Went (and still going) My Own Way

[AllenParticipant 146]

I never know what to say in these introduction things that doesn’t sound like every other introduction on the site. After a while, I imagine that people stop reading these things as they amount to just another “Me Too” post.

So, me too! I’ve experienced all the same things everyone else here has: the deck stacked against you in the law, in the workplace, in school, in the media, and pretty much everywhere else in life. It feels like walking on eggshells everywhere to try and keep out of trouble from false accusations and deranged perceptions.

Anyway, a few years ago (10 now to be exact), I decided enough is enough and I went my own way. This included a very nasty divorce that dragged on for years but wound up eventually being at least equitable in terms of co-parenting arrangements (I refuse to use the term visitation – I’ll be f~~~ed if I’ll allow the perception that I have to “visit” my own child), child support, and alimony. I still think that the way the law is setup is f~~~ing bulls~~~ when it comes to the last two, but there’s only so much you can do to fight that. I’m not rich and I’m not willing to spend every last dime I have only to lose the fight.

I’ll admit that I attempted to establish relationships with a couple of women after the divorce, but I quickly came to realize that it is just not worth the mental anguish and financial extortion to try to maintain anything like that. Enough is enough, I don’t need that in my life. Today, I don’t miss any part of that s~~~-show.

I came to this site by virtue of happening across the MGTOW twitter account and agreeing with just about everything said.

So, there you have it, another boring introduction that sounds like everyone else’s. If you made it to this sentence I congratulate you for being a far better man than I. I would’ve been asleep by now.

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

Welcome Allen. We all have similar stories here. Sorry about the divorce but at least you can finally start your new life without all the drama and stress that “modern” day women bring to the table. I don’t have children but I cringe when I hear what men have to go through when it comes to seeing their own damn kids- truly unbelievable. Hang in there man.

[GregB0Participant]

Thanks for posting and letting us know a little more about you. Even if it is “Me Too”, it is you writing about your life (Past, Present and Future) that allows us to get to know you.

Allen wrote:

If you made it to this sentence I congratulate you for being a far better man than I. I would’ve been asleep by now.

Ah but we did not, just as you did not earlier as you became aware of MGTOW and the need to walk your own path. We engage and become active because we are curious and we are sympathetic.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you for intro. Introductions are essential. I see them as a way to continually validate each other. Those of us who are awake to ” the stacked deck & deranged perceptions” that surround us ( men).

In today’s world men are the “enemy”
Thank you again & I hope you continue to participate

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome brother Allen,

We need every one of the million MeToo’s here to give us a bigger and stronger voice.

No life story is truly the same.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome dude.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Welcome, Allen. You don’t have to have an “exciting” background to impress anyone. My story is pretty boring. We’re glad to have you here. There’s beer in the fridge, whiskey in the freezer, steaks on the grill, and peppers in the garden.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

A bunch of “me toos” add up to a WE. Welcome Allen.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 7]

Welcome home.

Cheers!

[UntamedParticipant]

That is an original presentation for an introduction, although I can boast of staying awake reading each one.
Each one of us has a story, even though they are similar in nature, the details are what is interesting, just like AWALT but one may have smaller boobs than another…
I celebrate every new manber because it tells me that somewhere there are weemins for whom the free ride is over.
Why “weemins” with an s ? Because had we not become MGTOWs, we would have been manipulated by a string of weemins each in turn as one relations~~~ ends so does another begins and so on and so forth…
By going MGTOW we break that cycle of continuous manipulation and organised government-sanctioned racket that is today’s Marriage.
So, Allen, welcome to mgtow.com, a place for men ONLY, all bitches, c~~~s, t~~~s, hoes and other undesirables are kindly asked to f~~~ off.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Allen, the men on here particularly enjoy and scrutinize the intros. You can be sure that you ain’t going to bore or get bored on here!

Allen wrote:

I never know what to say in these introduction things that doesn’t sound like every other introduction on the site. After a while, I imagine that people stop reading these things as they amount to just another “Me Too” post

Allen wrote:

So, there you have it, another boring introduction that sounds like everyone else’s. If you made it to this sentence I congratulate you for being a far better man than I. I would’ve been asleep by now.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[AttonParticipant]

After a while, I imagine that people stop reading these things as they amount to just another “Me Too” post.

I use a text to speech engine to listen to a large number of these posts. They are all worth reading because it only reinforces the point.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

Welcome Allen, welcome to MGTOW

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[Tim941Participant 68]

Anonymous wrote:

Thank you for [your] intro. Introductions are essential. I see them as a way to continually validate each other. Those of us who are awake to “the stacked deck & deranged perceptions” that surround us (men).

I agree with you, Johnny zero. Thank you for posting your important views. We’re going our own ways but one of those ways is sharing posts here in writing on public record concerning our shared experiences worthy of validation and efforts and sacrifices required to do so.

Allen, despite your low valuation of your introduction, I’m glad you did it and shared your truly valuable experiences and views.

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