Told my son – We are separating

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

So, My son – who is in his 3rd year of college and I went out to dinner and I told him we are separating.

He took it in stride. Granted, he’s a man and I didn’t raise a pussy. It didn’t make it any easier for me and I didn’t mince words. I didn’t trash his mom, I just said – “I’m going to tell you straight up – we are separating”.

The only caveat is I told him that I pay for everything and even though his mom has a good job, she refuses to move out. So I have to assume apartment, utilities and cable while still paying the mortgage. I’ve also paid 100% of his college tuition thus far.

The waters ahead are going to be rough, but I’m battening down the hatches.

She doesn’t know – but I’ve always had her password to her phone. I’ve monitored it for past 6 months and not seen anything. Then, I discovered that she told a guy co-worker that we were separated and even texted him while we were out to dinner the other night and told him she was out with friends.

I’m not good at playing cool and monitoring things. I confronted her (Spare me the lectures on playing it cool and getting the goods). I dropped her phone in the swimming pool and said, “I’m out”.

I plan on clamming up for the next 4-5 days. I’ve lined up an apartment and I’m going to furnish it and get the f~~~ out of here. Going to tell her that I’m upset and not going to file papers. Then I’m going to file papers.

[Anonymous 42]

You’ll feel allot better when all the dust settles and her voice is but a memory. Sovereignty is a good thing..

[Anonymous 1]

Congrats this is your step toward freedom and peace of mind.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Unc~~~ing is a short term misery followed by a lifetime of freedom sir. Well played. Carry on.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Anonymous 43]

file early Monday am, low case number wins. do not be the defendant, the criminal.

good luck

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Good luck brother. It’s a short term s~~~ storm that will lead to long term happiness. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Keep your cool and remember the prize at the end.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 7]

Good luck man.
Keep your head down and your powder dry.

[Anonymous 18]

File the papers.

Accept her getting f~~~ed by this guy in your bedroom. Women deal with separation as such.

Deal with the pain. Cry. Go into depression.

Wake up one day and realize you are genuinely happy.

Whatever you tell her, do not back down on your words.

Never accept her back. She will break you and bring you to brink of insanity, but she doesn’t love you.

Respect and love yourself.

Peace.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Eventually she will ring you up. When the dust settles for her, she’ll realize her f~~~ up. Women who cheat always do. It’s important you realize this and be resolute in not returning because one thing if you do is inevitable…. You will soon after realize why you left and wonder why you ever went back.

[AttonParticipant]

Oh boy you are going to have a proper war on you’re hands.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Stay strong, when I spoke to my boys I simply said that we had seperated because I could no longer tolerate what was going on, and that it involved other men, and that if they had any questions I would be as honest as I could.
They not only cheat on the husband, but they cheat on their own children as well, destroying the secure home and family the children thought they had.

[OldBillParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

I dropped her phone in the swimming pool and said, “I’m out”.

Good start. Have you stopped f~~~ing her yet?

I plan on clamming up for the next 4-5 days. I’ve lined up an apartment and I’m going to furnish it and get the f~~~ out of here. Going to tell her that I’m upset and not going to file papers. Then I’m going to file papers.

Don’t be surprised if she files first. In fact, plan on her filing first.

It’s apparent she’s more resourceful than you want to believe. After all, she’s been able to keep that relationship with her co-worker secret from you until recently.

She’s also smarter than you want to believe. From the first, you’ve been posting about how you wanted her to move out and now you are the one moving out instead.

When the dust finally settles a year or so from now, you’re going to come to the realization that, far from being in control of the situation and playing her, she’s been in control of the situation and playing you.

She’s thwarted you and your “plans” at every turn. That doesn’t happen by accident. Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is enemy action.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[bladeParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

f~~~ing

Not givin up on ya . From ya grandson blade . We love ya gramps

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[TicParticipant 4329]

CombatRoll wrote:

I’ve also paid 100% of his college tuition thus far.

wow, much respect man. That’s a feat in itself. good work!

as for ending your relationship, you will look back after it’s all over and done with and realize what a gift has been given to you. To have that freedom from a disloyal bitch, to let her go on with her own miserable existence without it affecting your wellbeing…….

one of the best things in life.

God bless peace and freedom.

[OldBillParticipant]

blade wrote:

Not givin up on ya . From ya grandson blade . We love ya gramps

Thanks for the reminder, Blade!

I’m pinching myself twice.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

CombatRoll wrote:

She doesn’t know – but I’ve always had her password to her phone. I’ve monitored it for past 6 months and not seen anything. Then, I discovered that she told a guy co-worker that we were separated and even texted him while we were out to dinner the other night and told him she was out with friends.

How long ago did you see this?

If recent, it suggests that she realised that the game was up and started taking steps to line up your replacement.

Ruthless or what?

Kick her as hard as you can, as quick as you can. Show no mercy.

“Get there firstest with the mostest”.
-General Nathan Forrest.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Goodluck brother…We are here to support you in your retaking of your manhood. You gave your life to your wife but she didnt appreciate it and took you for granted. The stories are similar. AWALT…
Keep us posted so you dont suffer it alone…Strength brother…We are strong…We are free…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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