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I was in a 4 year long realtions~~~. Taking nonstop verbal scowling as if I was a child and she was the mother. Needless to say how emasculated I was. The woman always wanting to argue but I took my own route, I never argued back. I don’t agree in arguing a point across when people can just TALK through things like CIVILIZED humans would do, of course this p~~~ed her off more by my NOT fighting back. Then she would wonder why I wasn’t affectionate with her? After being screamed at like a child the last thing on my mind was being all cuddly and even giving a s~~~ about sex, I didn’t even want to be in the same room as her! All I would say was “when you can talk to me like a person and not a child. then I will have something to say to you.” Why did this continue for 4 years? I asked myself the same question day after day after day.
The issues from her against me were as follows; I left NYC for HER, so I left my job as well and couldn’t find work in another state for almost the whole year so she had to carry my weight when I sacrificed much more to move to Indiana in the first place. Even when I finally did find employment, it didn’t matter, the resentment was enormous. So I did what I could and even got food stamps, the irony here was this, my food stamps were $200/mnth. Say I spent it all and went slightly over to $250, the $50 came from her pocket and she would keep a book of what I owed her. So in that transaction I owed her $25. (meanwhile she ate for free for a year!) This was with everything else as well. So I was in total debt to her, her ammunition was like an anvil looming over my head that would clip my f~~~ing b~~~~ every time she would use that against me.
Then that last years Valentine’s Day I did something I myself didn’t even expect, I didn’t buy her anything, all I did do was say “I can’t pretend anymore, I don’t love you anymore.” Breaking up shortly after we both got our own apartments and she EXPECTED me to pay her “what I owed her” I didn’t pay s~~~! I wasn’t a f~~~ing idiot, I knew this wasn’t right.
That Valentine’s Day will always be a reminder to me on how fake it really is. Why do men need to spend money to prove their love? The bigger the diamond or the more you buy the more you love her? I scream “BULLS~~~!” Materialism shouldn’t even be included in this equation but it is! The factors and proof of my love were this, I left NYC and moved to another state FOR HER so she could be closer to HER family, leaving my friends and family behind being completely isolated. This wasn’t enough. I took care of the home chores, dishes, cleaning up after HER, still wasn’t enough. I even cooked meals, nope, still not enough. All that ever will prove your love to today’s modern American woman is.. yup, you guessed it. The Benjamin’s.
So I ask this to you my fellow brethren,
Are YOU in a verbally and or mentally abusive relationship? Do you even realize it?
The sad thing is, MEN are to blame for letting women get to this point, we put that pussy so high on that f~~~ing pedestal we f~~~ed ourselves! I want this to be a serious thought here, STOP liking all those cleavage and selfies shots, stop giving all those talentless women on YouTube who use their beauty or sex for the amounts of subscribers and views and comments on EVERY social media! Instagram, Twitter, ALL OF THEM! Stop buying into the “LOOK HOW SEXY I AM AND HOW I CAN MANIPULATE ALL MEN” They are making us look like sex addicted dogs and mindless FOOLS!
Yes pussy is great! Sex is wonderful! But not when it’s used for them to gain advantages on EVERYTHING they do! It’s time for MEN to grab their manhood back! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Put YOUR f~~~ing foot down and stop being TEASED & MANIPULATED! Because that’s what they are doing every god damned moment they can and men just drool and say.. okay.. ::panting like a sex crazed dog::
I don’t know about you, but I’m sick of being compared to a f~~~ing dog!! I have a mind, I use f~~~ing logic and I am a F~~~ING HUMAN BEING!
Because this is one man who is.. GOING HIS OWN F~~~ING WAY! MGTOW!!!!
Spot on brother! Welcome to MGTOW! You are among friends here.
HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...Hey Philo: welcome! all good points. glad you got out of that s~~~ man. i don’t know if you saw this on the front page of the site but KeyMaster has declared Feb 14 International MGTOW DAY. check the front page and the forums for more info. Valentine’s Day is never gonna be the same!
Powerful Narrative! Welcome to the Fold @Philosophi gus!
