Udate on my latest HEROISM article asking for feed back

[Tim PattenParticipant 658]

This is a work in progress. I’ve added some notes from MGTOW members here and now am back asking for any new ideas or clerafications before going into editing:::
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Heroism
When a young women is brutally gang raped on a college campus men are voluntarily spiked with bravery, filled with courage ready to fight against the gang of rapists, justice resolved for a complete stranger. This act of inspiration is sometimes called heroism and is deeply valued across cultures. American’s adore a hero but not everyone is inspired into a state of heroism. So how do some people become heroes?

No one wakes up deciding to act heroic, it occurs voluntarily. Heroism is an instantaneous motivation to help someone without any expectation of any financial or moral return. It is a split-second gift that one person gives to another or to a community of others. More so heroism with a capital “H” is when someone places themselves in grave danger and risk their own life, serving another at whatever cost. The campus rape demonstrations that declare and epidemic of rapes, an estimated two million per year and assaulted by an estimated two million male rapists. Men are murdering millions of innocent girl’s souls, four million people are participating in rape impassions men and organizations into heroic deeds.

Masculinity to the Rescue
While college level women’s studies declared masculinity is violent, while an alternate reality is that millions of men save innumerable people’s lives from death. History records that only 19% of men survived, hundreds of male engineers aboard the Titanic sacrificed their lives for women and children. Men have been sacrificing their lives since the start of time. It is a primitive human reaction. To women and people in distress.

Even in modern day’s untrained men, ordinary citizens will rush to another person’s rescue. Men respond with a primitive predisposition to save others. Recently a sixty one year old Brazilian homeless man, a victim of poverty and social oppression saved a woman’s life, and sacrificed his own. A firefighter saved a woman and her cat from a burning house. In October 2014, The Mirror UK reported Carlos Arana, a firefighter from Valencia, Spain, performed mouth to mouth resuscitation on a two-month old yorkshire terrier invoking watering eyes. The gift of life gifted to an unknown family dog by a stranger tugs at our hearts.
The regular news is full of incredible acts of male heroism such as in 2005 California Highway Patrolman Kevin Briggs saved a 22 year old new father from jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge. Two men confronted suicide bombers and saved lives. It appears that men are born with some kind of emotional empathy for life that turns them into everyday superheroes, performing life-saving miracles for no reason other than empathy and love of his community. Masculinity is an incredible gift to our societies.

Women and Heroinism
One thing seems certain, most women are missing at birth the life-saving trait but women often manipulate emotional heroism out of men. There are countless tales of women saving the lives of their children, mothers driven by mother’s instincts. And there are accounts of women who got the defibrillator and saved a patient; nurses and doctors. But for many women fear appears to immobilize most of them. Women appear frightened of many things including danger, loud noises and men. Women are likely to use words to yell, but most are sent running for safe spaces.

If a sexually assaulted woman bravely comes forward and tells her rape story we call it courage but it is not heroic. It would be a perfect world if women’s and gender studies would take on the inquiry of heroic women, those who physically save women, men and children from burning homes instead of identifying men as the blame for women’s oppression.

Anecdotally speaking to a hundred men they agree that when faced with a dreadful situation a man will ponder strategic actions to change the outcome. Men learn to act courageously from sports, play fighting and teasing others, testing to know the abilities that are inside if needed. Men are able to rapidly compute a way to change the outcome or solve the situation and then act on that information and the hopes therein. One man said, “In the case of a house fire, I’ve seen women stand around crying in hysterics while valuable minutes slipped away. Myself and another guy ran in and helped solve the certain tragedy.”

Most people think the feeling of “terror” is more common in women than men. Or that most women have the “poor princess syndrome”, meaning they will wait for their Knight in Shining Armor . It’s not heroic for someone to see a car accident, then call 911. That’s just good citizenship. But to crawl in to a crumpled, burning car and pull someone out? Yeah, that’s heroism.

Male Disposability
If all American homeless were women there would be a homeless problem. Instead there would be incredible shelters like the ones for battered women. Those shelters feed, counsel and educate women as well as provide clean decent housing. Our world and western societies are deeply sexist, holding onto stereotypes of masculinity as oversexed and violent. If the Catholic Church had been molesting ten thousand little girls on an almost daily basis, those pedophiles would be prisoned or dead. Boys and men are stigmatized, marginalized and penalized for being born male.

