Well, I am back… mostly.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I landed in the new city, and started the new job and got my first paycheck. I did go out and get a cheap laptop so I can do the Net more.

And here is the “mostly” part. For me, I now can really go my own way, as I get debt paid down, and do things. With that is a focus on my own life, and I am really less interested in spending so much time on the Net. I want to live a life and can. I have miles to go, to really go my own way. I will say that being on my own has cleared out a bunch of past mental clutter.

So, anyhow, it is back some and need to work on my life.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wonderful news Richard! We noticed you haven’t even around. Gratz on your new job and your first pay check. Take 10% , sock it away, and pay yourself first ….and don’t touch that money!!! Thanks for dropping in!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome back! BTW, debt free is a good estate.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Keymaster wrote:

Wonderful news Richard! We noticed you haven’t even around. Gratz on your new job and your first pay check. Take 10% , sock it away, and pay yourself first ….and don’t touch that money!!! Thanks for dropping in!

I have some credit cards to get paid off and I need to save up for a deposit for another apartment down the road. I am renting a room now, and don’t have my own kitchen, etc…

I went like a month working and no money, so it has been like running on vapors. Anyhow, it is now focus on my life, and f everything else. The more I had been away from the whole Internet stuff, and manosphere wars, the more I realize I don’t really have room for it in my life. Feminists/SJWs can do whatever they want, and I get on with my life. It is just a matter of making sense out of things.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 18]

Nice to hear from you Richard.

As a student I spent ample time using coffee shops WiFi to get work done after library hours.

Keep us posted brother and good luck with the positive change and outlook on life.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Try and keep some form of running diary here please.

It will do good for others in a similar bind.

Totally understand the getting away and solitude …. I crave that myself.

Mgtow is not about the net.

Go build your dream but try and show us the process now and then.

Invite us to the reveal if you can ☺

Thoughts are with you.

[UntamedParticipant]

Thanks for keeping us updated. And congrats on the new job! Don’t try to run. What’s important is getting there.
Best to you.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Hey RH – welcome back & glad to hear it looks like you’re landing on both feet.

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

it is back some and need to work on my life.

Any particular milestones you’re looking at over the next few days or weeks? I know when i went through a rough patch, having things to look forward to, specifically achievements, was *huge* for me. Even though my life’s vastly improved since then, i still look forward to e.g. “Saving X dollars due to not smoking” or “Bench pressing my BW” or whatever.

And feel free to share – i love celebrating that & getting ideas from other guys on what achievements they’re knocking down.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

MattNYC wrote:

Hey RH – welcome back & glad to hear it looks like you’re landing on both feet.

richardhutnik wrote:

it is back some and need to work on my life.

Any particular milestones you’re looking at over the next few days or weeks? I know when i went through a rough patch, having things to look forward to, specifically achievements, was *huge* for me. Even though my life’s vastly improved since then, i still look forward to e.g. “Saving X dollars due to not smoking” or “Bench pressing my BW” or whatever.

And feel free to share – i love celebrating that & getting ideas from other guys on what achievements they’re knocking down.

I had debated whether or not to go full ghosting mode, drop the YouTube channel content creation, etc… Part of my motivation to NOT have a laptop was so I could ghost easier. However, I found I need the connections. I just felt also here I needed more to get my life together before I speak. With this, I do realize that as I make progress, it would be of benefit to share what I do accomplish.

For myself, there is a few doodads I am looking to pick up, but I need to save up for the apartment deposit. I am renting a room. Will see how it goes. It is now wait for paychecks and try to ghost the world as much as possible to not spend as much. I am awaiting Thanksgiving to get my decent Yeti Blue mic back so I can do more YouTube videos. I do have some more videos I want done.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Glad to know you’re considering more videos. I’ve always loved your posts on here and YouTube! I’m hoping I experience the same success as you are after I’m completely out of debt!

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

What is now kicking in is The Void. I am feeling something is missing from my life somewhere. I need to deal with it. Not being able to buy an Atari 2600 Flashback today can’t be what set this off.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 29]

Glad to see you going foreward’s mate & welcome back.

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