Update: 15 yo daughter and Chad

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I wrote a couple of weeks ago about my 15 year old daughter getting asked out by a little freshman Chad. They “dated” for a couple of weeks and then he broke it off to go back with his old girlfriend. She was actually going to break it off first, but her mother in her infinite wisdom told her to wait until school was out for the year and then it wouldn’t be a big “thing” at school. So instead of being one that broke it off, she was the one that got dumped. Thanks mom, you f~~~ing idiot.

Anyway, it blew over, she didn’t really care that much and all is good now. They are back to being friends. And for the record they only had two dinner dates in public, so no sex.

So, I’m having lunch with my daughters over the weekend and she breaks the news to me about Chad, even though I had already heard about it from the ex. The exchange goes something like this:

Dad: So, you know what’s going to happen next, right?
15: What?
Dad: Give it a month or two and he’ll be back. This is the third time that you’ve told me about him going back to an old girlfriend while he has a girlfriend. So, he will be back, bet on it. You want a little advice?
15: Sure.
Dad: You need to learn this phrase: One chance, per person, per lifetime. One chance, per person, per lifetime. That one little phrase will save you a ton of heartache in the future. If he doesn’t care enough about you now to have a relationship then he won’t care 2 months from now or two years from now. And even if he has changed, that’s not your problem.
13: (She was there too) That makes a lot of sense.
Dad: Yeah it does. Getting back together is drama, plain and simple. Now, what are you going to say when he wants to get back together?
15: No. (kid really needs to learn to pay attention better)
13: No, one chance, per person, per lifetime (God bless her)
15: Right, one chance, per person, per lifetime.

Got a 2 for 1 on that one!!

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[experiencedParticipant]

This.

Congratulations.

MGTOW gold.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Your youngest is learning fast! Thanks for the update. Hopefully if your oldest won’t listen to Dad, she will listen to her little sister?!

[Anonymous 42]

Another day save from the shark infested waters of reality, I’ll share your sigh of relief. SHEWWW…

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

What would you say to Chad if you had the chance to have a long conversation with him?

Brother, we need to stick together.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The_Young wrote:

What would you say to Chad if you had the chance to have a long conversation with him?

Not much. He’s not really my problem. My kid is my problem. He’s a little drama queen trying to play a bunch of different girls. It seems to work for him most of the time. He’s actually a pretty good lesson for my daughter. Everything is always about him, he’s a little narcissist. He wasn’t really mean to her, so I don’t really care one way or the other.

He may actually be useful, because when she starts acting like a narcissist and being bitchy, I’ll just start calling her Chad.

Wow, remember what an asshole Chad was? Then why are you acting like him?

I guess I’m taking the Buddhist road and thanking him for the lesson. Every girl has to date “that guy” at one point or another.

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