Want to thank all the MGTOW's you probably saved me a lot of misery

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

I want to thank all MGTOWS who have posted articles, replied or started forum posts , videos etc…

I am currently a married man although that is going to be changing soon. My wife has 2 sisters, a couple years ago one of her sisters died, she had issues galore and her death was a result of years of drug abuse etc..

Well that sister left behind 3 kids 2 of which needed a new home after the death. Her other sister took the kids in, although my wife acted like we may have to, I told her no f~~~ing way.

Well now her other sister has cancer and I feel really bad for her, but now all of a sudden my wife says “we need to have a frank discussion, those kids may need a new home and we are the only ones that make sense.”

I have never wanted kids and I have always been upfront and honest about that. I told her no way in hell are we taking those kids. She says , “I can’t believe you are making me choose between the kids and my marriage.”

I said “that is a two way street, you have made me choose and I am not taking on those kids, it is a sad story but they do have other options and irregardless they are not my responsibility.” These are also not what I would call “good” kids, they have a lot of issues, I turn 50 this year and I am not taking on anyone else’s kids at this point in my life or any point really.

If it had not been for MGTOW existing which has given me a lot to think about the last few months I might have caved and been miserable as f~~~ing hell. Instead I told her that I want to get together this weekend to figure out how we are going to move forward with going our own ways.

Thanks MGTOW you are a life saver.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Im with stealthy on this one, “NO” is all that needs to be said. Good luck on the outcome brother and welcome to the forum.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Why is this your responsibility? Where is the father(s) of these kids?

I with the other guys Use the magic word: No.

[Anonymous 13]

You now know who or what is more important to your wife, and it’s NOT you.

The moment she said you’re making me choose, that was it, game over!

She was taking the kids with or without you, your feelings don’t matter.

If she loved you the way a life partner should love you there’d be simply no choice, you and your feelings would be of the utmost importance to her.
They’re not.

At 50 here’s the choice:

1) Go with HER choice, the kids and spend your later years tired and miserable all the time because it’s not what you wanted. Likely the marriage would fail anyway because of the kids and your feelings(knowing she gave you no choice) and she’ll divorce you taking everything and you paying support for the kids that aren’t yours.

2) At 50 YOUR choice, you’re still young enough and have enough working life ahead of you to be peaceful and happy and make a new quiet life for yourself, and preferably MGTOW.

Good luck!

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Welcome and keep us posted on your situation.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Dang that is some heat on you indeed, but you made the right choice in not taking “trouble” kids especially at 50 years old… It is very evident who the important one your wife thinks is and it is not you. I am dating a woman with 2 other sisters and she will gladly drop me like a hat for her sisters at a moment’s notice. It is like trying to date a single mother at times… you will never be number 1.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

Thanks for the responses, it really helps having a place like this where I can see that there are a lot of other guys who have woken up, it helps me stay strong and have the confidence to stand up for my wants and needs.

I will update as this progresses. I suspect when the reality of taking on two kids by herself hits her she may not be so keen on it anymore, but I am thinking this has shown where I lie in importance in her life so probably going to go my own way even if she changes her mind.

[Anonymous 13]

billtaichi wrote:

I am thinking this has shown where I lie in importance in her life so probably going to go my own way even if she changes her mind.

Precisely, once you’ve woken up there’s no going back.
What’s seen cannot be unseen.

You’ll always know now you’re just not number one or important enough.
In fact probably much further down the priority scale than you think.

Better to get out now rather than more years of your life gone when you could have been rebuilding.

It sucks, I know…but you will be fine… ?

[NeroParticipant 1466]

billtaichi wrote:

but I am thinking this has shown where I lie in importance in her life so probably going to go my own way even if she changes her mind.

I would say the writing is clearly on the wall. The funny thing is, if you were to take on those kids, you would feel like the most lonely man on the planet as you would be forever a last priority. Some women truly see a guy as money on tap and nothing more.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

PistolPete wrote:

Why is this your responsibility? Where is the father(s) of these kids?

I with the other guys Use the magic word: No.

This!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

In reply to the people asking where the father of the kids is, he died in a car accident about 5 years ago and things really went to s~~~ after that as the mom was not really capable of acting like an adult.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

billtaichi wrote:

In reply to the people asking where the father of the kids is, he died in a car accident about 5 years ago and things really went to s~~~ after that as the mom was not really capable of acting like an adult.

I’m shocked! You’ve been given great advice. Do not entertain this s~~~. I bet she’s already planning a nice, fat divorce rape for you right now. Those kids will get taken care of.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

billtaichi wrote:

In reply to the people asking where the father of the kids is, he died in a car accident about 5 years ago and things really went to s~~~ after that as the mom was not really capable of acting like an adult.

You’re not the father since he passed away,meaning this is still not your problem. I hate to sound like a prick but this is the world we live in so adjust accordingly. No female or judge has no sympathy for you when they are ass raping you in divorce court or child support,no one gives a f~~~ so its we stop worrying about other people’s problems and live your life. Those are not your kids.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Why should you waste your time, energy and money on kids that aren’t yours to begin with? Besides, they’ll be sure to remind you of it the moment you do the favor of taking them in, so it’s better to resist your wife of wanting them. The moment she takes them in they’ll side with her and turn against you. You’ll regret it for the rest of your life.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[Anonymous 43]

RUN THE F~~~ AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some judge F~~~wit will say TAG you’re it for these kids. Do you want to be IT?

Have papers prepared. Sit her down. Keep you and the way things are…no kids. or you are out if the kids are coming. Move out before they get there, no contact!

Divorce the woman now, divide yer s~~~ and move on before these kids move in and call you “DADDY!”

The thought of her sisters kids needing a place to live will drive her insane. Absof~~~inglutely bats~~~ insane. It will eat her alive and she will hate you for not going along with her plan.

IMHO you are f~~~ed now.

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

I think some of you maybe got the idea that when I mentioned that the father had died that I was thinking of caving, that is not the case, I feel no responsibility at all for the kids and the father being dead does not change that in any way.

Actually, I have decided whether she changes her mind or not I am still going to tell her I want to leave. As several here have mentioned if I stay I feel like I will get f~~~ed over in one way or another. Right now she is highly unlikely to get any kind of alimony but if the kids ever get here then I could be totally f~~~ed over by the system and I don’t intend to let that happen. Thanks for all the advice and support, I will let you know how it goes!

[AttonParticipant]

It’s pretty foolish to marry without any intention of children.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 5]

I have learned the hard way that if you have stipulated this “I dont want any kids….. ever” and this so called wife of yours has made it clear that she must take in the troubled kids and will with or without your consent , then you brother have a woman who has indeed violated your contract with you, vows, and everything you hold dear.
The last biatch I was with had a son 36 years old living with her, of course taking care of her, and when it came to me telling her that I didn’t want to live with her and her son in the same house, well she flipped her lid and is now on the list of people I will never have any kind of relationship with. Single mothers, you will always get the raw, nasty end of the stick in that situation. But that was just one part of the situation that ended our relationship.
Keep ingesting your daily dose of red pill, the only thing I would worry about is how long you have been married, she still might be able to collect spousal support, do yourself a favor and start hiding your money away asap.

Sincerely:
Steve

[Anonymous 9]

Choose between kids and marriage?

WTF?

Those aren’t even your kids man.

F~~~ that s~~~.

See…

That’s why I’m staying free.

[Anonymous 9]

Do not be cuckold.

Shw will later make you pay for college.

And this right here…

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