Good points Philo,
I’ve already posted this in another thread, but my theory is this: If all men stopped transferring any money to any women, and all women naturally stopped having any sex with any of us as a result, could we go without sex for longer than they could go without sex, and food? Because, let’s be real… if it weren’t for sex, how would they eat? Who would feed them?Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
Thank you brothers, Soul, ListenUp, Ninja and BrainPilot,
As in response to ListenUp, Yes I have noticed the V-Day thing and I am all for it!
BrainPilot, sorry if this was a repost as I did not notice, I was just itching to get that out, I will be more attentive to similar posts in the future and such, as for your statement..
I’m sure both sex’s would go quite a while without sex as there are other means for release. Where there is a will, there is a way. As for the food aspect and women needing to “man up” and fend completely for themselves like men do, that is a very interesting question, would they be able to? I’m sure some could and some would struggle as most are very dependent on others and the system. Who would win this “sex”off? I believe men would. Why would men win? Simple, our biological clock doesn’t tick the way theirs does. Each passing day would be of worry and stress of being no longer fertile and age being a serious factor for them as well (beauty and birth complications), as men would just keep on keeping on. I’m curious if it would eventually come to this kind of stand off.. I guess we will soon find out, because I have a gut feeling, this isn’t going away any time soon till there is an obvious change. Thank you again for your posts and welcoming, stay strong brothers.
Good words, people. It’s true, they need us a lot more than we need them. There is no good reason why the supply-demand equation favors females… somehow they’ve convinced us that they have the supply of vagina and we have the demand of sex but it’s a sham… it’s really us who have the supply of wealth, labor and attention and they can not live without it.
Withhold your time, energy and money and let’s see how long before they come crawling to us, horny and starving, begging us to save them. And when that happens, we can decide to let them back in or look down on them like Rorschach and whisper “No.”
Right on Doc! I believe one good start would be to stop entirely giving them attention on every social media, this will cripple their ego’s quickly.
I was stupid enough to be in an abusive relationship for only 2 years (I applaud you for making it 4).
In the first year, I’d let her buy me things “because she loved me”, and granted she DID help me out with some tough situations I was going through (joblessness and mental instabilities that I still suffer from now). I didn’t realize she was using me for her own personal gain until later on in the relationship. To many, she would be considered possibly pretty low on the “1-10 scale” because she was possibly about 150 pounds overweight (I can’t say much, as I was working out and trying to lose weight myself, but I could at least say I was trying and didn’t feel, and I quote, “too lazy”). I stayed with her out of letting my stupid empathy getting in the way. When she saw I was simply communicating with a woman online that was possibly around an 8 to 10 on the attractiveness scale, she would throw a fit and talk to her closest friends and even my family members about it, my sister especially. One lovely day, we were out and about and she noticed that one girl left on my Facebook what my girlfriend felt was a “flirty comment”, and was going to comment back with a nasty message to her. To retaliate, I deactivated my Facebook page. As a result, she started beating on me as she was driving, swerving and nearly hitting people around her. I told her to stop behaving so stupidly, and she threatened to beat my face in if I said “one more word.” (Let’s also note that in the first 4 months, she cheated on me with men online 3 times.)
Why I stayed with her after that, I’m not sure. I’ve been in controlling relationships as well as fair ones before, but this one was the worst when it came to control. Since I was living with my mother during my joblessness at the time, my girlfriend knew that me doing anything she didn’t want could easily turn into my girlfriend reporting everything to my very (obviously) gynocentric mother, who would in turn possibly kick me out and leave me homeless. I was in a situation where “if you’re not with her, you can’t live here because you’ve made me emotionally upset because you’re so obviously anti-woman.” I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but my family is so gynocentric that it hurts.
It got to a point that I was helping out and being a friend to my previous ex-girlfriend who was struggling, and when my girlfriend found out, she showed up at my mother’s door and started beating on me, ripping my shirt, and having my sister hand her phone to my girlfriend, saying that if I retaliated, “she could call the police” and my sister “would serve as a witness for her.” My mother arrived home, and naturally sided with my girlfriend as well, telling her “I wasn’t worth it” and “she could find a better man than me, I’m obviously just some stupid guy.”
