Warning men of the "One trick pony" When Dating a Fly Trap

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  • #780970
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    The man in the mountain
    The man in the mountain
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    Trying to convince most men that the perfect woman does not exist it’s something very hard to do, Because we all have heard this fable story or phrase i am about to write to you: “you just have to find the right one” or “Not all women are like that”.

    Gentlemen i am here to tell you that almost everything you have been told specially in this subject that encompasses a part of life has been a flaming lie.

    Let me explain what and how i can tell a “one trick pony” tactic is being employed by a female.

    You see men, it’s NOT hard to find a woman, specially if you are on track to a successful career, As my lawyer once told me” it’s NO surprise when a man is doing good the perfect woman seems to appear out of nowhere”.

    Let that sink in for just a sec….Many of my old friends have failed to see this trick and i have seen this s~~~ show play out like an old 90’s movie. Over and over again, Now let me tell you how this works.

    Women come to you all nice, good attitude, decent education, seems like she had a good upbringing, she tells you all the things you want to hear in a relationship, she gives you sex at least once a day or whenever you want it and she mimics your mother almost perfectly and seems to like your hobbies, all of this is done in an attempt to wrap you up like a nice little gift in which it will take a very long time to wake up to the fact that you are about to enter a hell you will wish you never stepped into, she will start to demand more time from you, basically separating you from your support group and network of friends or family.

    Red flags don’t pop up with this con-artist of a female, Not at least until the time table is hit that usually ends in 3’s, like 3 months, 6 months or 9 months into the relationship, by that time you probably jumped up and down and did pull the trigger by putting a ring on that unicorn, that’s when the emotional and financial abuse starts, that’s when the life will be sucked out of you with the constant nagging and fights, if you though sex might make it worth it still, well this female usually starts to cut the sex to use it as a tool of control.

    Women are all about control, and the laws of today and specially in family court don’t give them a reason to behave all the way until they divorce you and make you feel like your life is a total smoking waste.

    I personally lost 2 Friends who committed suicide because of this, and apparently my last childhood friend seems to be “On track” to smell hes new pony right out of hes box, Gentlemen may this be a warning NOT to f~~~ up your life like this. Don’t do it.

    It’s also of no surprise that these women may pretend to be good or fair in their ways and behavior at the start, but the dirt someday does comes out and you start finding out just how many guys and “relationships” this little princess has gone through, a mile of c~~~ and chads wouldn’t be enough to count…

    Here’s a very good video that even though most females are NOT psychopaths they do employ the same type of behavior that is being popularized and encouraged onto the masses of flaming vaginal glory…

    #781002
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    Awakened
    Awakened
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    Women come to you all nice, good attitude, decent education, seems like she had a good upbringing, she tells you all the things you want to hear in a relationship, she gives you sex at least once a day or whenever you want it and she mimics your mother almost perfectly and seems to like your hobbies, all of this is done in an attempt to wrap you up like a nice little gift in which it will take a very long time to wake up to the fact that you are about to enter a hell you will wish you never stepped into, she will start to demand more time from you, basically separating you from your support group and network of friends or family.

    The “loving” girlfriend/chameleon that will do “anything” for you while you are “dating” won’t do anything for you and become your worse enemy after marriage.

    THEY are out there. I married one. LOL

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #781017
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    Romulus
    Romulus
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    4667

    Women realize capturing a man’s heart/commitment is played as a short term game. They need only act the role for a few months, and, while the man is clouded by sexual lust, get him committed to her and their relationship.

    We have all probably seen this for ourselves. We’ve had some friend that meets a new lady and suddenly, quickly, all his time becomes occupied with her, and 6 to 12 months later…….there are marriage plans. I’m seeing it again now with a new generation, my nephews.

    If these men would wait 2-3 years, the fog will have lifted, her truer nature will have had occasion to reveal itself, and a man could get a better view of what he may be signing up for.

    Don’t cohabitate.
    Don’t co-mingle finances.
    Don’t get her pregnant.
    Don’t marry.

