Women are just not attract to men that are in love with them. If you see a woman as equal or above you, putting them on a pedestal, they just simply not attracted. They call that being “needy”. It’s really strange. Being I’ve had conversations with women on this subject. “It’s a real turn off when a guy goes out of his way for a woman”. Yet they complain about men being assholes?
What’s interesting was I had a conversation with a woman who told me this, yet she was upset because every guy she dated wasn’t nice to her. Again, she’s a woman. She decided to just “stay single”.
The last semi girlfriend I had. After about 6 months. Just out of nowhere. “I don’t want to be in a relationship right now” and boom, gone, ghosted. This was a few years back, I was still blue pill, looking for that NAWALT. Calls me up a year later, she was sleeping with a married man, who she knew was married, and was getting called into court because she was subpoenaed by the wife who was getting a divorce… and at the end she’s like “So you wanna meet up for some coffee”.. I told her no. I was so sad, wow, another one, I got involved and got attached to another crappy woman. This was when I was searching for a NAWALT.
Women don’t need men anymore, so they don’t even have to pretend. If you are going to full around with women, don’t fall in love with them. Of course, that kind of takes away from it, doesn’t it. Like who really actually wants to have sex with a woman they aren’t interested in, it’s just like masturbation. Maybe in the future somethign will change and I’ll turn into a guy who can feel OK or enjoy just using women for sex. Thing is, seems that’s what women actually like. pump it and dump it.
Then they get upset about it…
“I can’t find a nice guy, every guy I date “cheats” on me”
-yeah, your not attracted to men that want commitment. Or even willing to because if they see the woman as an equal, they can not be sexually attracted to him.
None of them are attracted to men who see them as equal or that will go out of their way for the woman… unless the woman wants something from you like money, or to live rent free in your house, or some other materialistic object/experience. Even getting married, a lot of women do it so they aren’t the last one to get married or for their family’s approval. None of it is real. A mutually loving relationship with a woman is not possible, unless both the man and the woman are not interested in each other and marrying for other reason, same for any relationship.
I used to always wonder why can’t I have a girlfriend for more than a year. Now I know. Even when I was blue pill, I was wake enough. I knew how women were. I knew women cheated because I had been with enough of them. So I never really got taken advantage of materialistically, maybe a little but not really. Like each girlfriend, I prolly only spent maybe less than 500 bucks max, I’m just a really frugal guy. Still, the tax on the emotions and time, I’d fix their car and do house work and that nonsense, which you add that up, it be 1000’s of dollars in labor.
I look back, it was never worth it. I was never really in it for the sex, though, I enjoyed sex for sure. I was looking for “love”…. where it could and would never be found. That’s what hurts. Finally realizing, there ain’t no love in this world. At least not mutually.
A woman can love a man that doesn’t love her, that’s the only kind of man she can love.
A man can love a woman that doesn’t love him.
That’s just the way it is.
Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.
Ever5 2 years, 3 months ago.
