Wealth from growing old and never marrying

[VectorParticipant 178]

All you men who never married and are in your 40’s, 50’s and beyond, please post your story on what it’s been like over the years in regards to freedom, and wealth.  Most men I’ve encountered who are in their 60’s/70’s who never married are usually VERY wealthy with multiple homes, and cars ect.  People almost look up to them for their decisions.

I had a conversation with a co-worker the other day about not wanting to ever get married.  He is a hard working (55 hours a week) married man, 51 years old with 3 kids. Has a mortgage, car payments, college tuition payments ect.  The look on his face every day is priceless, he looks miserable.  Always talks about having to feed his kids, and complains about his daily responsibilities, on having to go here and there ect. When I told him that I never want to get married, he first asked “why?” Then when I told him why, he said “I don’t blame you, if I could do it all over again, I would’ve never gotten married, OR had kids.”  He continued to say “do you realize how much money I would have by now if I never got married or had kids?”  Then he proceeded to speak highly of one of the recently retired upper mgmt managers, on how he’s got the nicest cars, multiple homes ect.  After our brief conversation he walked away, probably feeling a sense of jealousy that I took the red pill early on in life before f~~~ing it up, when the reality for him is, it’s too late!

So basically, what are the financial benefits/freedom like for you middle aged older men who never got married or had kids?  Are you loving life in your older age?  Are you still able to bang beautiful women in their 20’s?  Do you see your married male friends who are miserable, and feel bad for them?  (I’m 34 years old by the way.)

[Anonymous 42]

@vector, I don’t need, want, or desire the destructive influences of a woman! I am quite successful without one! Women have become more destructive to men and society than anything we’ve seen throughout history! Marriage to a woman use to provide a man with children to secure his well being in his old age. The carnage of the woman’s liberation movement has removed ALL incentives of marriage for the man, transferring ALL incentives and securities to the woman! Marriage is a hopeless hell hole for any man! The gynocentric mindset is an illusion placed over society by feminist propaganda. We don’t need society to tell us the opposite of that which we instinctively already know (feminism is a bad thing). My life has been rewarded greatly for my own opposition and rejection of feminism. I’ve been in a personal economic collapse since 2005, I can still endure and stay afloat fore more than a decade to come. Wealth is not a matter of partnership with a woman, it’s quite the opposite! A man free to operate as a man, is unhindered by the TOXIC effects that permeate ALL western woman! Successful men are commonly seen a isolationists, loners, and eccentrics. Not that they’ve changed, but society has changed. Now with the gynocentric hive transforming the western world, we shall witness socialistic implosion! This nation (United States) has been on the path of feminism for more than 50+ years. We can all agree that equality with the childlike mind of women has lead this nation to certain ruin. FEMINISM=DEATH TO AMERICA! MGTOW=THE RESURRECTION OF LIBERTY, DEATH TO FEMINISM!

[BrainPilotParticipant 7662]

48 years old. I got divorce 12 years ago when still fairly young. After divorce, ‘worked as hard as I possibly could and spent as little as I could for the next 10 years. For 10 years I didn’t really spend money on something unless I needed to survive. Paid off debts and invested like a maniac. I never let anyone get access to my income again. I’ve been able to take investment risk that no married man could, and I was fortunate enough to have some of those risks pay off.

‘Slowing down on work now. Without a wife or kids to support, I only have to work about 1-2 weeks per month to pay my bills these days. The basic bills and expenses of one person’s survival needs are not difficult for one person to meet.

But the survival needs, wants, gifts and other demands of one person plus a never-satisfied wife and kids would make any income insufficient.

Someone pointed out to me the other day that my job seems more like a hobby to me. I still like doing it, but my favorite part now is that I no longer have to do it. I still do it because I still like it, but I don’t put in 60-80 hour weeks anymore.

I got motorcycles and other toys now, but my favorite benefit about having no wife is that I have ownership of my time. I have time, and I have the ability to spend it however I want. What I learned about myself when I got to a position of being able to do whatever I want with lots of time… is that I’m kind of a lazy ass! lol Given the time and the option, I’m pretty content to sleep late every day and go through a day without accomplishing a whole lot. But the keyword here is ‘content’.

Maybe this is why governments are so biased about keeping men enslaved by women: we are less productive when we aren’t forced to produce for the paginated master/owner…? I know I am far less productive than I am capable of being, but I am more than productive enough to support myself. Perhaps the government can get one of the empowered cupcakes to step up and do the work that I could be doing, but no longer need to do. Let them tax her… if they can get her off her ass to actually show up and do that work.

