Ugh, need some advice my fellow brothers..

[MaleficsParticipant 53]

Recently broke up with my girlfriend, we had a lot in common. No way in hell was she a NAWALT.

Basically, can’t stop thinking about her. It is interfering with my school work and productivity. Can you guys please just give me some reality checks so I can stop acting like an idiot over this chick please. I asked some friends for advice, but got the typical blue pill, mangina replies. I know I can trust you guys. Just give me a reality check so I can stop feeling like this. I feel so stupid feeling like this.

AWALT. Never forget.

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

The ability to walk away and stay away from a woman is the most important tool a man can have.

Hone your skill, use anger and channel it into productivity towards bettering yourself.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Well, if she was an AWALT, then you only thing you will have to be curious about the rest of your life is what method of pain she would have brought to you. Maybe she would have cheated on you, maybe she would have brought you back an STD, maybe she would have just bitched you to death, maybe she would have got pregnant to try to keep you on the plantation.

Now you can replace that with thinking about all of the cool s~~~ you can do once you graduate and have a good job. You can think about what to do with the extra million dollars you will have without a woman spending all of your money. You can think about all of the mental anguish you have saved yourself.

Just remember one thing: women aren’t dumb. They study you, they test you, and they get to know your biggest weaknesses and insecurities. And then they use them against you. Why? Because vagina.

Order the good wine

[experiencedParticipant]

“No way in hell was she a NAWALT.”

Know that if you broke it off with her, ANYTHING you now say to her, ANY conversation you now have with her will be twisted TO THE UTMOST OF HER ABILITIES into making you feel absolutely horrible.

“She’s your ex for a reason.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Zmon67Participant 78]

Welcome home Malefic if you need a reality check google hypergamy , weeminz cannot beat nature they ARE programmed that way / NWALT….aka not ALL grenades are like that using the Keymaster analogy put 10 grenades in a box take one at random +pull the pin maybe it wont go off and maybe it will. Why take the chance on losing not only your freedom , but also your life
…look in the blue pill section or realations~~~s section …love is a chemical reaction like a drug they’ll use it to their advantage to gain what THEY “need” then you’ll be discarded…listen and learn from your elders and those that have been there.
Woman should come with a warning label.Pls check out on youtube Alex on life the following : You have NO CHOICE and You think you have game. Reality can suck but it beats having to live on the streets or Jail because she got bord and wanted to move on and TAKE your stuff. Be thankful that you are not married and have kids —-stay free ,Run dont walk enjoy your freedom

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Do what it right and good to YOU, LEarn from others in MGTOW, be good to yourself, treat YOURSELF 1st be mgtow = freedom enjoy it brother!

[ALPHA MALE!Participant 29]

…you know what Brother, f~~~ her best friend and keep going and going and going and stay MGTOW! Try it, you’ll forget about her real quick!!! Women are a dime a dozen, well…come to think of it…they aren’t worth much!…not even to themselves and they know it full well!!!

...I'm an Alpha Male, not a bitch!!!

[Anonymous 42]

Malefics wrote:

Recently broke up with my girlfriend, we had a lot in common. No way in hell was she a NAWALT.

Basically, can’t stop thinking about her. It is interfering with my school work and productivity. Can you guys please just give me some reality checks so I can stop acting like an idiot over this chick please. I asked some friends for advice, but got the typical blue pill, mangina replies. I know I can trust you guys. Just give me a reality check so I can stop feeling like this. I feel so stupid feeling like this.

Consider this; Malefic’s Alternate timeline: Malefic stays with girl, girl gets pregnant, Malefic gets married, girl leaves Malefic for another dick-stick, Malefic is forced into child support and years of drama, including watching your own kids dragged down the road of ruins, Malefic spends is days in misery from all the avoidable stress!!!
That lady-monkey will be hanging on another branch in no time, they’re programmed to swing from tree to tree, just saw of your proverbial limbs cover yourself with grease and walk away! Life as a grease-pole in lady-monkey forest is lots of fun! Especially that look on their faces when they’re sliding to the ground and about to split their ass…..

[narwhalParticipant]

Write it down. You said she is not NAWALT? Why what is about her that makes her AWALT.

Better yet, list all the things that need to happen, what needs to change if you were to ever get back together with her again. Her personality, her looks, her friends, her family, your circumstances, etc. All of it. How long would it take for those things to change? Every time you miss her, look at that list.

The things you do want from a female companion, are they better met with her, or someone else? What are the things you get out of life by staying single?

To me, getting down to the details, the facts, help me overcome my emotions better.

