Treasure Chests?

[marriage=miseryParticipant 7]

Hi guys,
Going through a divorce and I earn 5x as much as her. I paid for my earnings with almost a decade more of extra education and significant student loans, while she was earning 5x more than me and 1) didn’t support me as I am currently and 2) didn’t save and essentially spent most of earnings

Unfortunately marital property includes all the money you worked hard to earn, so that includes the savings I diligently accumulated while she attempted to deplete it with lavish purchases. We don’t share any financial accounts so she’s not exactly sure what is in them.

Any advice on how to avoid her cutting me in half? I have several paychecks waiting to be deposited, but I feel like no matter where I deposit them, my pay stub required in the discovery process will expose me.

Any advice?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Well you may have to be creative here. Just a thought.

Make her cheat. Give her every reason to. Prepare for it. Get it on film (optional). Get a lawyer, give him the film and file for divorce based-on: “Gross infidelity” and file a civil suit AGAINST THE OTHER GUY for Alienation of Affection (in some states possible). A good lawyer will easily win both cases for you.

You pay her NOTHING.
And HE will pay YOU.

(this isn’t about taking another man down, but any man who has sex with some other man’s wife is a scumbag anyway. Don’t worry, women love to cheat with scumbags so don’t let your male compassion get the better of you)

Roll that case into a custody hearing etc….
And flatten your wife in legal fees.
You keep your children, wife gets NOTHING.

Then you get to raise your children as you see fit AND you get a nice settlement to spend on yourself. Hell, why not buy yourself a hot sports car……. and you can now look around for a younger, tighter, hotter more reasonable model to assist with your stress level.

Man wins.

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As an alternative, you could take your assets/cash/money and put them in a corp’s name. I don’t know TOO much about this, but it’s separate from your person. Look into it. Transfer your car to your corp too. Stuff like that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

greetings , what about a ” gambling problem ” you recently discovered you had.. or a family member who would vouch you had to lend them alot of money at extremely low interest rates ..maybe you take out a little at a time and your place gets ” robbed / burglarized ? GET IT ? ….lots of options .. be creative and smart ..

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

In my mind’s eye.
I wanted to incorporate my house. Thought of many schemes.

The main idea is this.

You are not at trial? You are at case conferences, right? This means she will lie. This means you can also.
You became despondent, depressed, suicidal, did not give a f~~~ anymore, bought whores, drugs, wine, cheap perfume, lottery tickets.

I would cash out all accounts, place under a pillow. Only at trial would this info come out. Not at case conferences, a gentlemanly pursuit of law where they lie, but man is honorable. Could be worth a try? Don’t know.
If you are not at trial, discovery will be on you, the onus is on the man not the woman, they lie.
And because not at trial, everything is all right, cause woman have issues you know.
I would cash all assets, and I lost everything, I drank all of it away, or bought plastic models to build,
because the court entertains the woman only, not the man. happened to me, she stole 50 grand out of
joint, nothing said does not matter. her 2 accounts not discovered, no big deal. Protect your money, get cash.

I am not liable for this advice in any way shape form, this is an opinion formed by defective information on my part.
Use wisely. Cannot be used against me in a court of law. this info contains errors, and may be false, and not suitable for use.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

Built a business, complete fail, they bought that to court expecting money, women want a purse of money for every idea in your mind when they leave you, because they think it’s their property because YOU belong to them.
YOU are chattel, a bull with b~~~~, lucky if you use them on their turf. They own your B~~~~ don’t marry, don’t tell em s~~~.
Dumb as nails most are. They don’t understand business, just spending money, honey!

[griffinParticipant 189]

Keymaster wrote:

As an alternative, you could take your assets/cash/money and put them in a corp’s name. I don’t know TOO much about this, but it’s separate from your person. Look into it. Transfer your car to your corp too. Stuff like that.

Ya that doesn’t work in Canada, not sure about the U.S…..
She is “entitled” to go after whatever the hell she wants, incorporated or not. It’s up to having a solid lawyer after that but even then it’s not a guarantee…trust me on this one, just recently went through it.

[marriage=miseryParticipant 7]

Cheating idea: I wish I could walk in on her blowing some schmuck, it would make this so much easier, but she wouldn’t do that, especially with a 1 yr old in the picture and being instructed to be on best behavior by lawyer.

Gambling problem: something I seriously considered since I do enjoy blackjack at a casino every now and then. My biggest concern is if that will be a factor in child custody?? Any thoughts?

Business/investments: any such venture is considered marital property and considered partially hers, so as a poster said, she is entitled to half.

Oh the agony…

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Cash out as much money as you can.
Pay for storage with cash for 2 or 3 years in advance, preferably where no personal info is required, or find an old friend to rent it for you.
Get all the receipts you can from friends and keep them to justify the expenses.
Buy gold/silver/prepaid visa cards and deposit in storage.
Prepay continuing education for yourself.
Learn whatever you dreamed of, or prepay for it (flight school, scuba diving school, boating school, race car driving school)
Prepay services that are in your name only (gym lifetime memberships, club memberships)
Invest in yourself (get a full medical, massages, etc)
Put all the money you can now into your person, and she will get less. After that, you will be doubly prepared to make a lot more for yourself.

