Try This Again

[Doomed DudeParticipant 15]

My name is Jer and I am struggling in a relationship that I am trying to get out of. About three years ago we came into some money from some misfortune. I started having seizures and the company I worked for no longer wanted me working around big trucks. During the MRI’s and EEG’s they found that I had a tumour my head nothing good. Skipping past the part where I felt sorry for myself and got beer by the Keg I quickly tried to turn it around, life can always be worse and look how fortunate I am. The money we came into was substantial until my wife decided to spend as much of it as fast as she could.
I had a bunch of seizures in a row 8ish, she lost count as I was in the car on the way to the hospital. I was in and out of it over the next week but when I finally came to I was no longer the same. I could not remember things especially short term. At this point she took care of the bills and paying the taxes but that is not what really happened, she in short spent it all. I don’t trust her and unfortunately I don’t have anyone in my life I do trust. There is a whole lot more but what is important is that I want out and sooner than later and I will if it is the 2nd last thing I do.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

F~~~! I wrote in your other thread that you weren’t doomed.

My bad. You’re f~~~ed buddy.

😉 These are just little jabs to toughen you up a bit. Do you have any family that you trust? Any close friends anymore?

You’re going to pull through this. It’s always darkest before the dawn.

I appreciate your second attempt at your introduction. Those who keep trying are usually the victors. You’ve got a fighting spirit. Welcome again man.

[Anonymous 25]

speak to your doctor and tell them what’s going on, particularly as you have the tumour. What she is doing is disability related domestic abuse. See if your doctor can signpost you to a DV service or charity that can help your situation. Also try and speak to a charity that helps people with conditions like yours who can help with your situation and help get you out of it.

You haven’t said where you are based, so it’s hard to signpost you. If you’re UK based let me know I can signpost you.

[Anonymous 0]

Find a good lawyer and just maybe you can collect alimony from her. Just don’t let her know what you’re planning. Stealth.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Ok, My Bad.

I wasn’t sure about your first post and we get a lot of random posts from people trying to join. What side of your body are you affected?

It's Time to get Wise

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome
I wish you the best of luck. See a lawyer.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Doomed
Beer’s in the fridge

You are not Doomed.
The woman you thought you could trust is taking advantage of your situation. Get some help.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Seek professional help as suggested above, wth a good attorney. Sorry to hear about your predicament. Stick around and keep posting here. Lots of men care.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[HitmanParticipant]

like M52 said,
you are not doomed.
you need a plan.
and a good lawyer.
stay strong brother.
never give up !!!

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Hire an attorney and give him LIMITED power of attorney. Limited to your finances, nothing else; don’t give him comprehensive power of attorney. Get rid of the bitch–fast.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

PistolPete wrote:

Hire an attorney and give him LIMITED power of attorney. Limited to your finances, nothing else; don’t give him comprehensive power of attorney. Get rid of the bitch–fast.

When it comes to legal stuff listen to PistolPete. He knows his s~~~.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 54]

I wont ask what the last thing you would do is.
Hang in there DD.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

I wont ask what the last thing you would do is.

The last thing you do is wipe your dick on her curtains.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 54]

Also if you can look up laws about caregivers.
I know nothing about it, but there mabey helpful info there.

I like your Try this Again attitude.
It says alot about you.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

FrostByte wrote:

Old Sage wrote:
I wont ask what the last thing you would do is.
The last thing you do is wipe your dick on her curtains.

Sorry I’ve had a lot of scotch. lol

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings Jer,

My heart goes out to you Dude.

Many thanks fellow MGTOWs for the good advice here in this Introduction.

Anonymous wrote:

……..What she is doing is disability related domestic abuse…….…

Your situation is too familiar.

The hospitals screw you over even more when you do not have a “Loved One” with you. So, you are further pressured to have a wife.

Too many of these “Wives” proceed to rip their men off more venimently when he is in the hospital, which is vile, despicable, and loathsome behavior. Those women are WHORES!

Our tendency to be lone wolves combined with a wife’s ability to isolate us from any outside friendships creates a disaster waiting to happen.

The following video does involve offspring which is not exactly your problem, but it provides a visual of what your “Loved One” is doing to you in your situation:

parasitic-jeweled-wasp

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Thanks for sharing your story. Sorry to have to tell you this but when guys can no longer provide and get ill the chance of your wife leaving you has sky rocketed. She probably is already looking to divorce you and find your replacement as we speak. Best thing to do for you as others have said is find a good lawyer that can manage your finances until you are well enough to start the divorce process.

You can start by recording all your conversations with her, get proof that she took you to the cleaners take pictures of all the new stuff and any bills you can find for the stuff she bought. Get her to tell you she is paying the bills and record it so that you can show she was manipulating and lying to you. Keep a journal of what she tells you and what she actually does, mark the date and time of everything she said and did to show a pattern of her ruthless behavior.

Her goal now is leaving you in as much financial ruin as possible. There are countless stories of this exact scenario playing out with men who are diagnosed with a serious illness and while these men are in the hospital the wife takes everything and leaves them for her back up beta orbiter she kept on the hook just in case this scenario played out for her. Take care of your health first without that you have nothing and you need money in order to do that so please go see a lawyer as soon as you can to fix this mess.

[MACHOParticipant]

Hang in there brother. You are already at the right place to share and get support from caring beings.

God Bless!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I was also on your other post, but welcome again Her.

My advice stands. If there is any money left get it where she can’t touch it before she spends it. Get clear of her and get any help you can with your medical. You still put sentences together just fine so I doubt there’s the huge gap in ability that you claim.

The rest of the brothers have given a lot of good advice.

Get help, get healthy, get clear of her. You can be happy again if you make sure that you are living freely and for yourself.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Doomed DudeParticipant 15]

I took some advice given although stealth is tough. @ Greg Honda the tumour is a pituitary tumour so it affects many things, hormones and as it grows which it hopefully does not then it will press on my optic nerve affecting my vision.
Doing anything in secret while living with a woman seems to be very difficult especially when you have to write things down. I made a friend, he actually told me of MGTOW and it couldn’t have come at a better time because having someone a guy can trust is tough to find these days. Thank you for the kind replies, boosts a mans spirit.

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