Trying to find that "one thing" for better personal development

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Ill happily admit my own fualts with my own way so far in a sense of me mainly choosing my own way out of logical presevation and self ownership but im looking to expand the way i might try to do this through other ways in trying to find my “deeper personal passion” or find my “one thing” in my personal self to help push me to be even better as a person and passionate in my life where i can improve and gain both mental and spiritual fufillment possible and trying to expand my own personal mindset for the better.

Im not looking for some one to fill in the awnsers for me sinc ei do feel this is something i need to find for myself ( the whole idea of the own personal natural fit and all)

bit I am looking for any tips on how to find it either through methods, thought processes and phylosophical questionings or actions to help me try to find it if any one has any suggestions ?

P.S hope im making sense but at same time part of me feels i might just be talking out of my own ass form time to time

[Anonymous 42]

Conquer your fears first! It’s like clearing the land for development!

[UntamedParticipant]

That “One Thing” is for you to find within yourself. It is different for everyone of us although being Human we’ll have similar ideals and anchors to our innemost drive.
What is most important to you besides your survival will be that One Thing.
For some guys it’s their little child, for others a deeply developed set of personal rules that follows some long-thought-over philosophy and still others it’s their own personal freedom and the liberty to express one’s self originally and peacefully without being shamed, harassed or incarcerated. The list isn’t exhaustive.

CasualGuy227 wrote:

I am looking for any tips on how to find it either through methods, thought processes and phylosophical questionings or actions to help me try to find it

As Jack very rightly said in the clip “That’s for you to figure out”.
Start by exploring this great site’s treasure trove of wisdom and don’t worry so much over that One Thing, it’ll come to you when you’re ready and you’ll know when you are.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
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[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Seek to get out of your comfort zones.

If you’re a daily drinker, quit alcohol – it ultimately numbs you.

Anticipate late-life regret, and meditate on it regularly.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Stop watching TV and movies. Start working out. Spend quiet time alone and just think. Get comfortable being at rest, observing.

Then you’ll start to work things out. Find your own thing.

Oh, and if you drink, maybe stop. Clarity of thought is a wonderful thing. Be mindful, be intentional. Make decisions. Don’t just react.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
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[HermitParticipant]

Sounds like you need a good woman to settle down with, get married and have lots of kids. Make her the most important thing in your life. Because of her, you’ll want to improve yourself to make her happy. She will be that one thing.

Hopefully you recognize that’s all bulls~~~ and don’t believe a sarcastic word of it.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hermit wrote:

Sounds like you need a good woman to settle down with, get married and have lots of kids. Make her the most important thing in your life. Because of her, you’ll want to improve yourself to make her happy. She will be that one thing.

Hopefully you recognize that’s all bulls~~~ and don’t believe a sarcastic word of it.

its fine we got it hahaha

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Stop watching TV and movies. Start working out. Spend quiet time alone and just think. Get comfortable being at rest, observing.

Then you’ll start to work things out. Find your own thing.

Oh, and if you drink, maybe stop. Clarity of thought is a wonderful thing. Be mindful, be intentional. Make decisions. Don’t just react.

Cool, i have stopped watching 99.9% of tv for the most part minus stuff i stream on my computer

the only drinks i really have are whiskey and ciders but thats a rare thing every now and again not a huge drinker got that covered I think.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

I am looking for any tips on how to find it either through methods, thought processes

I have one take it for what it’s worth.

1. Identify four things that matter to you and make sure they are “core values” at the top level. No details.
Examples are Family, Health, Financial, Personal Character, Career and more. Pick only four that matter the most to you.

2. Rate each value from 1-10 how good you are at it, how happy you are about it.

3. Write down why you rated it that high or low. Use honest reflection.

4. Draw a box and label each side with one of the values and make that side only as long as the rating. E.G a 10 side is twice as long as 5 side. You will have a trapezoid.

5. Think of ways to balance the box so it looks like a square and not a trapezoid. 5-5-5-5 is better than 10-10-10-2.
You want balance not high ratings. Make it square

6. Pick one to work on and write down what ACTION you will do to balance it. You may want to bring a 10 down and or bring a 3 up.
Again think balance.
Work on that one thing. Repeat with each little win.

Example you identify you want a better relationship with a sibling.
Action – I will call once a month and put that on my calendar.

I want to eat better – Start a food log.

Simple, easy, steps over time.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

All good advice above.
Realise the self – you are an eternal soul.
For me its giving thanks and worship to God.
Peace.

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[ResidentEvil7Participant 9544]

For me the One Thing means lots of money, because it can bring you happiness and freedom.

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