We have all been there at some point… but not anymore

[treznik87Participant 570]

I have found this on some forum… just show you everything we are preaching is THE TRUTH… brainwashing… always blaming yourself for failed relationships… being a nice guy… being a pussy… putting her on a pedestal… hypergamy…

I can go on you know…

Its kinda painful to read it because we can all relate to it. this was me/you at some point. Its hard to see whats going on while being a brainwashed blue little smurf, isnt it?

I discovered in the last few days that my girlfriend was seeing someone else. I was chatting to my friend about it, but every girlfriend (4) I’ve ever had and one marriage have ended in them cheating on me over the course of 18 years. My friend says I’ve just having bad luck but I don’t know. Seems like when meeting someone new, things start going well and I start to trust them and open myself up and put my heart into it and it always ends this way. This time was especially hard as id just fallen for her. She did the dirt, not even trying to hide it. Not ready for a relationship. I don’t know if I’m naive to trust girls I meet, this time it feels different like I won’t trust again for a long time and I couldn’t date again if I didn’t trust or give it my all. I’m worn out after this one she was special. I was in counselling previously to deal with my marriage ending. My councillor said it’s on her back that she cheated but surely the common denominator is me??

lurkers! take your time and learn to be the smurf on the right… for your own sake…

[RoyDalParticipant]

I figure it’s a genetic trait designed to promote survival of the species.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

treznik87 wrote:

My councillor said it’s on her back that she cheated but surely the common denominator is me??

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[ZeitgeistParticipant 175]

Yeah, we’ve all been there at some point; but it’s all about what you do with it. Are you going to take control? Or are you going to be a whipped victim.

I was married in…well, a long long time ago. Within months of our marriage my beautiful new bride was cheating. She got a new job and started banging the boss. Most guys would have cornered her and forced a confession, dumped her like a dirty diaper and then simpered away broken hearted. Naw, that wasn’t for me. I didn’t need a confession. I knew by her behavior what was going on and with whom. In fact I didn’t want a confession. I refused to be the victim. As long as she didn’t know that I knew, I held all the power. I had the power to stay and take what I wanted or I had the power to drop her in my wake. It was totally up to me. From then on I worked when I wanted and when I got tired of it I quit and let her support me for a while…and she supported me quite often I can tell you. I played her for seven years. Her cheating with the boss stopped after a couple of short months and I’m pretty certain it never happened again. Somewhere along the way she actually fell in love with me.

Then one day years later I got a break; a gig (I won’t go into detail) which paid well and gave me the attention of plenty of eager females. It was time to dump the cheatin ho. She never saw it coming and her friends and family told me she was absolutely devastated.

It’s true gentlemen; revenge is a dish best served cold.

Any man who truly understands the nature of women can not love a woman.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Fuk blue pill life.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

I began my journey when I crawled out of blue pill hell with what was left of my sanity and assets.

During all of it, I was bounced back and forth between beta and alpha mode. It wasn’t anything I planned, but depending on the woman I was with. They had the ability to literally decide and project onto me what role I should play. Towards the end, my head was spinning.

I didn’t even know who I was. To quote the movie Tropic Thunder: I was just a dude, playing a dude, disguised as another dude.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Why do women cheat?

Because they get away with it.

Stop letting them get away with it.

[HitmanParticipant]

once you take the red pills,
you can’t go back.
.
and it wasn’t you ,
it was them.
AWALT.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Question is, do you miss it?

The women?
The relationships?
The hookups?
The sex?

If you dont, then your truly are MGTOW.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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