Unequal Relationships

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

I was just doing some general MGTOW browsing last night and I came across this old post: /forums/topic/the-best-of-barbarossa/

The first part of that video REALLY struck a cord – thought i’d share it below:

“We live in a time where the ‘you-go-girl’ culture, along with the the hyper-sexualisation of society has simply eradicated the value of men.

By creating a breed of man so desperately sex craved that he’ll do anything entitled females demand of him to get it.

The men who wont bow down to women must now come to terms with the fact that when he’s in a relationship or even a marriage with a women, there is a legion of men waiting like cackling hyenas for YOU to slip up.

Women know this and this is why a so called equal relationship between a man and a women cannot exist in western society”

#ICETHEMOUT

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Arcturis wrote:

equal relationship between a man and a women cannot exist in western society”

In any society except the radical ones like Saudi Arabia. But even there the seeds of equality start to grow. Yet gingerly.
F~~~ the womyn! Go catch the Yeti!

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Suggestius wrote:

Arcturis wrote:

equal relationship between a man and a women cannot exist in western society”

In any society except the radical one like Saudi Arabia. But even there the seeds of equality start to grow. Yet gingerly.
F~~~ the womyn! Go catch the Yeti!

Very true , but the women will not respect the guy as she knows there is always a richer guy out there.

A women who is pretty needs her head examined to stay with one guy , its better for her to take half his stuff and start again.

Even “Decent sic women ” will be driven to do this, the poor guy ends up with no money and emotionally ruined, where do I sign up 🙂

The some other sucker lines up for the execution .

[Anonymous 42]

Men are falling off the c~~~ carousel in droves! we’re not getting back on either!

Where are all the “decent” men? I don’t want a hyena! I want a loving respecting type that has his s~~~ together!

I don’t care what you want, you’ve made yourself temporary and disposable frolicking allover the c~~~ carousel, and you haven’t a clue about the simplest fundamental things to making and keeping a man happy! You’re only concern is yourself and we’re disposable in your realm. All you have is sex and it’s not mutual, you mead it out like a cheap broker to the highest bidder!

Sorry ladies, we’re not biting anymore. Why not divert your promiscuity towards other women and milk them for whatever you can get in that kind of perverted lesbian relations~~~?

It doesn’t make any difference to us, we left the plantation and we’re not returning, we’re better off and actually enjoying our lives for a much needed change.

[Anonymous 38]

Unequal in the sense that the law is on her side. Marriage is very unequal. But ordinary relationships, by and large don’t have to be.

If you have the strength of mind and character to ditch your girl the moment she crosses the line, you’re relatively safe. Let’s be honest, as blue pillers we gave so many passes to women we should have ditched long ago.

The new, fully red pilled man doesn’t afford such passes. He lives more in the present so doesn’t invest in her future any more than benefits him. If she leaves, cheats or her ‘feelings change’ then fine, she’s just confirmed what he already knows of women. Not having overly invested himself and supported an idealised image of his partner, he’s got little to lose. In fact he’s got a free and untroubled future ahead of him as a MGTOW.

Things are unequal but men need to realise they are not powerless in a personal sense. For if all men went MGTOW, the collective power would shift. If you live for yourself there’s no need to be defined by the herd.

[Anonymous 38]

See Barbarossa’s “The Post-Feminism Man” video. When you become this man you realise you hold the power, any power others have over you is that which you gave away. Don’t get me wrong, it takes time to learn how to harness, and let’s be fully aware of the reality of relationships but let’s not be helpless victims against the gynocracy.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

When have male/female domestic relationships been equal?

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I agree with a lot of that. However I’ve also come to understand that quality of sex women put out these days isn’t worth the ‘price’ to get it. Women are so f~~~ing lazy in the sack these days from my experience anyway. So i have to put in all the effort now, even in the bedroom.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

KevinStyles wrote:

I agree with a lot of that. However I’ve also come to understand that quality of sex women put out these days isn’t worth the ‘price’ to get it. Women are so f~~~ing lazy in the sack these days from my experience anyway. So i have to put in all the effort now, even in the bedroom.

Hmm…totally agree with this.

I don’t know why, but the ball just dropped for me reading that.

LAZY is the word RIGHT there. Sex first time with a woman is probably the best. After that it’s a waste of time and not WORTH the hassle of an LTR.

Reminds me of one of the iron rules:

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbours see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Thank you KevinStyles, today my understanding of a MGTOW life grew a little stronger.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[OgreParticipant 5863]

KevinStyles wrote:

I agree with a lot of that. However I’ve also come to understand that quality of sex women put out these days isn’t worth the ‘price’ to get it. Women are so f~~~ing lazy in the sack these days from my experience anyway. So i have to put in all the effort now, even in the bedroom.

No you don’t. Let her go f~~~ herself until she’s hot enough to join the party.

You never have to impress her. Her ultimate goal is everything you’ve attained and set aside. She has nothing but what she gives you and every guy before.

Make her earn it.

Better yet put them on full volume ignore. @icethemout.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I remember the last FCD I dated. She was the one who couldn’t reach climax due to anti-depressants or something. She said don’t worry about me, let’s take care of you. It was basically f~~~ing a sex doll. She just laid there…
What’s the point?

[GrumpyParticipant]

Unless the “relationship” is 100% symbiotic, it will always be unequal.
Regardless of what a man does or provides, it is rarely enough for most women, they always demand more.
I gave up trying to imitate a chocolate covered dildo that ejaculates money and anti-depressants for women.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

MG-TOWer has given the spot-on response, again.
All I need say is, the old phrase: The juice is not worth the squeeze.

[narwhalParticipant]

Arcturis wrote:

We live in a time where the ‘you-go-girl’ culture, along with the the hyper-sexualisation of society has simply eradicated the value of men.
By creating a breed of man so desperately sex craved that he’ll do anything entitled females demand of him to get it.
The men who wont bow down to women must now come to terms with the fact that when he’s in a relationship or even a marriage with a women, there is a legion of men waiting like cackling hyenas for YOU to slip up.

I disagree. Sure, the media and society is oversexed, but I don’t see that as a reason why men stay in relationships. It just doesn’t fit the data.

If men were forced into relationships because it’s a source of good sex, then why are women asking where all the good men have gone? Why do women live to say that men are afraid of commitment? Women behave like angelic sluts as girlfriends because if they act like themselves, the boyfriend would never hang around. Once they trap a marriage happens, it all stops. They don’t need to act wonderful because shame and the threat of losing kids an financial ruin keeps the man in the marriage.

A husband does what his wife asks because he’s out leveraged and too tired to fight.

Honestly, I’ve never really heard a man say that he’s staying with a woman because there are other men who will replace him if he slips up. What actually seems to happen is that a man loses interest in a woman the more she flirts with other men.

We could remove all inference of sex in the media and require women to wear burkas. I don’t think it would change much if we didn’t also change the laws regarding marriage and divorce.

Ok. Then do it.

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