I know there are men out there who have cheated on wives, gfs, etc. This is about the other side of the coin, when she cheats.
Personal story: when I was in High school I was briefly friends with a girl. I have a tendency towards befriending people others don’t like, and she was no different. The whole year and a half I knew her she had a boyfriend, from what I understand a tradcon christian guy, the kind who didn’t believe in sex before marriage. Come junior prom, she had been harassing him to have sex with her for a long time, and he succumbed (but of course since he was a guy no one would believe it was rape, I’m not even sure he acknowledged it.) After though, he was still hesitant, so the poor blue-pill mangina tells her she can sleep with other guys. Some of you see where this is going.
Sitting in the hospital while my grandmother is having surgery, she more or less tries to, without discussing it or asking, get me to go f~~~ her right that moment. She isn’t quite so forward of course, but her first text told me something was wrong. It was the innocent enough “What are you doing?” kind of text, in which I didn’t really give her a direct answer because by this time my tolerance of her had worn rather thin, and somehow she drifted the conversation over to how her bf had said she could sleep with other people. I knew instantly that she meant me. It then became a “Do you want to come over to my place?” pending question, to which I then told her what I was really doing, at the very least to kill the mood. I was never even attracted to her, but this totally did not help matters for me. I wracked my brain in panic for ways to say no to her in a way that wouldn’t get me castrated (she was kind of messed up and I got the impression that a no might break her already fragile ego.) I came up with the safest comment I could think of “I don’t have sex with other guy’s girlfriends.” I didn’t really do that guy any favors, but at least I know that I didn’t contribute to anyone else’s life problems from that action.
She shrugged it off with a shaming comment about my manhood, but for me I was already done, and I knew instantly that from that moment on I was not going to do anything she asked of me because she would inevitably lead me somewhere I didn’t want to go. I was having no part of it. I just paid enough attention to her so she wouldn’t really bother me. However, this backfired a little bit since she then tried to set me up with her best friend, a person I knew only for having no self control and no physical attraction. Even the fact that if I went with her I was almost guaranteed a threesome (they were a little too close) did nothing for me on that one. I got out of it and when she graduated, I ignored every text and phone call. never saw her again.
I learned from this experience that she hadn’t grown up at all since a very juvenile incident I recalled witnessing where she essentially just cried to get a guy in trouble. I also learned that she was a manipulative slut who would do anything for dick.
Anyone else have someone you knew was with someone else try and get in your pants?
"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures
Great-Oz 4 years, 7 months ago.
