Ugh. Talked to the x today after 3 years

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Not on purpose. I blocked every # i had for her – local & international. Blocked all her email addresses. All social media. I moved after the divorce so she doesn’t have my physical address.

Last time i talked to her was over 3 years ago. Final condition of the divorce agreement was i buy her a one-way ticket back to her country. I took her to the airport and made damn sure she got on that plane.

She called from a # that i didn’t recognize. Usually i don’t pickup unknown #s; for some reason i did today.

Of course…she wanted something (legal paperwork s~~~, nothing particularly interesting).

ME: “What do i get out of it?”
HER: “Nothing. It’s just a favor.”
ME: “Don’t call me again.” <CLICK>

I probably should’ve hung up when i realized it was her. I was stunned when i recognized it was her. I guess i wasn’t thinking. WTF. Thanks for hearing me vent.

[Anonymous 6]

Do you still have your marbles??

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MattNYC wrote:

ME: “Don’t call me again.”

Good.

MattNYC wrote:

Of course…she wanted something

There is no other reason a woman would call. They always “want something”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

On the bright side, now you have another number you can block.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[UntamedParticipant]

Those unexpected communications from long-time X’s can be disarming but satisfying at the same time once the point’s come across accompanied by a resounding CLICK.
I got lucky and got an e-mail the last time, also asking for some papers, that gave me time to compose myself before writing an unambiguous answer about not contacting me again.

What makes those evil heartless bitches think we still want to hear from them again after the lies, the treacheries, the abuse, the insults and the state-sponsored court-organized financial and social gang-rape they were all too happy to facilitate?
They got some nerve!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Anonymous wrote:

Do you still have your marbles??

Yeah. Not losing it over hearing her voice. Just shocked. Did the thousand yard stare a couple times today afterwards.

Keymaster wrote:

There is no other reason a woman would call. They always “want something”.

Yup. I divorced her ass so i wouldn’t have to take those calls; i divorced her ass so i wouldn’t have to provide anything. Best decision i ever made.

[Anonymous 0]

Good for you man

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I saw my exs picture the other month, she has almost doubled in weight, amazing…

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Buller100 wrote:

I saw my exs picture the other month, she has almost doubled in weight, amazing…

My ex has only been gone for one year. I’m wondering how long it will take her to double in weight, now that she is living with some chad that worships her c~~~?

Its good to have things to look forward to! Not that I’m holding my breath for that; I have many things to do.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

Yep. Whatever document she wants can be gotten from her lawyer, court clerk, real estate agent, accountant, state/local tax bureau. Whatever it relates to, someone has it.

[joetechParticipant]

This song is for you.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

God they are like f~~~ing boomerangs. Total disinterest, give nothing back. Ignore her permanently. You handled it well sir.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

MattNYC wrote:

Final condition of the divorce agreement was i buy her a one-way ticket back to her country.

Wait!? There’s a country we can send them back to?!?

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Glad you were able to end the call quickly!

My ex has been trying to creep back in recently by attempting to send me messages from her new social media accounts but I block them right away.

Just the other day she texted my cousin to tell me to unblock her so that we could talk and All I had to tell him was “I don’t have time for women, you know this”. He nodded and said he just wanted to pass the message. I’m not sure what he told her but I didn’t care after that. No contact at all is the best method to prevent them from any dirty schemes they may have.

[OldBillParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

My ex has been trying to creep back in recently by attempting to send me messages from her new social media accounts but I block them right away.

Do yourself a favor, get off all social media. Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, all of it. Especially Facebook.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

MattNYC wrote: ME: “What do i get out of it?”
HER: “Nothing. It’s just a favor.”
ME: “Don’t call me again.” <CLICK>

PRICELESS !

I never changed my phone number after the divorce, didn’t have to…..
I KNEW she would never call me just as SHE knew I would NEVER call her. been 14yrs now.
It’s the one thing that I can have some respect for her; Tenacity.

I have always been a professional at making sure I never heard from an “ex” from past relationships.
The SECRET: GET ’em real mad when you have your last words together.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Thanks guys. Still hurts a bit, but I have more important things to do. Just had to get that bad s~~~ out before moving on.

Appreciate your listening.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

We have kids together so my ex uses that to try and get at me from time to time. And no matter, yes it still can hit a nerve at times MattNYC, I agree.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Beautiful. Short, sweet, and to the point lol.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

My ex from 4 years ago unblocked me on Facebook and sent me a message from her Timehop app, a post I made at the time poking fun at her. Her message accompanying it was “Oh no you didn’t!”. It was a clear cry for attention and the message required approval before it became a regular message. No reply, no block, not even read receipt. Deleted. We only dated one year and we argued a lot back then, looking back there are no real reasons to want to talk again for either of us. No idea why she would want to branch back to me (if that’s the goal) because it was s~~~ at the time.

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