Traveling alone with my new found freedom

[Lee22Participant 126]

Hey brothers, just wanted to ask the question since having my freedom and doing things that make me happy I want to start traveling a little bit just visit some places that interest me, but will it be silly to travel alone as I have no desire to ever be in another relationship again? Your thoughts

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

You are not alone brother…Your thoughts are with you and it will give you a chance not only to explore the place but also to discover who you are…You will grow through the experience…You will achieve things you thought you cannot do…Take one step at a time and dont let fear hold you back…Live brother…dont just exist…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Men flourish in solitude. The key is what you keep your thoughts on. You choose if you will be happy or not. Yes, travel and enjoy your life. You do not need someone next to you to enjoy it. You are also never alone, because the world is full of people. Whether beside you or online, you can always reach someone. Do not compromise your happiness for the lie of companionship with a woman.

[Anonymous 12]

So…
travelling alone is silly.

Please explain that one to me.
I am not kidding or trolling you, just straight up.

What has “traveling” to do with the key words “alone; silly; relationship” – That one i can not understand.

How about you focus on the experience, on the Place that you visit, pure;direct and without any nagging?

I am a Plane Buff.
If i wanted to spend a week at Duxford, UK (http://www.iwm.org.uk/visits/iwm-duxford)
or if i wanted to clear my head by injecting some proper Cylinder noise

How, and in what way would my experience be better if i had to fight for the trip, or drag an unmotivated and uninterested woman along with me?

I would rather just go there, and meet random strangers who also come to that place for the same Subject.
Bro, or Ho, the place would be filled with “Plane Mad” People. and that´s the only damn thing that counts.

There are kickass people wherever you travel, no matter what your specific interest is.
No need for a GF at all.

[Anonymous 3]

The social expectations (like travelling with somebody else) are MORE in you head than other people’s mind.

Sure, some will look at you funny (mostly women), but they will think about it for a few seconds, if such.

And because of THAT you are willing to compromise your freedom?

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Alone is good you meet people if you want , as a couple or in a gang of people its harder to meet others, the best of both worlds , your world choose what you want.

[Anonymous 3]

people will only think of something for a few seconds and them move on about their day…

And further more, people will think of you according to WHAT YOUR BODY LANGUAGE IS SAYING.

This means that if you think what you are doing is socially awkward, then your atittude will signal other people that feeling.

It is a kind of self-fulfilling prophesy.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Alone is usually how I got to the more interesting places I’ve been. Nobody around to interfere with your decisions and all.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

After I regained my humanity, I traveled solo.

Went to Brazil all by my self.

Buyed an old car and roamed the south coast of Dominican Republic for three days. Visiting all beaches and rivers.

No bro, go your own way, and no better way to enjoy you, than traveling with you and only you.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Deadly Raver wrote:

Alone is usually how I got to the more interesting places I’ve been. Nobody around to interfere with your decisions and all.

Thissss

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

It’s because you’re not used to it Lee. Do it a few times and you’ll never want to travel with anyone ever again.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

I travel for work extensively. I travel alone on my motorcycle and often meet lots of people.

I do travel with other men on motorcycles trips, occasionally and thats fun but we separate when our interests in POIs doesn’t over lap. You can’t do that when you travel with a woman.

I’m downsizing into an RV (and yep I’m single) where I will now be a snowbird at 40.

Alone is the only way to travel. Who wants to sit and wait for some princess to shop for expensive antiques or dresses? Why pay double for a nice steak? Why “owe her one” b/c she went to a museum with you?

Tired.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I have a business trip next month. Decided to go a few days early and rent a car and visit a city a few hours away I’ve always wanted to go to. I’ll get there Saturday afternoon and have until mid day Monday. I have zero plans. There’s a few things I’d like to see, but I’ll make plans when I get there after I get my bearings.

Did I say “I”? Because I’m going alone.

I can’t wait.

Order the good wine

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Lee22 wrote:

but will it be silly to travel alone

Absolutely not! On my best vacations I went alone. The people I met were amazing and I was tied down to nothing. The only concern I had was not being allowed to rent a room as a single. So, always have a back up room plan.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

I’ve done extensive traveling with my ex wife and it was always a pain in the ass. We need to do this and we need to do that. Get up, we’re late for this and late for that. Fuuuuuuuuck that. When I go on vacation I want to relax and do what the f~~~ I want and what I can afford.
Total mind opener when I went on my first vacation by myself. It was so awesome that I swore off ever vacationing with someone else again. No agenda, no deadlines, just seeing what I want to see and doing what I want to do in a new refreshing place.
You haven’t vacationed until you spend a whole day sitting at an outdoor cafe on a cobblestone alley in Palermo, Sicily with a great cigar and a long string of beers. You check out girls asses and comment on them together with the locals. It’s amazing how much we have in common despite a language barrier. I’ have never laughed more in my life or been more relaxed. Then you take a nap at your hotel and go out for a late night dinner. You stay out as late as you want and drink as much as you want. No nagging, snide looks or anything.

ALWAYS VACATION BY YOURSELF!!!!!

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[Anonymous 0]

I traveled alone for seven years, nearly non-stop, seeing 42 countries and I could not handle the amount of social interaction I got. Age 27-33. Traveling solo definitely is my preferred mode. Egypt, Israel, Turkey, Ukraine, Georgian Republic, Spain, Greece, Swedish Lapland, Norway, Canada etc. I even bicycled up & down to Egypt from the Netherlands! Two ferries in between, from Italy to Greece and from Greece to Israel. Greatest time in my life.

[JVBParticipant]

Of course not bro. I’m at about 40 countries both work or pleasure. Always alone. Just got back from Grand Caymans. Rum rum and more rum.

Peace is > piece.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

I’ve done a LOT of traveling alone in the past year. There’s pros and cons. If there’s one lesson I’ve learned, I think i’d try to make some friends online wherever I’m traveling to have someone to hang with…not a woman to boss you around, but just some conversation, someone to drink a beer with, watch a game with etc. That’s easier said than done I guess, particularly if you’re like me and not all that internet/social media savvy. But I’m planning to try and find some cool people to hang with at my next destination…when I did standup comedy there was a ready-made group of people to hang with in each area (although a lot of them were dicks), so I’m guessing it’s that way with other interest groups (maybe MGTOW once you get to know folks). Anyway, that’s my thoughts…happy travels

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Traveling alone is THE way to travel.
I did 3 months in Asia last year – amazing.
You get a lot of time to think about life, about yourself, about the world. AND if you want to hang out with people – just book a room at a hostel, and you’re good to go, back-packers from all over the world in the same situation as you, wanting someone to go hiking with! I hiked the Elephant mountain in Taipei, Taiwan with two random dudes from the hostel I stayed at. They were traveling Capoeria martial artists – awesome men!

[MaverickParticipant 811]

When I was a kid, the video game “Nobunaga’s Ambition” was my all time favorite and the life story of that man intrigued me to no end. Do you think during my stay in Japan that any other human being… much less a woman… would have given one-fith of a f~~~ about my having seen the castle where in he committed ritual suicide just outside of Osaka?

That was an awesome game! It was one of my favorites as well. I rarely find anyone who has played this game or other similar games (i.e. Romance of the 3 Kingdoms). Have you played any of the sequels?

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