Virgin can be MGTOW?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Go your own way and stop worrying about social norms that say you need to do this or that, need to have women as sexual conquests, or you need sex.  If dating life stuff hasn’t work for you, and you hadn’t found anyone, go your own way and work on yourself.  Going your own way is the key part in my book on this.  The path to go your own way doesn’t have a have sex toll booth on it.  Heck, I could argue that tollbooth is what can be used to manipulate you by society.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[VerkirParticipant 7]

I’m still relatively young for being a virgin to be considered an issue (by ridiculous societal norms of course), but I have a feeling I will remain this way for a long time. I never bothered, and I never will. And you can be a virgin and still be MGTOW… In fact I think since your 26 it makes you that much more of an MGTOW, because that separates you from a large majority of people.

 

 

[LeHarfangParticipant 25]

Yeah you guys are all right. Getting laid isn’t necessary. I came to think it was since i had to get my genes down to some children, but again, i don’t care much about my genes, now that i think about it. It’s just some pressure i had put on myself. I now realize there were plenty of men in the past who chose a lifestyle where they never got children and those genes these people had are still present nowadays and persists.

PS: @verkir Attack on Titan ftw 😀

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

LeHarfang wrote:

Yeah you guys are all right. Getting laid isn’t necessary. I came to think it was since i had to get my genes down to some children, but again, i don’t care much about my genes, now that i think about it. It’s just some pressure i had put on myself. I now realize there were plenty of men in the past who chose a lifestyle where they never got children and those genes these people had are still present nowadays and persists. PS: @verkir Attack on Titan ftw

There are so many other ways to have a legacy than do stuff with your genes, if a legacy is your thing.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Little BirdParticipant 40]

Preach it man, that really hit home, thanks.

[cicer0Participant 46]

Very tangental but consider this; Sir Isaac Newton died a virgin. He managed to articulate gravity, after he invented a whole new branch of maths to explain it. Some consider him the original MGTOW.

[timbannisterParticipant 8]

Thank you for asking an interesting question and as I too am new to this website I confess I too am not altogether clear myself about differing criteria linked to MGTOW thinking. My belief is being a woman hater is not necessarily part of MGTOW thinking? But “loving” a woman and having an unfulfilled desire for a permanent “loving” relationship with a woman is definitely incompatible with MGTOW?

Also my belief is being a male virgin means one may enjoy masturbation alone, but that does not mean harboring a secret wish to have sexual intercourse with women? But means no such desire currently in mindset even though that may have been otherwise in that guy’s past. Being MGTOW does not however exclude:-
(a) Homosexual males.
(b) Bisexual males
(c) Asexual males.
(d) Sexually deviant males (provided they are not into anything illegal like pedophilia or rape?

[Anonymous 13]

Stay a virgin forever, don’t even masturbate, you could become Galacticus.  Your impulse control would be like that of a monk.  Your grey matter will grow, you will be one of the most disciplined men in the entire f~~~ing galaxy universe.  You can learn ten languages ten instruments ten disciplines martial arts engineering read law books philosophy history…the possibilities would be endless if you stay on this path!  Too much time is devoted to “courtship” and/or other types of mating practices, and then….as you can see, especially in our post modern society, time is WASTED!

 

Do not give in, ever!

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

I was a virgin till age 29 (Im 30 now) and even then I just slept with a hooker. I remember thinking this is it? This is the great -sex- that PUAs are p~~~ing away their life away over? Didn’t date before then, didn’t care. I had some 7 hobbies in addition to studying keeping me content. Only gf I had lasted about three days and she broke up with me on the phone. Some out there would say no wonder he’s mgtow he’s angry at being ignored by women! But you know what? For me having a gf however briefly- was what felt abnormal, being single IS normal and default in my life. So I’m not missing anything. You can’t miss what you don’t know. My mother stole thousands out of my account but I rationalize it like this: Now I owe her nothing. She got her payment for raising me and now she can move along. So yeah, you can be a MGTOW virgin.

[ToadParticipant 271]

I make this question to myself too…

because i only was two times with a hooker and this was a long time ago and i can’t  stay with women anymore, so i’m not really sure if i’m a MGTOW or a “forced loneliness” one because even when i can get laid, i don’t want/can anymore due to my trauma…But this people told me that they are more like you and me and no matter why you choose your path ignoring women: bad relationships, drama, antisocial desorder, trauma, “good guy sindrome” or get tired of getting laid…

if you don’t want to deal with the bulls~~~ of women: you are a MGTOW…

period

Welcome

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

Does being a virgin okay with MGTOW yes it is. As bulletdodger said it may indeed be champion. I may get s~~~ for this but i would recommend sticking your dick in a woman. There is a reason we have all been enslaved by vagina for at least a time. A nice vagina feels better than a thousand hands of velvet messaging your dick. Does it make you any less of a man to not have sex no. Is it something you may want to add to your bucket list IMO yes. Unless you have never masturbated before.

Of course it is like playing with fire and you may indeed get burnt so weigh your self opinion. But I won’t lie and say it doesn’t feel good.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[ToadParticipant 271]

Durden wrote:

But I won’t lie and say it doesn’t feel good.

Unless you have a curcumsition and don’t choose well your condoms…then you will not feel anything… like happens to me…

If you going to do it make a good choice of condoms before…

 

[LeHarfangParticipant 25]

Maybe someday, i’ll try it once Durden, out of curiosity, just to know how it feels. However, for now, i’m somewhat content in my own little world, so to speak. I might be a bit too disconnected from reality to even think about being able to be social enough to get a good relationship. So yeah, right now i prefer to try to work on myself before doing anything i might regret.

Of course i won’t hide it, i masturbate a lot, i mean i’m not some kind of monk or whatever who swore to never be tempted. In fact, having the prostate and testicles empty might make it easier heh. It is true that the kind of porn i look at might be the reason (or one of the reasons at least) i feel so disconnected from reality… no i won’t go into details unless asked heh.

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