Told my mom she was a thief.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Today I told my mom I considered her talking alimony from my dad to be theft and she tried to tell me it wasn’t. She tried to pull the “I staed home with you guys instead of working when you were younger”, but I wasn’t buying it. She has a job and she lives with her dad and also spends a lot of time at her boyfriends big house which I have heard she lives there or at least stays there often. I told her though that she is getting too much and she has no right to take my dads money, ignore his calls, and then get mad if he says something mean to her or yells at my sister when my sisters makes him mad over the money. My dad even had no problem paying her a smaller amount to to help her out and give her part of the retirement they earned together, but she seems to want more. He is already paying her lawyer in addition to $1600 a month which is outrageous. My dad wants me to testify that I stayed at her boyfriends house as proof she lives there, but even though he says the judge believes him but needs proof just saying I have stayed over there feels like a stretch.

I am glad she left, but considering she has 2 places she can stay she doesn’t need that much of my dads money. She claims emotional abuse which is true but part of it is her fault as well. She claims it has been going on since I was a baby yet she had my sister and they were going to split up when I was 8 but they didn’t so she really isn’t in a position to act like this is new.

[AscendedParticipant 698]

My money, which I was supposed to receive as a child was stolen too… I bet you know who was receiving it.

My philosophy of “money runs and ruins everything” never was false.

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Good for you.
I love my mother, but she always wants sympathy for her lack of money.
However, she has a payed-off apartment, works full-time with a nice salary and is single.
When she started to complain the other day I told her, in a nice way, to shut the f~~~ up. I, as a student, live well on 1/4 of her salary, working 3 part-time jobs while taking my MA degree, in order to not take up student loans. She’s just short sighted, sucks at saving money and won’t take financial advice from me because “that’s focusing too much on money. And I don’t want to do that. It goes against my values”.
*facepalm*

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

“that’s focusing too much on money. And I don’t want to do that. It goes against my values”

Then why is she complaining about money?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

They are all Hippocrates, money isn’t important. You shouldn’t worry about it or be stingy, until the divorce settlement, then all of a sudden it’s their only thought.
They want no responsibility to earn it, just have it given to them because you know vagina.
Men should provide, so just man up, women are special snowflake fairies that are beyond question, no wonder we’re all here, the juice just ain’t worth the squeeze.
The system allows this to happen, until it all collapses. Until then I’m staying free, safe from the one sided plantation contract.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

“that’s focusing too much on money. And I don’t want to do that. It goes against my values”

Then why is she complaining about money?

This man, so f~~~ing this! My ex after I would say how great money is and how much it is necessary use to tell me I love money too much with disdain. Now look at her, buying all sorts of s~~~ she wasn’t able to get earlier and wanting a new car, starting her own business. Apparently she was just the pot calling the kettle black; f~~~ing hypocrites. She won’t even let me claim my kid on my taxes because I don’t take care of her. lmfao It’s unreal…

Women will do whatever they can to get whatever they can from whoever they can through whoever will listen. No action on their part as they don’t want to have to work hard for it, they’d rather use a man as he is a great tool, the goose that lays the golden eggs.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

i feel bad for your dad losing all that alimony $$$

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[AttonParticipant]

She sounds like a silver spoon having bitch, honestly if you can ensure she doesn’t get another red f~~~ing cent of alimony doit f~~~~~.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[TheBardParticipant 974]

onmyway wrote:

Good for you.
I love my mother, but she always wants sympathy for her lack of money.

Whether she lives with her dad or her boyfriend I doubt she is paying for rent. My dad said he makes about $5,000 a monthand when you take out the $1,600 for her that leaves $3,400 he brings home and with that to pay the house payments, utilities, food, and any other bills and saving some. He said he has $500 left every month to do what he wants with which I don’t think is right especially if my mom gets to have more then that every month. Last year for my birthday she gave me $100 and for Christmas $50 and it took me forever to spend it because I didn’t feel comfortable. I spend about $12 of it on a PS4 game that was on sale and the rest stayed in my dresser drawer for almost a year. I ended up using it to pay for pictures with actors at a comic book convention. She gave me $100 dollars this year for my birthday and again it is in my drawer just sitting there.

Ascended wrote:

My money, which I was supposed to receive as a child was stolen too… I bet you know who was receiving it.

My philosophy of “money runs and ruins everything” never was false.

Thank you. Glad I am not the only one.

[Anonymous 3]

As long as men think holding women accountable for their actions is “oppression” and “barbaric” I don’t see why anything would change.

Women are children. It’s pretty stupid to let a child run their life and claim they are “equal.” You see the results with Western society, and an absolute stubborn refusal by men to admit it’s not working and a farce. Everyone would rather bend over in half flipping around backwards with mental gymnastics to pretend women are “equal” instead of admitting the absolute obvious truths smashing them in the face.

[HitmanParticipant]

She is a thief.along with millions of other vagina owning blood sucking.money hungry vampires. .

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Yes, yes she is.

Any money that’s around they consider theirs, despite the fact they haven’t dropped one bead of sweat for it.

Summer. 1983. For over a month is was 93 degrees plus with our God awful midwestern humidity. People stayed in their AC and didn’t to s~~~. Needless to say, they neglected all their outside chores. My buddy gets the idea to start early and offer to cut lawns and do other chores for money. It was a good idea. From 7 AM to 3 PM we pushed a lawnmower and carried other tools around the neighborhood doing just that. At the end of the day, I was beyond exhausted but had a pocket full of cash. My mom gets home from whatever it was she did and asked me what I did today. I answered that I worked all day with my buddy and made X amount of dollars. Her reply:

“Oh! Give it to me.”

I did not.

Two years later, I had all my graduation/conformation money in a secret stash in my dresser. It was still coming in and I would add to the roll. One day, I go to add to the roll and it’s not there. I quickly put two and two together and ask my mom what she did with my money. Her reply:

“I took it for safe keeping.”

She rooted through my s~~~ to get money, so I began to root through her s~~~. This of course, was wrong as I had no right to go through her personal things. I didn’t stop until she coughed up the cash.

And I’m her son. Not an ex. Remember that.

They are f~~~ing insane. They think all money is theirs.

Fuck this planet.

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