    How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

    #781018
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    The man in the mountain
    The man in the mountain
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    Women come to you all nice, good attitude, decent education, seems like she had a good upbringing, she tells you all the things you want to hear in a relationship, she gives you sex at least once a day or whenever you want it and she mimics your mother almost perfectly and seems to like your hobbies, all of this is done in an attempt to wrap you up like a nice little gift in which it will take a very long time to wake up to the fact that you are about to enter a hell you will wish you never stepped into, she will start to demand more time from you, basically separating you from your support group and network of friends or family.

    The “loving” girlfriend/chameleon that will do “anything” for you while you are “dating” won’t do anything for you and become your worse enemy after marriage.

    THEY are out there. I married one. LOL

    NEVER underestimate the POWER of the blue pill….

    I still remember that post you made it was gold my friend, i am laughing to no end, however i have been kinda bummed after loosing two good guys that didn’t deserve to go down like that, well at least it serves me as experience and something that i can look at as a reminder to never f~~~ up like that.

    #781022
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    Awakened
    Awakened
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    35200

    Women realize capturing a man’s heart/commitment is played as a short term game. They need only play-act the role for a 3-6 months period, and, while the man is clouded by sexual lust, get him committed to her and their relationship. Usually 3-6 months…to have him signed sealed and delivered.

    The real “good ones” can turn their short game into a long term game until they have “their man” married with children, and THEN the sweet lil cupcake SHOWS EXACTLY HOW HORRIBLE SHE TRULY IS.

    I got one of the “good ones”. LOL

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #781023
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    JustAnotherGuy
    JustAnotherGuy
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    There used to be an understanding, before the “romance and marriage” industry in pop culture (thanks to women having all their household chores automated and having nothing but free time starting about 1945), that men and women had to actually work together. Neither was exactly perfect, but they would resolve differences and smooth out some flaws for the sake of creating a family.

    That illusion was absolutely destroyed. The Frankfurt school and Russian propaganda industry of the 1940s and 1950s successfully infiltrated a few small American institutions, sewed the seeds that would change the way an entire generation thinks about relationships (it became about solipsism instead of compromise), and now here we are.

    The social contract is dead. They killed it before any of us were born. It’s now every man for himself.

    Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
    “Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

    #781026
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    Atton
    Atton
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    You forgot the fact the proverbial medusa is super powered by the law.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #781104
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    Arcturis
    Arcturis
    Participant
    2819

    The “loving” girlfriend/chameleon that will do “anything” for you while you are “dating” won’t do anything for you and become your worse enemy after marriage.

    Oh yes, this rings true.

    First 1-4 years: “I’d move anywhere for you” “I’d go anywhere with you”

    Year 5-8: I moved closer and closer to her because she was worried she couldn’t get another job. I got 2 new jobs and relocated without her help both times.

    Year 8: “You have to move to my town otherwise this isn’t going to work”

    Year 8: F~~~ THIS S~~~ I’M GOING MGTOW.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #781110
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    Awakened
    Awakened
    Participant
    35200

    First 1-4 years: “I’d move anywhere for you” “I’d go anywhere with you”

    I remember mine CLEARLY, “The way that I feel about you, I would follow you anywhere !!”

    Now. I just DREAM that it would GO AWAY, but it’s like feeding a stray dog too many times; Wishing it to GO AWAY is Not going to happen. LOL

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #781112
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
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    Beware the chameleon.
    When she wants to know what’s your favorite, song, beer, food, games, sports, cars, hobbies, books and/or activities are don’t be surprised that her home is now stocked with all your favorites.
    It’s not magic. A woman’s weapon is manipulation and a memory that never forgets.

    She hated sports when she was with you, but runs around in an NFL jersey of Chads favorite team.

    She hated beer when she was with you, but knows every micro brewery chad goes to.

    And so on and so forth…………..

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #781113
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    The man in the mountain
    The man in the mountain
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    4102

    The “loving” girlfriend/chameleon that will do “anything” for you while you are “dating” won’t do anything for you and become your worse enemy after marriage.

    Oh yes, this rings true.

