals. There is also something rewarding about creating something.

Pursue your own passions and interests.

The biggest lesson I had to learn is to heed the warnings of my inner voice/instincts/intuition. After my divorce, I paid heed to my instincts and have found that I have less trouble and drama.

Jan.Sobieski wrote:

Never marry.

This! This is the best advice to hand on to your own wealth and resources.

They say money can’t buy you happiness. Perhaps, but it damn sure helps. It is a tool with which you can accomplish goals.

This is the best advice. Don’t marry, invest early, maximize your earning potential but minimize your stress. Finally keep your health in order. Stay in tip top shape so you can enjoy YOUR life.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Black butte porterParticipant 433]

I’ll add, true satisfaction comes from within. Not from others. Get strong and tough. Stop caring what people think about you. Do what makes you happy and to hell with anything else. Basically, go your own way. And don’t get married or cohabitate. Don’t be codependent and lose the TV/social media.

I want to shove Ms. Piggy in a woodchipper. No quote. That's all.

[Freeman98Participant 119]

Faust For Science wrote:

SOLI2DE wrote:

Go Your Own Way

And try not to allow stress to rule your life.

This. Be who you are and don’t try and change your self to please others. Don’t worry what others think of you and don’t expect anyone to ever change. You’re just beating your head against the wall

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