Tough night

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

Wondering tonight, even though not alone, here with my adult child, pondering a hard one men.

I think many live in blue pill hell because they are afraid. Afraid to die alone. Tonight my brain has been digging into that fear.

Not an easy thing, and am worried about whether it will be that way, but also pondering how to deal with it.

Nowhere near it I hope, hope to have at least twenty or thirty more years here, but tonight the fear of being alone at the end is trying to push me back to the plantation.

Men, we need to push this revolution forward and be there for our brothers, fathers and sons, so that they never have these fears.

I don’t know how, I haven’t got there yet, but I see there needs to be a path men, there is one and we just have to find it.

Be there for your men friends, family and even strangers, help your fellow men find their own way.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[StealthParticipant 5360]

We are all born alone, and we will all die alone. The trick is to not be afraid of it.

Hopefully these are just growing pains. You’ll be fine as long as you continue to live and grow, and be open to the truth.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

There are lots of men to be friends with if you want to reach out. Men make better room mates than women. Some men anyway.

If you want to beat the system you can get married to a guy in many states, no sex, just sharing. Most marriages don’t have sex anyway. It would pay if you both had pensions or property that the surviving spouse gets.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

I think many live in blue pill hell because they are afraid. Afraid to die alone. Tonight my brain has been digging into that fear.

I don’t really understand what you’re afraid of. Can you explain exactly why dying single is an issue? I can’t really offer any helpful comment if I don’t understand what’s bothering you. I’ll take an explanation from anyone here…

[Anonymous 43]

Thre were several reasons why I got married, but one was certainly being some age, say 30 something that something was wrong with me if I couldn’t find a woman to marry and live a “normal” life. I remember thinking how I had a good life, married, house, 2 kids, cars, swimmingpool and the s~~~ vortex. I was afraid of being in my 40s alone.

So, I was divorced at age 39 1/2. I went through college in my early 40’s broke, mostly homeless, and not into dating the squadrons of 20 year olds I was surrounded by on a daily basis. They certainly didn’t want me for a relationship.

now at age 47, you couldn’t pay me enough money to take another woman into my life. What was once my biggest fear was crushed by my own realization that another woman will probably take what little I had, and any woman interested in me in my present condition would have to have serious problems in her life, thinking I was the solution to her problems.

I am surviving on the bare minimum, and take great satisfaction in that. I don’t have much, and the divorce court and the c~~~ can’t really take anything else away from me. I have nothing left to give. Until I get a court order compelling me to sell my blood or a kidney, I have nothing.

[JVBParticipant]

Brother you will be fine. Remember couples don’t die in pairs so you die alone regardless. You’re loved ones will be there to escort you to the afterlife. But not yet.

Peace is > piece.

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

At the time, watching the dying guy on tv, all I could think of, with my kid who I am sure will depart right after college not to be seen again, and no significant other, living hundreds, if not thousands of miles from family and the few I consider friends, will I face that moment alone, that was what it was focused on…

Perhaps just a passing moment of mortality.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[MonkParticipant 17026]

You are never alone. You just can’t see them, that’s all.

[Fundamental_manParticipant 209]

Food for though: A relative of mine suffered a stroke like episode a few years ago, ending up in a nursing home. He still has some limited reasoning and communication capablity left, and seem to enjoy visits, but needs lots of assistance.
His wife lives a few hundred meters/yards away from him. Still she will only inconvenience herself to visit him once every other week. More often is no point, as “he sometimes barely recognizes her and does not say anything”. She means the time there is depressing (for HER!) and pointless.

And they have been married for about 50 years! Women – ungrateful and cold hearted!
Do not assume that a marriage will prevent you from dying alone!

[StealthParticipant 5360]

Hey Gerald, this post came up recently and thought of you:

For MGTOWs afraid of Dying Alone

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

Stealth wrote:

Hey Gerald, this post came up recently and thought of you:

For MGTOWs afraid of Dying Alone

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Thanks, I did see that as well. I appreciate all of your thoughts… Am learning and trying to deal with these lingering rhings…

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Gerald we all die alone, but keep in mind alot of the time death comes suddenly and you won’t even know it, on the flip side if you are hospitalized and go the slow route … they have nice tv’s nowaday’s, start a convo with the Dr. or nurse, bring your laptop and talk to us etc 🙂

You’ll be fine.

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