Too many Relations~~~s

[DietEwokParticipant 1]

Hey guys, I’m new to MGTOW.

I’ve got myself in a hell of bad situation, or so I think, I’ve recently have been blind in my actions and got back with a girl who is thirteen years older than me and that who I’ve been with for about 6 years off and on. We’ve cheated on each other, I’ve pimped her out for cocaine back in my younger years (18-20, currently 23), I’ve been in and out of being “In love” with her. I just think I am used to her company. After our last break up I had, “No lag, between the vag” I hopped straight into a relations~~~ with this chick at work who is 29 and has a child. After a month of dating she told me she loved me, and I relapsed back into alcohol because of all the f~~~ing pressure of both of these chicks. This new relations~~~ is so damn tough to get out of because she’s that “sweet type” and I have yet to see her “Inner bitch” which I KNOW is going to come out when I try and break up with her. Plus her f~~~ing grandmother died last night, and I just feel stuck in this s~~~ty spot because I’ve been avoiding the younger one (29) and f~~~ing around with the older one (36) and I want to leave both just to focus on my happiness and my recovery. Any advice would be highly worth it!

 

Thanks for reading.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Sounds to me like you need to get all the females out of your life and spend some time alone… maybe six months or so… and I’m not a doctor but you may need to speak to someone about dealing with addiction as well.

I believe you will never be happy in life until you are happy being alone with yourself and at peace in your own mind and heart.

[DietEwokParticipant 1]

Thanks man, the problem is… How do I go about getting these females off me when I don’t want to be cruel or mean? I don’t feel like I can just be like
“F~~~ you, go away” type of thing.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Take care of yourself. Get that addiction treated.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Think of them as telemarketers trying to sell you a stake in a timeshare that you’ll never stay in. Don’t call them and don’t answer their calls… and get off social media. There, should be nice and quiet at your place now.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@dietewok “F~~~ off go away” translated into chick speak is one of the best ways to make sure she won’t leave. When did a woman ever leave a relationshiop or marriage peacefully? F~~~ no. Women are the sex that needs to be PAID to f~~~ off. But if you want a bitch to leave and go away (without paying her a f~~~ing thing), you tell her she’s the most beautiful woman in the whole wide world….. you can’t live without her…… she’s the reason you breathe…… that kind of s~~~.

If that fails, try this: “I have no money”.

It works wonders. Guaranteed. She will be planning her departure faster than she can say “I need some space”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Ewok, you might be in a bad situation, but as a doctor it seems to me that it’s the addiction issue, not the relationship(s). The only 3 destinations for chemical addiction (including alcohol) are jail, insane asylum, or cemetery. It’s a progressive disease that can only end in one of these three ways, unless you find a way to stop before progressing that far. The reason you don’t see old drug addicts running around is that they quit or they die. Alcohol addiction will kill you more slowly, but you’ll be just as dead.

If you can’t be in a relationship and be clean and sober at the same time, then the bad situation you describe has nothing to do with the relationship(s) you are in. The relationships aren’t going to kill you. Cardiac arrythmias and liver failure will each kill you dead as a bullet. Either of these girls could be Helen of Troy, Miss universe, or Miss January… and they still would not be worth trading your sanity or health to keep. If you have to choose between them being disappointed, or you being crazy and dead, pick the first option. They’ll get over it.

If you need something to tell them, try: “I have to get clean and sober to save my own life…part of that process requires removing myself from (all) the people I got drunk and high with… or who I used a reason to get drunk or high… which includes you…”. This is 100% true, 0% mean, allows you to be responsible for yourself and exert positive control…and leaves no room for arguing or negotiation. If they can’t accept that, it would indicate that they don’t have much concern for your sanity or your life…in which case you are free to be as mean as you need to be…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 5]

I like the above post. Lie to both of them and say you are entering a drug rehab program that is 3 months long. Never speak to them again. Also delete all social media/dating sites/facebook. You will be much freer once you get rid of the women, social media and focus on just your self. You will achieve blissful happiness and hyper awareness with mgtow.

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