Typical marriage…

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

Short story of a good friend.

So just after I got out of the military (US Marines) I met another Marine through my family. We became good buddies would go out drinking, hunting, fishing, shooting, paintball weekends at big events etc. Ended up his best man at his wedding even though I disagreed with his decision to get married having seen so many buddies get screwed over while I was in the service and I tried to tell him…

Fast forward a couple years, he is now in debt thanks to her never ending spending, he works like a dog 80 hours plus a week. Barely ever goes out now and they live with his mother in law cause they can’t afford s~~~. I later found out that she had around 25k in debt before they got married, he had zero. He spends his free time fixing his mother in law’s house (oh almost forgot she is in debt as well and divorced… go figure) When he does come out, he just goes on and on about how he is always tired and drinks like a fish trying to drown his woes away.

Now in the last 6 months or so he finds out he has won a lawsuit from a accident he was in. Some woman didn’t have insurance and ran into his car, completely her fault. Screwed up his back, he had surgery etc. anyway he was being awarded around 60k.

I talk to him about a week ago and well 30k went to debts, all hers btw. And now she is on a spending spree buying a bunch of bulls~~~ etc. He still works like crazy and they still cant afford s~~~, still listen to him complain etc. So I ask him “brother… where is all your grief coming from? Seriously, think about it where is it coming from and what would make you happiest in this world?” He says “Not having to worry about money and all the bulls~~~ I have to pay for!” my reply, “At least you don’t have any kids to worry about… you still have a exit brother, if you catch my drift.” (speaking of, she wants kids very badly and he doesn’t cause he knows he can not afford them. He insists on condoms and she hates them, go figure) This conversation went on for quite a while while we downed a couple six packs watching the Stanley Cup playoffs… Finally he asks me why I don’t get married, settle down with a bitch etc. I sit up in my chair look him square in the face and say “Brother, I don’t want to deal with all the bulls~~~ that you dumb married f~~~ers have to deal with… I own my own place, my own car, my own motorcycle, I have ZERO debt, no one nagging me and I do what I want when I want!” I swear he saw the light in that very moment…

Needless to say his wife doesn’t like me very much and I think I see divorce in the future!

PS he thinks she is cheating on him too…

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

XackStryker wrote:

Needless to say his wife doesn’t like me very much and I think I see divorce in the future!

Tell him to get DIVORCED NOW. Cut OFF sex completely so no child can be born and create more drama for him. Tell him to come to this website and that we want to see him on here. Him getting divorced NOW is a million times better than later on, if he does build wealth. He has a good chance to fix s~~~ up, unless he wants to cripple himself.

I guarantee you, that the brothers on this website WILL give him very helpful tips/strategies to get out of his mess. The only thing he has to do is come on here and create a profile.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

I told him about MGTOW and what it was in a nutshell.

He came back with the typical that is just a bunch of dudes who can’t get laid. I laughed my ass off told him I am MGTOW and I do what I want when I want, I can get laid anytime I want and he knows that. He shut the f~~~ up after that. I mentioned the website, don’t think he has ever visited it though.

He is a, how to say this… someone who has to learn from experience, he wont listen to anyone.

I told him to get divorced now and watch his back cause she will try to entrap him with kids. He says she wouldn’t do that I told him they all will do that!

I am seeing both of them this weekend at a bonfire at another MGTOW lifestyle friends house. So I am guessing ill find out something. Will update anything I find out. I truly feel bad for him…

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Its amazing how much money you can aquire when you’re not wasting it on stupid s~~~. Most Men are naturally conservative by nature in thier needs. We are simple in our desires “Money can’t buy me love?”

Most men want the basics and no stress. If we don’t have to bust our asses to feed the never ending demands of consummerism then we don’t. Sure, I like nice things now and again, but I save and pay up front, not borrow against tomorrow.

I now find I can work less hours, live well and owe nobody but the Utility man’s bills. I don’t need ornementation, I don’t need status symbols. I got money in my pocket and time to spend it.

Sounds good? It is. Stop wasting money on women who will never be satisfied, (except the Unicorns).

We all been sold a lie that we need to show wealth (whether real or borrowed), in order to have something to offer a good woman. BS What they got to offer us? Think about it, Just what do they offer us in return for all that work?

Nothing permanent. She’s not your Girl it’s just your turn.

It's Time to get Wise

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

XackStryker wrote:

I told him to get divorced now and watch his back cause she will try to entrap him with kids. He says she wouldn’t do that I told him they all will do that!

