Told her the bad news a month before Xmas

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I technically broke up with my last ex a week before Thanksgiving 2015. We tried to talk it out a week or two later. During this time, there was something that I had been wanting to tell her for a while but it was something that she wouldn’t like and might cause us to be separated indefinitely.

I decided that since it was coming up on Xmas, that I should just get it out in the open now. My logic was that if this info is a deal breaker, and she decides for us to stay separate, then I’ll save a few hundred dollars by not having to buy her and her son any presents.

I ended up saving a few hundred dollars. 🙂

And since then I’ve saved several thousand as I’m now not on the hook for 2 lame vacations that she was trying to make me help fund.

Not sure why I’m sharing this now after all this time. Something reminded me of it today and I just feel that it’s hilarious that I chose to tell her some bad news at that specific time right before Xmas in order to potentially save money. Some of my buddies laughed when I told them this too. They thought it was kinda heartless but I felt that it was a business decision that made perfect sense.

#MANOUT

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

I know why it hits you today, because you feel the FREEDOM bro!

Bullet one: being with a single mum
Bullet two: pay for a woman
Bullet three: in a relations~~~

That’s 3 bullets you dodged there, good job!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Man… this is actually an excellent recommendation!

From the day before thanksgiving to Feb.15th – make yourself as scarce as possible.

Tom Leykis will tell you the same thing:
“DTP (dump that bitch) before the holidays”.

Well done.

I once decided I was going to do NOTHING for girlfriend for Feb.14th, and on the 15th I called her up and offered to take her for pizza and a movie. She actually reacted like I TREATED HER BADLY. The % of p~~~ed off she was…. is exactly the % of self-centered entitled bitch she was.

What kind of a f~~~ed up person PREFERS to get a gift out of obligation and resent – just because it says Feb.14th on the calendar? …. and then behaves like you mistreated her.

If what you do doesn’t count as a +1, get rid of her.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

I know why it hits you today, because you feel the FREEDOM bro!

Bullet one: being with a single mum
Bullet two: pay for a woman
Bullet three: in a relations~~~

That’s 3 bullets you dodged there, good job!

I am definitely feeling the freedom brotha. As soon as her and I broke up for good, I instantly had less stress and more money. Since I wasn’t as stressed it also helps me to be a better father for my son too.

But seriously, hundreds more a month. It makes a huge difference.

And I know that she is going to go from failed relationship to failed relationship and continue her path of destruction and psychotic behavior. Meanwhile I’ve broken my typical pattern and decided to stay single.

#MANOUT

[KeymasterKeymaster]

the road wrote:

But seriously, hundreds more a month. It makes a huge difference.

Oh man, I know it.

Hundreds a month = THOUSAND$ that you have to work for and earn.

You have to work AT LEAST long enough to earn $1500 to be able to throw away $100 on a meal – after taxes and expenses. And that’s assuming you have nothing better to do with it.

THATS A RETIREMENT IRA CONTRIBUTION (x52 weeks) and it saves you an additional $2G in taxes at the end of the year.

… and all that for a woman who won’t even throw a pot of dried noodles in a pot of boiling water for you.

I actually told that to a woman a couple of years ago. She asked why I didn’t call her again. Said it was “not very nice”. I asked her “Oh really? Did you not have a nice time?”

“No I had a lot of fun, but I was hoping we could do it again”.

“Oh that’s nice to hear. Tell you what, when you’re willing to throw a bunch of dried noodles in a pot of boiling water, and a jar of heated sauce over it and invite me over… I’ll be delighted”.

If a woman I took out for dinner doesn’t JUMP at making some kind of minimal effort, she will never get as much as a CHEESEBURGER from me again. Women who think all they need to do is show up and order off a menu are now history.

…. to say nothing of the type who thinks it’s “sexist” when you want her to make you a sandwich with 5 minutes of her time. No. I bought you dinner last week. You WILL make me a sammich – with a SMILE.

I would like a crocodile sammich, please. And make it snappy.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Cheers man, I am happy for you. I wish more men out there would wake up like you did, but sadly for most men, the bluepill cancer has spread to their brains, so nothing can be done.

[Anonymous 42]

I see a future of women sitting all alone in their apartments wishing they had a man to extract! It’s all in the name of the bulls~~~ game of love <VOMIT>.

I also see another future, a positive future (for men), where men focus on themselves with the same loving kindness that so many women have rubbed in their face.

Did you hear that? I think I heard the main bearing in the marry’go’round fracture from fatigue!

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Keymaster wrote:

Man… this is actually an excellent recommendation!

From the day before thanksgiving to Feb.15th – make yourself as scarce as possible.

Tom Leykis will tell you the same thing:
“DTP (dump that bitch) before the holidays”.

Well done.

I once decided I was going to do NOTHING for girlfriend for Feb.14th, and on the 15th I called her up and offered to take her for pizza and a movie. She actually reacted like I TREATED HER BADLY. The % of p~~~ed off she was…. is exactly the % of self-centered entitled bitch she was.

What kind of a f~~~ed up person PREFERS to get a gift out of obligation and resent – just because it says Feb.14th on the calendar? …. and then behaves like you mistreated her.

If what you do doesn’t count as a +1, get rid of her.

The expectations that they have are insane. They are so stuck in their little worlds that they don’t realize how selfish and harmful their expectations are. Stress myself out in trying to plan a magnificent Valentine’s day night for you and ridiculed if I don’t exceed expectations? How the f~~~ is that helpful for a relationship in any way? The man is walking on egg shells, the bitch *consumes* the *event* and decides whether or not it was worthy of her tastes, and then meters out some vagina.

I don’t blame you for blowing her off. And her reaction? Despicable. Entitled. If she was actually into having a nice Valentine’s day she should have been pro active and made a co-oped effort to plan it with you and share in the cost instead of looking for an excuse to purposefully be angry.

#MANOUT

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I also didn’t mention the woman I took to a very special & rare concert event were the tickets were $250 — EACH. I received them as a bonus for a job well done, so I invited this f~~~ing cupcake who started snow flaking the moment I picked her up.

It was JUST before thanksgiving (2013). I surprised her with it and she was actually IN TEARS with excitement when she found out where we were going.

At the end of the evening, she invited me over for Christmas dinner as a way of thanks and INSISTED. I graciously accepted and confirmed that I would be delighted. Then I made other plans, because I know women.

As predictable as her period, there was no follow up and I never heard from her again.

Repeat: this was not just a “drink thing” that she flaked on.
This was CHRISTMAS DINNER. You don’t invite someone for Christmas dinner and flake.

You did the right thing. GUARANTEED.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Funny I remember meeting a women a few years back, we went on a few dates she had 3 kids, from 7 to 12.

Anyway after a month she called me asking “would I like to go on a skiing holiday with her friends in March ” this was September , talk about trying to close the deal..

I said no an ran, she was desperate for a wallet ,,. Not my wallet…

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