Boys and men are held to a double standard. Society sacrifices male lives and men are often seen to be eager to throw themselves at a challenge or to help someone. Adult men are relegated to risk adverse and deadly occupations like coal mining, nuclear facilities, police departments and wars. Recently gender equality in the armed forces and on the front lines has been debated for new American policy. Since the time of Neanderthal’s it is men who are thrown to the wolves. People might deny at fact that we operate on the moniker “women and children first” but look deep down and see that we all expect it. Women assume men will save them and women benefit most from heroism.
Women will also intentionally use men to do the heavy lifting and then dispose of the male after she is satisfied. Where are the voices for equality when human life and survival are at hand? Males are disposable and woman are treated as in-disposable. We are not equal. Women are placed in a pedestal and coddled from injury from birth to death.

Toxic Femininity Instigating Heroism
Watch when a pretty women similes, flicks her hair or pecks you on the cheek. You will react by wanting to buy her gifts, showering her in attention and taking care of her the rest of her life. These are emotions from primitive ancestor when few cave men met a woman to mat with. Today these emotions are outdated because women use these tactics on men all the time. Men are dialing these ancient instincts forward into a new model. Companies use women to sell us products. This is a form of toxic feminity in our modern world where women manip0ulate men with their appeal.
Female infants and children learn to manipulate fathers, uncles and men early on. If they cry for help, daddy comes to the rescue. If they demand something and give dad an ultimatum, he quickly gives in and provides his little girl what she wants. These are the early beginnings of toxic femininity of male subjugation and abuse. As women, most are learned master manipulators, withholding what men long for most and give in only when there is an exchange they deem worthy. If the cry and ask for help, they know men will run to the rescue. Life with men is a list of basic manipulations.

Men are easily filled with the heroism reaction when a woman asks for a favor to fix a leaky toilet or protect a woman in a bar from abusive words. But domestic violence, rape and eminent death are the highest level of enticement women manipulate out of society and males. Young women claim massive sexual abuse and college level gender studies directs a narrow focus on violence against women. They ignore men’s issues of suicide, rape and violence against men. Society and men are being manipulated and exploited by women’s cries for help only encouraging our heroism directed towards women.

Men are beginning to realize the rigged and biased game that is afoot. We are looking inwards. Loyal and loving male providers are taking a serious look. Men are taking our nose off the grindstone and educating ourselves, observing gender politics and traps set to oppress men. We are coming up from the blackened coal mines and using internet empowerment to embrace our own amazing masculinity. Men can illuminate their life on their own through the help of the internet as a means of sharing and collaborating with millions of other like-minded individuals. Men are being heroes to other men. Males are the most incredible beings on Earth.

Gloria Steinem once said to her feline dominions, “Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.” By making her statement relevant to all humans we proclaim her statement for modern men. A worldwide awareness circling the globe, exciting young men to dream about freedom from an abusive patriarchy. Dreams are changing the behaviors that have outlived their usefulness to boys and men. We are developing a lens for exploitation from others and setting out goals on happiness. Men are coming to understand their own motivations and behaviors, identifying exploitation. We experience incredible pride when reaching out a helping hand to a brother. A wave of consciousness is globally washing ashore, men are going their own way (MGTOW), discovering online communities and a New Men’s Studies of postmodern culture empower boys and men out of darkness.

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[Anonymous 24]

Hey, good job Tim. I was just reading an article in my local newspaper about homeless men who froze to death out here in the latest cold spell. I agree, if it were women in this situation the problem would be solved. This country has plenty of money, but never ending wars based on lies, bailing out banks/corporations, and even women’s issues always seem to trump homeless men, or even worse, homeless veterans. Men are clearly disposable, and have been so throughout history. I would gladly trade my rights and benefits with women of my country any day.

[Tim PattenParticipant 658]

Thank you for taking time to read!!!!

I will be editing and improving.

I am optimistic that we can change things for men, perhaps a little and it might take time.

[Anonymous 42]

Tim Patten wrote:

“In the case of a house fire, I’ve seen women stand around crying in hysterics while valuable minutes slipped away. Myself and another guy ran in and helped solve the certain tragedy.”

Hi Tim, if you were insinuating about my experience in that fire, the outcome was tragic, but every possible task was preformed within the few minutes before spontaneous ignition engulfed the structure. Or as Sgt. Friday would say, “just the facts”.
You’re an awesome writer, you offer hope and true prospective from the eyes of men! I thank you for your defense and accurate depiction of the male spirit! We need more like you!

[Tim PattenParticipant 658]

Yes, that was your anecdotal share I included. I will change it to the outcome was tragic. Did you suffer injury?

It is going to take tgime, but I think we can turn things into a better direction.

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