Ok. Then do it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I agree with the previous posts. Let me add that your feelings for her are a glandular condition. They will dissolve when your hormone glands reset themselves. Give it time. Above all, do not act on those feelings!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Malefics wrote:

Basically, can’t stop thinking about her. It is interfering with my school work and productivity. Can you guys please just give me some reality checks so I can stop acting like an idiot over this chick please

It’s not your fault for thinking about her.
It’s basically the chemicals in your brain still raging on.

Avoid activities which involve staying still and concentrating for a while it’s going to be pretty hard and you’re going to feel like s~~~.
If you can’t sleep at night sometimes it’s just best to say “f~~~ it” and play a video game or watch some movie.(avoid romantic s~~~, it screws with your head)
If you still can’t sleep try
-being very active during the day, it tires you out and you sleep like a baby
-drinking a beer
You’re worst moments are going to be moments in which the average person is going to relax in.

Give it a few months, you’ll get your mind back to yourself don’t worry.
It’s going to get easier and easier as time passes on.

[Anonymous 6]

No more thought required.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Think about all the annoying s~~~ she did, all the nagging, talking, emotional tampon s~~~, all of it. Now weigh that with sex, and you realize your life is better without her. They say the best way to get over a woman is to f~~~ another one, but that could land you in the same situation. The best cure is a bunch of one night stands that keep you from getting attached to any one woman, and then you will see clearly, and will no longer need women at all.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 5]

Franky wrote:

It’s not your fault for thinking about her.
It’s basically the chemicals in your brain still raging on.

Lots of chemical changes and associations have overtaken your brain.
It might help in some way to google the latest research on these changes that can be measured empirically with MRI scans and chemical and behavioral analysis.

All the logic in the world only helps in alleviating the pain of separation regardless of how painful the relationship had become
Stick to your gut instinct and you’ll ride it through.

The day will come when you’ll be gobsmacked at how long you tolerated the abuse, let alone why the f~~~ you still crave any association with her.

The good news is you’re learning, whether you like or know it or not.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

From the words of my father from another Tom Leykis “dumb that bitch!!!”

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MaleficsParticipant 53]

Thank you for all the replies, everyone. I’m feeling better now than before. Dating is such a pain in the ass…at least I managed to get experience, and experiences makes people wiser.

AWALT. Never forget.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Malefics wrote:

Basically, can’t stop thinking about her. It is interfering with my school work and productivity. Can you guys please just give me some reality checks so I can stop acting like an idiot over this chick please.

Have you ever tried going no contact? It’s awesome. Makes you feel like a million bucks. You didn’t mention if you still bump into her, or she calls / emails / texts once in a while, but that s~~~ has got to stop – TODAY.

It only makes it worse. When she pretends to be your “friend”.
And don’t kid yourself, she’s not your “friend”.

The point is to not give her one more second of your time, consideration or attention. None. You’re done. Even if she begs. One chance, per chick, per lifetime. No exceptions.

Welcome to MGTOW and the Forums @Malefic.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MaleficsParticipant 53]

narwhal wrote:

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Better yet, list all the things that need to happen, what needs to change if you were to ever get back together with her again. Her personality, her looks, her friends, her family, your circumstances, etc. All of it. How long would it take for those things to change? Every time you miss her, look at that list.

The things you do want from a female companion, are they better met with her, or someone else? What are the things you get out of life by staying single?

To me, getting down to the details, the facts, help me overcome my emotions better.

I just tried this. The Pro’s and Cons literally evened out. Some things in the Con section would be removed if I were to have stayed with her a bit more, which means there would have been more pro’s if I stayed dating her. I think this is the main thing that is making me miss her.

She still isn’t a NAWALT, but out of all the chicks I’ve been with, she was the closest. I still wouldn’t marry her though. I even told her in her face I won’t marry you unless these laws changed and she even agreed (possibly only agreed to make me happy and to trap me later on). But yeah, We would always talk about how no one takes male rape victims seriously, male suicides, women taking half the man’s stuff, alimony, lots of stuff. She and I have debated a couple of feminists calling them out on their bs and things like that. I have never ever seen another woman do this. I guess I just have to move on.

AWALT. Never forget.

[MaxParticipant 887]

I became a MGTOW because this was the only logical solution for a man survive in a world replete of gynocentrism and biased against men!

[kizellParticipant 368]

Well my friend if you really want to stop thinking about her she must be completely removed from you. And I mean completely…..hang out in new places she won’t be, don’t hang out with any people that even know her, change your cell phone number (or get one of those monthly flip phone deals for one month and turn your other phone off), delete Facebook and all social media.

Basically destroy every single possible medium in which her name is even brought up, much less running into her.

You will rejuvenated knowing that everything you are doing will have nothing to do with her.

It also comes down to experience in these matters as well. You will be able to harness this experience in future endeavors.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Keymaster wrote:

One chance, per chick, per lifetime. No exceptions.

^^^This x1000. I had to learn this the hard way many many times.

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