Some stupid guy. Granted, I have a history of my mother being verbally and emotionally abusive before (calling me just about everything in the book) and cheating on my father, who finally left her 20 years later after opening his eyes to what his overt forgiveness was doing to him. Calling me “stupid” was the least bad thing she’s probably done.
It was after one more chance (yes, I was stupid) and moving out on my own that I finally realized I can’t deal with it. I couldn’t even see my best friend who just returned from the military after 6 years because she would call him “my boyfriend” and I “should just start dating him because I see him so much.” I saw my girlfriend literally every day for about 5 months last year. She couldn’t take no, and she knew how to push my buttons. I have mental issues that don’t allow me to say “no” without having anxiety attacks (possibly from my upbringing. It’s called Avoidant Personality Disorder, or AvPD). I finally just played a “how to lose a girl in 10 days” game, and got her bored of me enough to leave for New York, and hasn’t been back since.
After she left, I finally got to do some self-analysis and realized that I’m far too logical for women. I was constantly unhappy giving to them emotionally, and didn’t know why. It’s because it’s not logically what I wanted to do, and it was making me crazy not being able to make my own choices. I’m still new to the whole MGTOW thing, but I’m seeing how sensible it really is. It’s been quite literally speaking my language through the videos I’ve been watching the past couple of months, as well as the articles on here. I only just now got the bravery to create an account on here to tell you all that you’re pretty much speaking exactly my mind, and it’s awesome. I’m not feeling so alone anymore in this form of thinking, and I think I can only get better from here.
(Sorry for the long post, I just have many tales that have caused me to get to this point, and I speak my mind quite a lot.)
Women can(choose to) be mean, hateful, and downright cruel.
Ever wonder why two women will hold a grudge against each other and won’t talk to or even acknowledge each other for years on end?
We men can’t even imagine what they said/did to each other to cause such hostility.
If women can abuse their own gender like that, they have no problem abusing men even worse.
Don’t ever apologize for speaking your mind Chris.. EVER. This is the type of bulls~~~ that they drilled into us. I believe you did the best thing you could’ve ever done and make her leave your life permanently! Making her think she was the decider is perfect play. Living on your own as a man is the best damned thing a man can do. Self support, self thought, self decisions, you get your f~~~ing b~~~~ back in short. Don’t ever let a manipulator move in either for she will turn the man cave into a pink mangina c~~~ hole. They start by changing visual things like items, colors, etc etc etc. You don’t like MY home? Then get the f~~~ out.. (points) door is right there.
XSDBS – I wonder if it’s a choice? Or a mental condition! How can SO many women act THE SAME DAMN WAY?! Is the brain washing THAT severe?!
Yes, I have noticed. Women aren’t friends with other women for a few reasons..
1) they can’t trust each other
2) always in a competition with the other
3) they f~~~ the others partner or friends for spite
Just some ideas, obviously not facts but f~~~.. makes f~~~ing sense doesn’t it?
If women can’t trust women? WHY THE F~~~ SHOULD MEN!?
Anonymous5I can relate to the emotional abuse in your story so much. Women are overgrown children as far as I can tell. The constant yelling, screaming, bitching at me for the dumbest reason’s while I stood there, took the abuse and tried to talk to her calmly. All it did was p~~~ her off more. So eventually I would give up and just walk away. And this would REALLY p~~~ her off.
Her:”waaah don’t leave me, where are you going”…..
Me: “Bitch, if I don’t walk away and cool down for 5 minutes, I will do something I will regret.”I walked away so many times because I couldn’t take the abuse. She even made me cry a bunch of times. She broke me down. She made me so depressed, killed all my self esteem that I wanted to commit suicide. I asked why she was so cruel to me all the time? She had no excuse. She just yelled at me more.
Thankfully we broke up(after she cheated on me). I am much happier being alone. I don’t think I could go through that mental torture again.
I asked my last girlfriend that same question…”why are you so cruel to me all the time?”
Her response…”If you were a man, you could handle a woman like me”
I struggled, but I forced myself to end the relationship, and severed all communication with her.
I’m sure the irony was lost on her…
Every atom in my F~~~ING body hates that f~~~ing statement!!!! “If you were a man, you could handle a woman like me”
YOUR NOT A F~~~ING WOMAN!!!! YOUR A F~~~ING CHILD!!!!!