These are on my list as well for when she decides to screw me over too. I am not sure though which, if any would apply to you.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Also, you could deposit whatever monies you want into a locked account for your kid, so nobody will have access to it except the kid when reaching 18.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

That’s what I was going to say – put it all in a trust for the kid. Speak to a solicitor first, obviously.

[MilkmanParticipant 7]

Greetings,
I’m in Texas, and this is what I did when my ex wife decided to have an affair.
1. I kept my mouth shut and my emotions in check.
2. I went to marriage counseling by myself. I told her I wanted to go with her. But I knew she wouldn’t go. So I also had the counselor email her an invite to the next sessions.
3. I went to a psychiatrist. This was a necessary evil for me. I told them I wanted a psychiatric evaluation to show I am safe sane and competent to be around my children and have custody. (Being in the military with several deployments affords her free reign on the “he’s crazy with hardcore PTSD” card)
4. I closed out my businesses and sold all assets to a good friend.
5. Got a DBA and filled out a W-9 to “work for” my friends business as an independent contractor for labor only and paid in cash.
6. Told her we should sell the house to use the built up equity to pay off all debts and “temporarily” move into her moms house. She agreed.
7. Had another good friend get a POD storage containers delivered to my house. And loaded all “communal” property into it. Itemized it all in a bill of sale to him along with receipt. (Made damn sure she did a lot of heavy lifting to load that thing)
8. Sold house.
9. Used profits to pay off all debts that I could inherit.
10. Paid for rental house for one full year in advance in cash. (With profits off house)
11. Lived with her at her moms place for 3 months. While storing cash and prepaid Visa cards at my rental.
12. Got a lawyer. And paperwork all drafted up.
13. Revealed the affair from her emails and texts with her mom present.
14. Had her served with papers the next day with a 72 hr restraining order
15. Respectfully thanked her mother for being so gracious for having me as a guest and wished her well in an email.
16. She lawyers up. To find no assets to be divided. And tries to take custody from me. Claiming I have severe PTSD and pose a threat to kids.
17. Produce medical records from aforementioned doctor and marriage counselor stating I am not suffering sever PTSD and am safe sane and competent to raise my children.
18. Court rules that I have 50% legal and custodial guardianship.
19. Due to the fact that my newly reported 1099 status places me at a lower income level than her it was ruled she had to pay me child support!
20. My depleted checking and savings accounts were reviewed along with hers. She had seven grand in there. I had $123.56 and was awarded half of the “savings”
21. Purchased the POD from friend and moved all my belongings into my rental.
22. After my 60 day wait period was over I was officially divorced! With my kids, my stuff, clean house, and getting paid child support on top of everything.
23. “Purchased” my business assets back. And opened a new LLC
24. Saved my ass off and bought two properties and flipped them.
25. Continued to go my own way and do whatever I wanted and now have three businesses. And 8 rental properties owned outright. And just finished having my new home built.

I’ve been divorced for less than a year now. I found MGTOW when my marriage was in shambles. It was one of my greatest assets listening to all the logical discussions on YouTube. It was the driving force behind me keeping my cool for 10 months leading up to my filing for divorce.
Logic, reason, and gowing my own way while choking down as many red pills as I could saved my life.
I want to thank all MGTOWs for being the voice of reason for all men.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Milkman wrote:

