Wallsplattting ex-whore wants to know I'm okayyyy

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

LMAO @ this.

I have about 40 various email accounts that I have made over the years and about every 3 months I visit the 38 I don’t use anymore to check for s~~~. Late last night I did that and 3 of them had mails from my whoring ex-wife from over 20 years ago saying some friend of hers died of a heart attack and that made her think of how I refused to remain in touch after catching her slutty ass f~~~ing some bag of s~~~ and so she has no idea if I am okay. She said she thinks of me often and it’s important for her to know I am alive and doing well.

Took me all of half a second to hit the delete button on each. FOAD, c~~~.

I have zero social media presence and there are absolutely no common acquaintances so the sperm toilet’s not heard a word from me since the divorce and never will.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Grown up decisions have grown up consequences. She chose to cheat on you and end the relationship. Part of that choice is knowing she most likely will never hear from you again. Her body, her choice.

That and she’s full of s~~~. It’s a monkey checking out the old branches to see how sturdy they are. Guess the one she’s sitting on isn’t that stable. Sucks to be her.

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

No NEED nor DESIRE to Hang On To TOXIC people.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I have a similar experience with a gold digger ex. When you amputate a gangrenous foot, it is not a pleasant experience, but you do it anyway to stop it doing any more harm than it already has. You do NOT come back 20 years later to see if you can reattach it. I have maintained a similar wall of silence with the ex for over 10 years now, but she still leaves voice messages.

If you really are curious about why she is getting back to you now, here are a couple of theories. You can decide which most likely fits for your ex as you know her best.

1 She is at an age where her peers are starting to get sick, as she said, and she realizes this could happen to her. She’s looking around for who she can use to lean on if it does. You got an email, but so did everyone of her other ex’s, everyone of her family, and everyone she’s ever worked with, or otherwise had a relationship with. She’s just verifying the list of people still available to use. If she had honored her vows (forsaking all others), you’d still be honoring yours (in sickness and in health). Her problem. You don’t owe her a damn thing.

2 She is at an age where her peers are starting to retire, or starting to talk about retiring, and she realizes only now that she hasn’t invested enough money into stock market, real estate etc, and she hasn’t invested enough emotionally into a relationship with another person to be on anyone’s ‘team’. She realizes (finally) that your vow (for richer or poorer) had much more value to it than she thought when she threw it away 20 years ago. She is facing old age alone and broke, and she is reaching out to everyone in her phone to see who she might be able to use. This is the case with my ex. Men are far more responsible for ourselves, are more disciplined in our spending/saving and we don’t live as long as women, so financing our retirement is not the same challenge for us as it is for women. She’s a strong independent woman who “doesn’t need no man…”. I don’t know exactly how fish manage their retirement, but apparently, they can do it without bicycles…

3 She has finally realized the full impact of the wall. She may have hit the wall many years ago, but push up bras, make up, hair colors, botox, etc have allowed her to remain in denial of this. She may have also been able to locate some blue pill simps that would continue to give her attention and rewards for potential vagina access. But somewhere recently, she offered it to someone (or many someones), and they turned it down. Eventually, all women get to a point where they can’t even give it away. At that point, they would trade it for any scrap of attention from any man… just to be able to continue the denial that the wall has come and gone and left them worthless. When they reach this point, EVERY man in her phone gets a call. As described above, it’s essentially just reaching back to test the branch she already swung away from to see if it’s still there for her.

4 A variation on 3# occurs when they ratchet down their choices in men over time to keep the denial going, and they stumble on to some degenerate who is unexpectedly much worse than they anticipated. He slaps her around, or steals her money, or molests one of her kids, or some other crap that turns those tingles into horrors. When this happens, they have to sort out who to blame. Outwardly of course, the degenerate chad gets blamed. But inwardly, they have to prove to themselves and to the hive that they could do better. They have to sort out if this is an aberration, or the new normal exchange rate for their one marketable commodity. They will do this with a phone call to every man in their phone, and use the responses to verify their relative rank in the order of things.

None of these indicate a change in behavior, only a slightly varied continuation of it. And if you respond with attention, even negative attention, you have re-enforced this behavior. Being ignored and forgotten post wall is about the only consequence that remains for women who behave like sluts. No need to remove that one remaining consequence from them. Not only does responding remove that consequence, it signals that what she did is acceptable if she waits a while after doing it. Despite anything you say, responding (at all) sends that signal.

The only response I’m even considering with mine is a restraining order, because she leaves voice mails at 2-3am sometimes. But I suspect that doing so creates some public court record that will pop up on a background check of me, and my digital footprint is also minimal. I don’t want that laundry hanging out there.