    First 1-4 years: “I’d move anywhere for you” “I’d go anywhere with you”

    Year 5-8: I moved closer and closer to her because she was worried she couldn’t get another job. I got 2 new jobs and relocated without her help both times.

    Year 8: “You have to move to my town otherwise this isn’t going to work”

    Year 8: F~~~ THIS S~~~ I’M GOING MGTOW.

    Wow in your case she left that pretty open for a while, I mean eight years its a pretty bad investment of the little time they have to shack up a guy, you probably have a good job/career, however she probably explored her options while you both lived away from each other, all women do that.

    The last part got me because it’s so true, no reason to get serious or have a formal relations~~~ when the laws are increasingly hostile towards men and you can get sex from young stupid chicks or hookers (not recomending either).

    Monk mode is surely the way to go in the long therm, good on you brother!.

    #781118
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
    Participant
    19005

    The real “good ones” can turn their short game into a long term game

    Absolutely!!
    I have seen long games go more than 5 years.
    Then the guy marries her and she hates everything he was about almost overnight. The home gets remolded, the cars have to go.

    “We’re a family now so we have to start acting like one” AKA time to change you into a pussy whipped simp.

    Seen it with own eyes many, many times.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #781123
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    Narwhal
    narwhal
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    In some ways, I don’t blame women for this. Absolutely some do this consciously, but I think many do not.

    Say that employment laws set ‘no fault terminations’. That is to say that if an employee left a company for any reason (fired or quit or even committed fraud), the employee was entitled to a huge lump sum payment from them, usually crippling the company’s ability to do business. If the employee has kids, then the companies profits are garnished. Companies blindly believe still believe though that employees won’t screw them over. They will be loyal and work diligent to the company, even if they are not happy, or see a better paying job out there they can transfer to.

    So if this was how employment worked, can you honestly say that you would stay employed with your first employer, even if you no longer liked your job and a better employer was available? You wouldn’t promise to be a good employee and change your tune a couple years later? I’m pretty sure I would.

    And yes, this is a ridiculous example…but this is exactly what marriage is today.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #781131
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    Arcturis
    Arcturis
    Participant
    2819

    Wow in your case she left that pretty open for a while,

    Yeah, she would ask every year almost and I never wanted to ‘commit’.

    Her ‘ultimatum’ was the final straw really.

    Tough decision but I walked away.

    It’s been hard but best decision I ever made in terms of my personal progression.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #781153
    The man in the mountain
    The man in the mountain
    Participant
    4102

    In some ways, I don’t blame women for this. Absolutely some do this consciously, but I think many do not.

    Say that employment laws set ‘no fault terminations’. That is to say that if an employee left a company for any reason (fired or quit or even committed fraud), the employee was entitled to a huge lump sum payment from them, usually crippling the company’s ability to do business. If the employee has kids, then the companies profits are garnished. Companies blindly believe still believe though that employees won’t screw them over. They will be loyal and work diligent to the company, even if they are not happy, or see a better paying job out there they can transfer to.

    So if this was how employment worked, can you honestly say that you would stay employed with your first employer, even if you no longer liked your job and a better employer was available? You wouldn’t promise to be a good employee and change your tune a couple years later? I’m pretty sure I would.

    And yes, this is a ridiculous example…but this is exactly what marriage is today.

    I have to say i love your example even thought it might be a bit ridiculous, also is ridiculous to believe that women should be these perfect creatures that do no harm to their men and children, some men have alcohol problems, some women have emotional problems.

    The way i see it is that everyone has problems that they deal with in a daily basis, nobody is perfect, however even though both in marriage and in a work place there is an expectation or expectations to be fulfilled, both sort it out very differently, In marriage is a formal union in which both parties seek to benefit each other and live with each other or for each other, while in a working environment expects a certain performance of you when you present yourself daily and when its not met you are fired and replaced almost on the spot, in Marriage you are at least expected to work out the issues before pulling the trigger.

    I understand your point of moving to “greener” pastures or better “jobs”, however we know women are not able to avoid s~~~ deals like we men do, women are the number one buyer of useless s~~~ they don’t need with money they don’t have, so you expect a person with this predisposition to have 50 percent say in a marriage with little consequences?.

