To all the lurkers.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I just wanted to welcome you.

Why don’t you drop us a post and tell us about yourself.

You are among friends.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Don’t assume all the lurkers are men – especially the kind of members we want here. Lets not roll out the red carpet for anyone. The right Men will join when they are ready and inspired.

AFTER they have joined, and/or made an intro ….
THEN it’s nice to be greeted at the airport.

Your well meaning intention is greatly appreciated though.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

I remember finding the site and reading. .
I read a lot before I posted my intro. .
This site has been a Godsend. .
What a feeling when you find out that your not alone. .so many other men who have similar storys. .
Great to be part of something bigger than yourself.
MGTOW is growing. .almost tripled since I joined. .and I’m not a joiner..this site made me want to join. .if just to send the message that one more man supported the ideals presented here.
Like a vote for men everywhere who saw the truth and wanted to have a place to get together. .
…
Lurkers gonna lurk..
Men who are ready gonna join! !!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

I found this site through you tube. I lurked for many months. Why? Because I never state my thoughts in public. Especially in a medium of the internet.

One member who is young kept posting really young thinking. Really destructive life choices that he projected. Basically, playing the victim.

It fired me up and I thought I could straighten him out.

Turns out we each make our choices in our own time.

I am glad I joined. But even more, I’m glad I get to participate with all of the gentleman on this site.

Peace brothers

[ShineParticipant 1696]

I’ve been hanging around the forums for a year now. Have worked my way through a lot of problems in this time, found alot of clarity and support here.

Been away adventuring for a few weeks so missed a lot of posts, but I’m usually around and doing well.

Red pill rage has been chilled alot, most of the bulls~~~ in my life has come from blue pill men, now I see through different eyes and have become mentally fortified.

To my brothers, break free of your chains, make up for lost time and live a free, fruitful life.

To those of you who have been broken by the sysyem, or fallen through the cracks, I don’t know your pain, but I can offer my advice to rebuild, stay strong, stay single, persue a hobby, look to better yourself.

MGTOW till I die.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Am I the only one who read this site for like a day and just knew I had to be here?

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Fermat wrote:

Am I the only one who read this site for like a day and just knew I had to be here?

I found this site last year and my world turn upside down.

I am in denial, rage and shock. I mean I always know the math about marriage does not add up, but I still think there will still be enough Unicorn out there.

It took me months before deciding this is the truth of the world and reject the matrix.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 54]

Fermat wrote:

Am I the only one who read this site for like a day and just knew I had to be here?

My reaction was..Yes! Thats me! Plus others to exchange thoughts about it with.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

When I entered divorce (2,5 yrs ago) I was lost.
While searching for answers I found a blog, where I first heard of MGTOW.
Gentlemen, I used to believe, I would be expected to act and live as Beta. The “beta orbiter”, the “purple poodle” – been there, done that.
Throughout my live, I had the strong feeling, something was just not right.
I blamed a lot for this, “diffcult” childhood and adolencence, broken Father-son relationship, early loss of grandparents, … you name it.
25+ years of my life i wasted on the thought “how to please women, to get her into my bed”.

Then i had to go through the process of a divorce.
since September 29th, 2016 I am “free”, or as free as the society lets me be.
It costed me my house, my son (who hates me by now), my dog (wife poisoned him), my carreer, my health (gained severe overweight, picked up smoking and am developing a drinking habbit).

I don’t whine, I won’t lie either, I don’t need anyone to listen or give advise.

Life’s given me quite some lemons,
while others may start making lemonade,
I ask for Tequilla

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 1]

I joined this site after stumbling across it, I don’t exactly remember how, maybe because I saw a video on Youtube by Sandman a long time ago. I had previously often visited the Spearhead website (which disappeared).

I guess I was searching for confirmation that the ideas forming in my head that all women are nuts and users and that there has to be more to life that chasing and serving some woman were not just my own thoughts, but rather what many men had observed.

In any case, KeyMaster is right: Don’t join until you’re ready.

Your first dose of red pills can be a nasty shock, and continued consumption may alienate you from a lot of people who you *think* are friends or family. But that may be the price of your own Freedom and Self-Sovereignty.

Sometimes in life, you have to turn it upside down, like you would a box, in order to see what falls out. The people that stay are your true friends, the ones that fall out, weren’t.

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

I’ve been “lurking” for a few days now. There’s so much here I wish I had known 6-8 months ago! I made a sappy post on CL and someone recommended MGTOW. I’m excited about the potential here and am ready to start down the MGTOW road.

I’m currently in a custody battle with a feminazi… it’s crazy how blind I was in the beginning.

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