Anyone with any thoughts or experience on that?

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Post of the day Brain Pilot! Outstanding analysis.

I think when my ex asked me if I wanted to get back together it was a combination of all of the above. The realization that she is in a worse financial position, that the guy she left for is a sponge and wasn’t an upgrade financially, that she has had to be there for his health issues and can’t count on him for hers, and most likely the lack of any better prospects. Because…..the wall.

I don’t have any experience with the restraining order. Can you just block her number?

Order the good wine

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

The thing is, as men we know that nobody is going to look after us or give us money for free. We know we have to get our s~~~ in order and make sure we own a property and have savings and a pension in place. We spend our while lives working hard so we don’t have to suffer a retirement in poverty.

Women on the other hand are used to having some blue piller waiting in the wings to fix all their problems. Car broken down?, laptop/phone broken? need to borrow money? need to be picked up after drinking all night? want to go out for dinner and have no money? no problem there will always be an orbiter in their phone who will fall over himself to help.

They can then ride the carousel for 15 years and run up loads of loan, student and credit card debt. Don’t worry about owning property and even get a s~~~ty job as they will hit the jackpot when they marry that blue pill wallet. Suddenly the debt will go away, they will get a house and can essentially retire and send the husband to the plantation for ever.

But it is not good enough, they need the tingles so divorce rape the husband and get back on the carousel. All is good for a few years, but soon they start loosing their SMV and hit the wall. They then find that once their looks have gone, men are not interested in doing anything for them. There is no man who is going to bail them out this time, this is where the “where have all the good men gone?” wailing starts.

This means the only men available to them are the men who helped them in the past. They have no shame, they are so worried about the future and their security they will try anything.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[StealthParticipant 5360]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Don’t worry about owning property and even get a s~~~ty job as they will hit the jackpot when they marry that blue pill wallet.

Many of the women I work with at the warehouse have the perspective that having a job is temporary for them, that something has gone wrong for them to actually be working, that they’re between boyfriends or their man isn’t providing enough so they’re looking to trade. Only one or two seem to realize others are able to work that system, but they themselves should be working to pay the bills.

In my own case, I have one ex-gf who stalks me and has a pattern of contacting my close friends to send messages to me, under pretense that I’m doing ok or she is worried for me. This usually signals when she’ll start showing up in places and sending me angry messages through various means about how (whatever it is) is all my fault. A real “bees with honey” situation.

My own ex-wife hasn’t contacted me in years and I prefer it that way. Last time I encountered her she was pounding at my front door like she was breaking in, yelling, wanting to get in the house. A tender flower, that one.

There is some great material on this thread… Top Gun material.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 18]

BrainPilot wrote:

I don’t know exactly how fish manage their retirement, but apparently, they can do it without bicycles…

Savage

[MonkParticipant 17026]

The holiday season is upon us. Desperate ex-wives and GF’s will be trawling their tattered address books. Expect more of this over the forthcoming weeks.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

I was gonna give my thoughts on it, but Brain Pilot already smashed it harder than your ex smashed that wall. Let’s face it. 20 years ago means that unless you got married in the 2nd grade, you’re both at or over 40. Not a big problem for a guy, but to women on average, that wall is hitting and,”The Clock” is ticking. She’s obviously desperately calling to see who from her past remembers her. She even tries to guilt trip you. (I.E. Story about her friend dying for sympathy plus trying to shame you because you,”Refused to stay in touch over the years” with no mentioning of her own hand in WHY you have chosen such an action) and of course, her,”Thinking of you” line. Sure she is. I’ll tell you what she’s thinking: She’s 40 years old at a minimum, she has no kids, no alimony or at least not enough, and since the c~~~ carousel is closed, the nights are getting long and lonely……………and them bills would be easier to pay if she had someone to help her out.

Considering you’re on this site you probably know what I’m going to say next, but I’ll say it anyway: Don’t fall for it. You’ve already seen what happened the last time you put a ring on it and now she’s 20 years older and the laws have NOT improved in the favor of men. You dodged the alimony bullet and the preggy trap once, so don’t willingly walk back into the kill zone again. Of course, her friends are gonna pull the NAWALT card, but just kindly remind them that SHE IS LIKE THAT!! She not only can and will be like that, she has ALREADY DONE IT BEFORE. They’ll continue to argue and bitch and try to get you back on the hook, So either leave or shut them down and enjoy your day. They will play you if they can, so don’t let ’em. That’s all I’ve got. Peace out bros.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

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