To all the young, heartbroken lurkers…

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Did some precious little snowflake break your heart? Did you think she was your unicorn and so you bled and died for her just because your hormones got the better of you? Did she promise she would always be there and love you forever but suddenly, unceremoniously, dumped you for some chad or for no other reason than she got bored?

Well take care… sometimes being young can be difficult because you lack substantive experience and don’t have much to go by and after all you are in the peak of your sex drive: all that oxytocin and hormones can amplify the pain.

But I am here to tell you things get better. And you know what? The chickens come home to roost and you will no longer want them.

I have women I have dated in my 20’s and 30’s contact me regularly on FB etc… Usually the message is: “You were the best guy I ever dated. Why did I dump you?” The reason is: Hypergamy. These bitches cannot help themselves. They will all hit the wall and likely marry someone beneath your worth. They will be bitter, angry, fat, have stretch marks and tons of baggage. You will realise, post wall, you dodged a bullet and you will be grateful things turned out as they did.

Its hard to see right now but have faith it will get better, if you live your time will come. We are here for you. There are great guys on tis site with a collective wisdom of thousands of years. Reach out…

Addendum #1: Yeah I go on FB a few times a month. Sure its s~~~. I do it because its the way people communicate nowadays. There are a half dozen good guy friends I lost contact with that I never would have found without it. Sure you get a bit of B.S., and old skanks messaging, but at the end of the day you choose how much to be involved.

Addendum #2: Generally I agree with the advice on this site that you should ghost any crazy exes that contact you as I have described. However, if you were kicked in the b~~~~ and never really had a chance to take that ex to task I don’t think its a bad thing to send one message, a real blast, telling these bitches what they did was wrong. Just my thoughts others may disagree. And I am talking one message and ghost… not a back and forth.

[ghostParticipant]

Great post! The WALL is one of the best things that can happen. It really helps to calm the nerves so to speak. I have seen them start to hit the wall and it just makes me feel at ease.

The bloody C~~~S will always regret it but never go back. Ever.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Love this post… I am focusing my early 20s to building my brand/business and saving money for future investments. When these women hit the wall they will want what I have but all they will get is a “Sorry, your chance is long gone”

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Good for you Mr. Blue. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. I wasted a lot of energy chasing women in my 20’s, having things go south and then spending too much time moping around forlorn. Learn from my mistakes. Make your way in life and find yourself and be successful. If you still want the pussy later it will be there clawing at the door of rich house you have built.

[ghostParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I am focusing my early 20s to building my brand/business and saving money for future investments.

Good job, Blue. Keep at it brah.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Really well said Zarathustra–and so VERY true +100.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Zarathustra wrote:

You will realise, post wall, you dodged a bullet and you will be grateful things turned out as they did.

Its amazing how this works. You take that girl with the perfect ass you knew from high school when she was 18, that college hottie you knew when she was 20, or that chick from the gym when she was 24, and you fast forward to when they are in their early 30’s there is at least a 90% chance you’d look at them and think ughh…wtf happened to them?

Bullets dodged…its pretty awesome these days most of them want to whore their hot days away rather than hook a decent guy, I think many guys of my generation are going to be spared a lot of bulls~~~ in life by never marrying. I just hope most of them stay smart enough to not marry and don’t cave in later in life and marry some post waller.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I am full monk now. My heart is no longer broken. But encased in steel. I am stronger than ever. Great post brother!

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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