Trying to go MGTOW at 22

[MGTOWAviParticipant 4]

Hello everyone,

i’m 22 and a regular reader of this forum.English isn’t my first language so do pardon me if my post has mistakes.I got to know about MGTOW via the Youtube channel “Sandman” and i was immediately attracted to his views since i had a lot in common.For the past couple of years i have noticed double standards in the society and was also starting to get confused with how irrational and manipulative majority of the females around me were including my Mother.

My Dad is an Alpha male and i have had a better relation with him than my mother since i was 15 and i’m grateful for my Dad for that since i learnt a lot from him and i’m different from a lot of my friends who behave like typical blue pill males and worship Women/Pussy.When i was young my Mother used to manipulate me to think that my Dad was some kind of demon who would always shout at her for no reason whatsoever.Now,when i see both my Parents arguing i notice how logical my Dad is and that my Mom simply argues without any logic and tries to p~~~ him off with some pretty stupid stuff.I’m at a stage right now where i just talk to my Mom for the sake of it and i’m very close to my Dad so much that i consider him to be a friend rather than a Dad.

Right now i do go out on dates and meet women regularly.I have decided not to get married at any cost unless the divorce laws treat a man fairly.The reason i joined here is that none of my friends share my views when it comes to marriage/women etc and all they want to do is get married.

Terrific forum btw but i do hope they change the forum script since this script isn’t user friendly.

 

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

welcome good sir, look around, read, analyze, ask questions…

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[…Spectator 1165]

MGTOWVia: welcome aboard!

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Wecome MGTOWvia,
There are many people here more than twice your age (me included) who will tell you that your perceptions of marriage are not wrong. Things really are as you see them, but not everyone sees things for what thy have become at the same time. There was a time when men and women needed it each other for basic survival much more than they do now. In that time, marriages worked because the inherent need for each other regulated the behavior of each side. That interdependence is mostly gone now, but some of the historic belief that marriage was beneficial to men has not completely died out yet. Your fiends who want to get married are operating on the assumption that marriage is still what it once was several generations ago. It is not, and it is far better for a man to realize this before he is married. After he is married, it is too late to avoid the worst consequences of it even if he extracts himself from it.

Statistically, at least half of those friends you have who are going to get married are going to suffer a financial disaster from which they will not ever recover. Although they may be able to eventually replace those financial assets they lose in a divorce, their own personally financial situation will never be able to catch up to where it would have been if they had never gotten married. Based on my own experience with my own married friends, what you can expect from them when they get married is that after a few years, they will wish that they were you. They may tell even tell you this. If their wives find out, they will want to limit or eliminate the time their husbands spend with you.

When they are married and you are with both the friend and his wife, try not to discuss things like the vacation you took or the NEW girlfriend you have, or anything else that you have accomplished as a single man that makes you happy. Discussing these things will make the wife very nervous, possibly hostile and will result in your seeing much less of your friends. Your friend may ask you about all these things, because hearing about them from you is as close as he’s going to get to ever having them. You can tell him about these things, just don’t do it in front of the wife…

That’s about all I can tell you about dealing with married friends.

Welcome to mgtow

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[…Spectator 1165]

BrainPilot: as always, excellent advice in your post. happy sunday evening bro.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

thanks Listenup…
I’ve been reading the covert ops thread… funny stuff right there!

I’ve also been reading the scarybitch website… Holy Chit!

I’m 48 years old, been around, married, divorced, seen a lot… even spent time working in emergency rooms and psych hospitals…

‘thought I’d seen it all. But some of those scarybitch confessions made me realize that even as cynical as I am, they have still managed to surprise me and sink even lower than I realized…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[…Spectator 1165]

Dr. BrainPilot: as usual, I can confirm your expert analysis of the situations described above. as older men you and I, we have to remember that the current C~~~ Generation has been in the hive incubating while we were getting out of marriages, hiring lawyers, fighting off erroneous lawsuits that damaged our reputations, working at jobs we don’t like, trying to explain s~~~ to our parents and our friends while our wives and girlfriends they sit back and say “I own the Golden Vagina, pay me.” That’s really the summation of all the online comments they make and they can kiss my ENTIRE BLACK ASS. F~~~ that s~~~ man! Gonna find me some old school Dr. Dre. in a minute and go out for the night.

Female indoctrination begins at 9 and 10 guys. ListenUp! out until manyana.

[…Spectator 1165]

Brain, Tempered, and Smity as well as CapKatCrunch, Soulman, and MG-Tower:

Have a good nte. Yeah, Smitty the typo is intentional  so f~~~ U brothers. later guys……..

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hi Avi. Yes I remember your avatar when you joined many months ago. Thanks for introducing yourself!

Were you the person who contacted us about the Forum switching to Bulletin? We just replied so check your mail!

And welcome to MGTOW.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

dude, I’m a grammar nazi deal with it… I assure you my typos bother me even more.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I am a little older by a few years, but in the same age range.

I think about getting back into dating sometimes, just to change the pace, but cannot seem to take it seriously.  The conversation is boring.  The personalities are easily calculable and not spontaneous.  I don’t want to deal with the moral/legal/financial aspect of the sexual act.  Even if I did it would be cheaper mentally/emotionally/financially to rent a hooker, not that I condone it as right.

I have walked out on girls before only to leave them to have to find a ride from someone else.  I have zero tolerance, and I do not even care that I have zero tolerance.  In regards to dating/marriage I have no fear of any societal consequence for dumping a woman or telling her white knight friends to f~~~ themselves, so it kind of leaves me with a bored feeling.  The “excitement” is not there.

One day I will eventually muster enough “caring” to start dating, but until then I have “yeah….whatever…dude” attitude about it.  One day I might give a s~~~, however that day is not today.

I just take life slow and find pleasure in trying to understand (what I can) about it.  I detest money, even though I need it.  I value my time and the quest for understanding more.  Women seem to rob a man of all these things, at least the ones I have observed.

[MGTOWAviParticipant 4]

Thanks for the warm welcome guys.I’m going through a lot of threads and there’s a tonne of personal experience threads in here.

Keymaster wrote:

Hi Avi. Yes I remember your avatar when you joined many months ago. Thanks for introducing yourself! Were you the person who contacted us about the Forum switching to Bulletin? We just replied so check your mail! And welcome to MGTOW.

Yes,i was the one who contacted you about Vbulletin.

I read your mail and thanks for responding back quickly.I’ll reply back within the next 12 hours.

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