A wise man learns from other’s mistakes
A smart man learns from his own mistakes
A fool makes the same mistake over and over

You have done your best and you cannot make the horse drink. You are right, some men need to be burnt to learn a lesson, that’s if they do! The best thing to do is focus on yourself and keep in touch with us.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[AutoliteParticipant]

XackStryker wrote:

I told him about MGTOW and what it was in a nutshell.

He came back with the typical that is just a bunch of dudes who can’t get laid. I laughed my ass off told him I am MGTOW and I do what I want when I want, I can get laid anytime I want and he knows that. He shut the f~~~ up after that. I mentioned the website, don’t think he has ever visited it though.

He is a, how to say this… someone who has to learn from experience, he wont listen to anyone.

Some guys just can’t be helped. We still feel sorry for them but they really don’t deserve our sympathy. It’s an ego thing. You did the ‘due diligence’ thing telling him about MGTOW and you gave him the warnings. That’s all you can do.

Any guy who got married in the last ten years needs to have their head read anyway…

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Greg Honda wrote:

Its amazing how much money you can aquire when you’re not wasting it on stupid s~~~

When a man goes his own way, before money … he reclaims his sanity.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[AutoliteParticipant]

XackStryker wrote:

I told him to get divorced now and watch his back cause she will try to entrap him with kids. He says she wouldn’t do that I told him they all will do that!

I’m a little surprised that there are some guys who are still that f~~~ing blind…

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

XackStryker wrote:

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he wont listen to anyone.

Men MUST willingly seek out the Red Pill for Themselves !!

You can’t Force him to ASSIMILATE the Red Pill any more then he can make You turn against it !!

No matter what happens, MANY Men will remain Blue to their dying days !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

Autolite, exactly!

Awakened, I tried at least but your right he has to willingly take the red pill himself and obviously he isn’t ready to wake up!

[joetechParticipant]

He doesn’t think she would trap him, yet he thinks she’s cheating on him? Can you see the irony of this contradiction? Can he? Tell him she’ll get knocked up with Chad’s kid and then lie about it and say it’s his. You know I’m right. This fool is lost.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

joetech wrote:

He doesn’t think she would trap him, yet he thinks she’s cheating on him? Can you see the irony of this contradiction? Can he? Tell him she’ll get knocked up with Chad’s kid and then lie about it and say it’s his. You know I’m right. This fool is lost.

I was thinking the same thing man, and yes he is blind! I already told him if she does get knocked up he better get a paternity test, he actually was mad at the fact I said that. I again said to him “hey jackass you are the one who thinks she is cheating!?!?!?!”

He is blind in my opinion

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

joetech wrote:

This fool is lost.

These types of men are in severe denial. So severe that they believe in their own lies.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[AutoliteParticipant]

XackStryker wrote:

I was thinking the same thing man, and yes he is blind! I already told him if she does get knocked up he better get a paternity test, he actually was mad at the fact I said that. I again said to him “hey jackass you are the one who thinks she is cheating!?!?!?!”

He is blind in my opinion

Does he know that even if he’s not the biological father he could still be liable for child support in a divorce???

[XackStrykerParticipant 239]

Does he know that even if he’s not the biological father he could still be liable for child support in a divorce???

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Most likely not, like I said I told him to get divorced now. But I do not think he is gonna listen… its sad seeing a fellow man fall to slot C but he is blind.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

joetech wrote:

He doesn’t think she would trap him, yet he thinks she’s cheating on him? Can you see the irony of this contradiction? Can he? Tell him she’ll get knocked up with Chad’s kid and then lie about it and say it’s his. You know I’m right. This fool is lost.

EXACTLY.

You did all you can. Hopefully he doesn’t get shredded.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Greg Honda wrote:

Its amazing how much money you can aquire when you’re not wasting it on stupid s~~~.

Its so true. A few years ago when I was making 40k a year I always felt like I needed more., like I could buy so much more cool s~~~ and do so much more cool s~~~ if I had more money.

Fast forward a few years and I’m making a lot more money, but I realized I’m living pretty comfortable now and never really needed any more, and I still live by the same budget I lived by even when I was making a lot less. I could go buy a sports car for a second car and a house but its just more work for upkeep and more property taxes to pay. I could go out to fancy restaurants and stuff more often…but I’m quite happy just grabbing Chinese, pizza, or a burger. I could go on a lot of fancy vacations, but I’ve got plenty to do around here.

I look at all the people now who dig themselves into an abyss of debt just to drive a fancy car and live in a big house and I’m not jealous of them…its just like…why? Its really all about freedom from my perspective. I’d rather live below me means, which is still a comfortable lifestyle, and know I’ll be financially independent sooner rather than later than spend my life as a debt slave and lose everything if something ever happens to my job or health and I have to make due with a lower income in the future because everything I “own” has payments due each month.

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