Justifying her abuse by attacking our manhood?!?! F~~~ THAT S~~~!!!
Women need to be taught how to be a REAL f~~~ing woman and not justify their own childish bulls~~~ AND US JUST ACCEPTING IT!!!
NO MORE!!! NO F~~~ING MORE!!!
@Philosophigus – Man you got quite a drubbing by her. I thought I had it bad. You win! It is sad that you (and the rest of the guys in the world) had to get mind-f~~~ed by women and society on how men need to treat women. Yes – it IS a one way street sir! That is what society (women and their pussy-whipped blue-pillers) have made.
Together – we can / will change that. For me – I don’t want to dominate a woman – I just don’t want her dominating ME.
"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!"
~ Theodore RooseveltGentlemen – (this goes without saying of course, but..) – If we ever see / hear a guy getting ‘bullied’ by a woman – we should (if we can) give him a red-pill. Obvious no??? If women can hunt in packs why can’t men!!??
"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!"
~ Theodore RooseveltI know how you feel. Women can abuse you in some very subtle ways. The last girlfriend I had did it that way, she used to mke jokes about I’m not ripped as the guys you see on TV an magazines, and she’d always talk about how hot and good those guys look. Until I had enough and broke up with her. She’s still my friend but I don’t let her cross the line anymore, the f~~~ed up thing is that she still doesn’t understand what she did, and that makes me wonder if they really don’t understand or just really like to play dumb
the f~~~ed up thing is that she still doesn’t understand what she did, and that makes me wonder if they really don’t understand or just really like to play dumb
No, they really DON’T understand. Because in a woman’s mind, EVERYTHING is YOUR fault.
Women can abuse you in some very subtle ways. The last girlfriend I had did it that way, she used to mke jokes about I’m not ripped as the guys you see on TV an magazines, and she’d always talk about how hot and good those guys look.
That would be a problem if men were valued based on LOOKS. But we aren’t. Women are the sex that pretends to NOT be attracted to a guy when they really are. You think women walk up to good looking guys and TELL them how great they look? It’s not even the first thing women wonder! They want to know “what do you do for a living”… “where do you live” ….. and “what kind of car do you drive”.
If she wants a man for his LOOKS then she should go out with one.
Give her the freedom to do so, and when she comes back after many years looking for a WALLET, tell her she doesn’t look as hot anymore.That’s the circle of life.
Nature has a really GREAT way of restoring the balance.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous2Are YOU in a verbally and or mentally abusive relationship? Do you even realize it?
Two and a half years I have been. The only thing it did for me, albeit very well, was making sure it would only happen to me once. She clung to one of my best friends and manipulated him into being her f~~~buddy for a year after we cut ties. Gladly me and this guy have faced worse women so when I confronted his ass when they broke up, he admitted fault and we forgave and forgot. Even in my bluepill years I managed to stop caring for that bitch and salvage a friendship a women tried to destroy. I was happy the guy was only thinking with his dick instead of investing in her. Some Canadian did and she left the country in debt with a ton of people. We had a few pints together to celebrate her leaving town.
I was constantly unhappy giving to them emotionally, and didn’t know why.
Because emotional blackmail is their weapon, and you were feeding her ammunition. It’s like this bottomless vampire emotion pit that you can keep pouring your produce into, untill all sovereignity and dignity has been beaten out of you. Kill that behaviour at the first s~~~test and demand respect, and if they are incapable of giving, walk. No pussy is worth that abuse.
I have stopped thinking of sex as a reward any women can give me. It’s a mutual exchange, always, and if she doesn’t see it that way well… sucks to be her and wanting my
bodywallet.Turns out MOST men are in an abusive relationships … and more women than men are abusive . Confirmed:
That’s what a relationship to a woman is. The playing field of abuse. A fascist dictorshiop of oppression and if you DONT want to live with her – ALL women in the TV audience think you should have your dick cut off and they will ALL sit back and laugh at you.
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“If you were a man you could handle a woman like me”.
A man would never want to “handle” a woman like you. We have better women to bang.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.- AuthorPosts
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