As for chasing 20 year olds? I found 20 year old girls to be giggle heads with little to offer beyond sex… way back when I was 20 myself. Back then, I was so driven by hormones, that this was enough. Now that I’m almost 50 and don’t have the surging hormones I had in college, that same single thing they have to offer is worth much less than it was during the hormone years. I date women when I can find one who can hold a conversation for more than a few minutes without boring or irritating me, (mostly foreign born and educated). American women cannot make it through a single dinner date, and I gave up letting them even try a long time ago. Foreign born and educated are tolerable (mainly Asians) until they’ve become westernized. But these are rare and I have none of them who are in a position to demand anything from me, because no matter how much they seem different, eventually they start to mimic their American sisters.

When they become demanding, or boring, or irritating, I move on. Sometimes to another one quickly, sometimes to a period of not dating at all until the next one I can tolerate comes along. But I never have to take demands, or s~~~ tests, or threats from a woman. And that’s the way it’s going to stay.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[RoyDalParticipant]

In my bygone jour de la pilule bleue, I met a guy my age who had done the same analysis as Vector and come to the same conclusions. He told me getting married was, quite simply, a path to financial ruin. Happily for me, I learned from his advice and did not follow the self-destructive path of the other members of the herd.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[RoyDalParticipant]

BrainPilot wrote:

Without a wife or kids to support, I only have to work about 1-2 weeks per month to pay my bills these days. The basic bills and expenses of one person’s survival needs are not difficult for one person to meet.

Hear, hear! Y’all pay attention to BrainPilot. He speaks with the voice of wisdom.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

By never marrying and having kids……..I am only responsible for one person. Myself. I don’t have to worry about staying at a job that is making me miserable because I have a wife and kids to support.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Well my story is I’m 43 but not rich but I do own a home. I have 2 cars and a motorcycle. I’ll probably be able to retire early at age 55. I have my pension from my job, RRSP’s, and I have a GIC investment. I don’t have children and I’ve never been married. Also, I’m making sure I never have kids. wink wink April 8th is the day.

[FrankOneParticipant 1453]

I didn’t marry until 40 and not having a wife and children contributed to wealth — I can retire at will, I choose to continue working.  I’m in process of separation.  SOME women do contribute financially and plan for the future, but MOST women AND men do NOT save in their 20’s and 30’s.  With two ‘partners’ working, why not save income equal to one of them?  It rarely happens.  Usually spending balloons to equal income or close to it.  Americans have a very low saving rate.  Women do save at a slightly lower rate than men: http://www.fedweek.com/retirement-financial-planning/savings-rates-differ-by-gender/ 6.9% vs 7.6% of pay.  Women are more likely to take a loan from their retirement and also to default on it.  Feminist interpretation is the non-existent ‘wage gap’ — I tried to explain a couple weeks ago to several colleagues that our employer must be awfully sexist or they would replace us all with women if they could hire them for $0.77/dollar of what we made and that I expected shareholders to soon protest the large number of overpaid men.  I work in manufacturing, and in reality, the few qualified women that could be found, would actually be MORE expensive to hire than men as they’d have to be relocated.  These women also tend to be bid-up due to artificial hiring/affirmative action programs in larger corporations.  They were kinda dumbstruck by my comments.  I then mentioned the ‘death gap’ as in occupational fatalities and they’d had enough of me for one day.

[Anonymous 42]

FrankOne wrote:

I then mentioned the ‘death gap’ as in occupational fatalities and they’d had enough of me for one day.

@frankone, you’re right, I was almost killed once by a cable that came off the spool and whipped by my head, and I was almost maimed when a choker chain slipped of a boulder when I was repairing our dam.. I know of only one woman that was killed in a dry cleaner’s press, but I know two men that were killed on the job, one electrocuted, and the other crushed when he loosened a hydraulic line on a flatbed (roll-back) that wasn’t chalked with a block of wood. I know countless men that have been injured, but very few women, perhaps they ought to narrow the slaughter gap. Equal rights and equal pay means equal deaths, and equal injuries, no? Equal suffering, no? No, I didn’t think so. It’s only equal when men bear the grunt of society.

It must be nice to enjoy that kind of equality, the kind that has someone else suffering a greater loss, for your benefit.

[Anonymous 25]

43 never married. I have a young boy who is nearly 2. I called off the wedding and refused to get married. Best decision I ever made.

I don’t have to pay any Child Support payments and there’s nothing the ex can do to touch me financially. If you’re smart, there are things a guy can do to protect his wealth. My money my choice. I buy stuff for my son if he needs it but not a penny of my money is going on haircuts and having her nails done etc.

I take great holidays whenever I like. I have 2 cars, ones a Lexus.

I have female friends. I go to gym and stay in shape. Have a great job. Busy lifestyle. I have no trouble finding a pretty girl to enjoy her company so to speak, but I dont want a relationship (certainly not living together).

Having a son if the greatest thing ever. And its a great way to live without getting married. I love my life.

 

 

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I would rather have leisure than wealth: money comes easy to one who does not have to pay for c~~~s and runts.

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