Greetings,I’m in Texas, and this is what I did when my ex wife decided to have an affair.1. I kept my mouth shut and my emotions in check.2. I went to marriage counseling by myself. I told her I wanted to go with her. But I knew she wouldn’t go. So I also had the counselor email her an invite to the next sessions.3. I went to a psychiatrist. This was a necessary evil for me. I told them I wanted a psychiatric evaluation to show I am safe sane and competent to be around my children and have custody. (Being in the military with several deployments affords her free reign on the “he’s crazy with hardcore PTSD” card)4. I closed out my businesses and sold all assets to a good friend.5. Got a DBA and filled out a W-9 to “work for” my friends business as an independent contractor for labor only and paid in cash.6. Told her we should sell the house to use the built up equity to pay off all debts and “temporarily” move into her moms house. She agreed.7. Had another good friend get a POD storage containers delivered to my house. And loaded all “communal” property into it. Itemized it all in a bill of sale to him along with receipt. (Made damn sure she did a lot of heavy lifting to load that thing)8. Sold house.9. Used profits to pay off all debts that I could inherit.10. Paid for rental house for one full year in advance in cash. (With profits off house)11. Lived with her at her moms place for 3 months. While storing cash and prepaid Visa cards at my rental.12. Got a lawyer. And paperwork all drafted up.13. Revealed the affair from her emails and texts with her mom present.14. Had her served with papers the next day with a 72 hr restraining order15. Respectfully thanked her mother for being so gracious for having me as a guest and wished her well in an email.16. She lawyers up. To find no assets to be divided. And tries to take custody from me. Claiming I have severe PTSD and pose a threat to kids.17. Produce medical records from aforementioned doctor and marriage counselor stating I am not suffering sever PTSD and am safe sane and competent to raise my children.18. Court rules that I have 50% legal and custodial guardianship.19. Due to the fact that my newly reported 1099 status places me at a lower income level than her it was ruled she had to pay me child support!20. My depleted checking and savings accounts were reviewed along with hers. She had seven grand in there. I had $123.56 and was awarded half of the “savings”21. Purchased the POD from friend and moved all my belongings into my rental.22. After my 60 day wait period was over I was officially divorced! With my kids, my stuff, clean house, and getting paid child support on top of everything.23. “Purchased” my business assets back. And opened a new LLC24. Saved my ass off and bought two properties and flipped them.25. Continued to go my own way and do whatever I wanted and now have three businesses. And 8 rental properties owned outright. And just finished having my new home built.
I’ve been divorced for less than a year now. I found MGTOW when my marriage was in shambles. It was one of my greatest assets listening to all the logical discussions on YouTube. It was the driving force behind me keeping my cool for 10 months leading up to my filing for divorce.Logic, reason, and gowing my own way while choking down as many red pills as I could saved my life.I want to thank all MGTOWs for being the voice of reason for all men.

THIS, brothers… THIS IS THE S~~~!

You are a f~~~ing genius, Milk! Ten thumbs up for you, man!

Patience, some kind of boldness and coldness, and the bitch paid YOU, brother…

That is how s~~~ is done!

Thanks for the “walkthrough”, brother!

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I hope you two can sit down with a lawyer and divide the property in a reasonable way (in writing) instead of defaulting to a judge. Best wishes to you.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[marriage=miseryParticipant 7]

Your clairvoyance is one in a million brother. I’m already in the process so any such maneuvering can and will be used against me…

Milkman wrote:

Greetings,I’m in Texas, and this is what I did when my ex wife decided to have an affair.1. I kept my mouth shut and my emotions in check.2. I went to marriage counseling by myself. I told her I wanted to go with her. But I knew she wouldn’t go. So I also had the counselor email her an invite to the next sessions.3. I went to a psychiatrist. This was a necessary evil for me. I told them I wanted a psychiatric evaluation to show I am safe sane and competent to be around my children and have custody. (Being in the military with several deployments affords her free reign on the “he’s crazy with hardcore PTSD” card)4. I closed out my businesses and sold all assets to a good friend.5. Got a DBA and filled out a W-9 to “work for” my friends business as an independent contractor for labor only and paid in cash.6. Told her we should sell the house to use the built up equity to pay off all debts and “temporarily” move into her moms house. She agreed.7. Had another good friend get a POD storage containers delivered to my house. And loaded all “communal” property into it. Itemized it all in a bill of sale to him along with receipt. (Made damn sure she did a lot of heavy lifting to load that thing)8. Sold house.9. Used profits to pay off all debts that I could inherit.10. Paid for rental house for one full year in advance in cash. (With profits off house)11. Lived with her at her moms place for 3 months. While storing cash and prepaid Visa cards at my rental.12. Got a lawyer. And paperwork all drafted up.13. Revealed the affair from her emails and texts with her mom present.14. Had her served with papers the next day with a 72 hr restraining order15. Respectfully thanked her mother for being so gracious for having me as a guest and wished her well in an email.16. She lawyers up. To find no assets to be divided. And tries to take custody from me. Claiming I have severe PTSD and pose a threat to kids.17. Produce medical records from aforementioned doctor and marriage counselor stating I am not suffering sever PTSD and am safe sane and competent to raise my children.18. Court rules that I have 50% legal and custodial guardianship.19. Due to the fact that my newly reported 1099 status places me at a lower income level than her it was ruled she had to pay me child support!20. My depleted checking and savings accounts were reviewed along with hers. She had seven grand in there. I had $123.56 and was awarded half of the “savings”21. Purchased the POD from friend and moved all my belongings into my rental.22. After my 60 day wait period was over I was officially divorced! With my kids, my stuff, clean house, and getting paid child support on top of everything.23. “Purchased” my business assets back. And opened a new LLC24. Saved my ass off and bought two properties and flipped them.25. Continued to go my own way and do whatever I wanted and now have three businesses. And 8 rental properties owned outright. And just finished having my new home built.
I’ve been divorced for less than a year now. I found MGTOW when my marriage was in shambles. It was one of my greatest assets listening to all the logical discussions on YouTube. It was the driving force behind me keeping my cool for 10 months leading up to my filing for divorce.Logic, reason, and gowing my own way while choking down as many red pills as I could saved my life.I want to thank all MGTOWs for being the voice of reason for all men.

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