Too young to MGTOW? (My Story)

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    Notshakespeare
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    Hello! I am a 22 years old on the last year of law school and i work at the city’s court of justice. I’m from Brazil, so i apologize for any grammar errors.

    My experience with MGTOW is really short, in fact, i’m here so i can learn more about it, since it looks utterly interesting. In december of last year, my girlfriend has made a mistake with her contraceptive pills and got pregnant. We told our families (actually i told our families as she was too afraid to tell her parents… You know, i had to be the man) and we planned to marry. I already had my money and law school was almost over for the both of us, so it wouldn’t take long to financial stability (lawyers make good money in Brazil).

    It didn’t took me long to realize i was the one doing everything. I moved back to my parent’s to save money (which seemed like the wisest thing to do) and got plus hours at work. Got her a half time job (as a secretaire, a pretty easy job) in which she worked for a few months before quitting. When my son was born, she told me that she didn’t wanted anything to do with me and she denied me a lot of stuff. I couldn’t even put my father’s last name on my own son. I could sue her for that, but it didn’t seemed correct for me to start my son’s life with such an aggressive action.

    She tries her best to keep me from seeing my son (i had to call the police twice only so that i could see him once in every 15 days) and i’m aware that she’s going to try to replace me as soon as she gets a boyfriend… She’ll probably fail though, as the boy loves to see me! I’m waiting for him to be old enough so that i can reach for the law and take him to my hometown on the weekends… That will be awesome, i never thought i’d love someone so much as i love him! hahahaha

    Getting to the point: In college i wasn’t really into the feminism debates as i was far more interested in learning the law and you only have 5 years to do it in Brazil. But as it all began i got exposed to a weird situation:

    I had just jumped out of the bus and there was 3 girls chatting about my in my bus stop. I said “hi” and they started ranting about how “single fathers always abort themselves from their kid’s lifes”. For God’s sake!! I pay so much alimony she doesn’t even spend her own money on the child… Isn’t that caring??

    I didn’t paid any attention, so i got home and did some research on feminism. It didn’t took long until i found a feminist ranting about MRA’s and from that i knew the MGTOW’s…

    So… Any comments??

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    SamMGTOW
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    She saw the $$$ in your future and “made a mistake”. It happens. Not the mistake part, being used by woman happens. I know how you feel. Don’t expect any favours from the courts. Don’t even expect them to be impartial, they’ll take the woman’s side because she’s a woman. She’ll demand a more accurate representation of your income be used when you start earning more for her child support and alimony. Nevermind the fact that she can live off the current child support alone. You’ll never be more than an ATM to her and just to spite you she’ll do everything in her power to stop you from seeing your own kid. Then you’ll be more drained financially going to the courts for it just to see him once every other weekend. You have been used, and I know that’s painful to hear. The feminazi’s berating you at the bus stop probably never even stopped to consider the possibility that it was the pregnant woman who broke it off with you. How could they, they are so blind to the financial privileges they are showered with each and every day that they’re immune from objective consideration. I’m sorry that your first red pill had to be so painful. Hopefully it will lead you to a life where your sole purpose is not as a utility for others however. Welcome to MGTOW.

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    Nihilgeist
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    Greetings from the USA! You are never too young to swallow red pills. Sorry to hear about how you’ve been treated by your baby’s mom. I wish you luck in everything you do and good luck raising your son.

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    Notshakespeare
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    hey thanks guys!

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