    I find it as a person not just a man morally ok for a woman to trade up if shes not married, if shes married i expect her to make the best of her situation or leave, most choose the latter option shown by the statistic that 1 in 2 marriages end up in divorce and the majority of separations are requested by females, but you can’t possibly tell me that from the 74 percent of divorces initiated by females all of them were horrible men or less than average, a lot of them they clearly did it for the gift and prizes and obviously for the thrill to have the freedom to see the guys they messed around with in their earlier years again for a round 2 of c~~~ing.

    Just giving my two cents.

    #781190
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    MACHO
    MACHO
    Participant

    my lawyer once told me” it’s NO surprise when a man is doing good the perfect woman seems to appear out of nowhere”.

    Success, Power and Fame makes men very attractive to the female psyche. Therefore the opposite makes men boring, unattractive.

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #781305
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    Mr Logic
    Mr Logic
    Participant
    625

    Great post.

    #781344
    +1
    Daryll55
    Daryll55
    Participant
    2950

    Trying to convince most men that the perfect woman does not exist it’s something very hard to do, Because we all have heard this fable story or phrase i am about to write to you: “you just have to find the right one” or “Not all women are like that”.

    Gentlemen i am here to tell you that almost everything you have been told specially in this subject that encompasses a part of life has been a flaming lie.

    Let me explain what and how i can tell a “one trick pony” tactic is being employed by a female.

    You see men, it’s NOT hard to find a woman, specially if you are on track to a successful career, As my lawyer once told me” it’s NO surprise when a man is doing good the perfect woman seems to appear out of nowhere”.

    Let that sink in for just a sec….Many of my old friends have failed to see this trick and i have seen this s~~~ show play out like an old 90’s movie. Over and over again, Now let me tell you how this works.

    Women come to you all nice, good attitude, decent education, seems like she had a good upbringing, she tells you all the things you want to hear in a relationship, she gives you sex at least once a day or whenever you want it and she mimics your mother almost perfectly and seems to like your hobbies, all of this is done in an attempt to wrap you up like a nice little gift in which it will take a very long time to wake up to the fact that you are about to enter a hell you will wish you never stepped into, she will start to demand more time from you, basically separating you from your support group and network of friends or family.

    Red flags don’t pop up with this con-artist of a female, Not at least until the time table is hit that usually ends in 3’s, like 3 months, 6 months or 9 months into the relationship, by that time you probably jumped up and down and did pull the trigger by putting a ring on that unicorn, that’s when the emotional and financial abuse starts, that’s when the life will be sucked out of you with the constant nagging and fights, if you though sex might make it worth it still, well this female usually starts to cut the sex to use it as a tool of control.

    Women are all about control, and the laws of today and specially in family court don’t give them a reason to behave all the way until they divorce you and make you feel like your life is a total smoking waste.

    I personally lost 2 Friends who committed suicide because of this, and apparently my last childhood friend seems to be “On track” to smell hes new pony right out of hes box, Gentlemen may this be a warning NOT to f~~~ up your life like this. Don’t do it.

    It’s also of no surprise that these women may pretend to be good or fair in their ways and behavior at the start, but the dirt someday does comes out and you start finding out just how many guys and “relationships” this little princess has gone through, a mile of c~~~ and chads wouldn’t be enough to count…

    Here’s a very good video that even though most females are NOT psychopaths they do employ the same type of behavior that is being popularized and encouraged onto the masses of flaming vaginal glory…

    <iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/HlqoC3SKIxA?feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allow=”autoplay; encrypted-media” allowfullscreen=””></iframe>

    Gets my vote to go into “The Best of” (blue pill hell?)
    read the entire post but the vid is almost 2hrs long
    Should have hit the highlights that directly support your post

    At any rate: A great post for those younger that still think there is their special cup-cake…… 30 point buck…….. 9lb smallmouth…… 50 inch pike…….1200HP car that gets 30MPG……6 figure Income where you do “nothing”…..

    Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

    #784112
    Reclus
    Reclus
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    Thanks for posting this – an excellent presentation.

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