Yeah, this is New York. New York, Florida(Miami) and California(Los Angelos, San Fran) are the pivot points for the American Culture. All music and trends, clothing, ideologies start in these three areas and then moves inward. So Texas for example is usually 6 years behind in culture to these three points. It moves in like a wave.
So where you live, this is what to expect. That article was written in 2015. I live in the central of the US. The dating app tinder only became some what socially acceptable in the last couple years. I’m talking about fringe, as in, still taboo, not many people doing it, but people willing to do it, the initial adapters. Now it’s getting to be semi socially acceptable, as in people will mention it in friendships, but not casually like you see in this article, it’s not “mainstream” yet, but very very close.
If this journalist were to ask people here, they were be too shamed to talk about that type of behavior. In another 4-5 years, that will not be the case.
As far as caring. I don’t care at all because I realized what I was looking for was never sex but female affection, which does not exist. She’ll always love herself more than anything, then her family, friends, etc. Man is simply a tractor in the eyes of a woman.
But this is showing what is happening. As more and more men refuse to play the bulls~~~ game, even if they are still having sex, it flips the script. One of the women in that article said something along the lines of ‘Women are the gateway to sex, men are the gateway to commitment” paraphasing. That never even occurred to me, that I was the one who determined commitment.
What people do is what people do. My whole thing, “I just want to enjoy my life”, and once I woke up and realized this MGTOW stuff, that it isn’t just me, I’m not crazy. I’ve really lost interest in being involved with women. But these guys doing this stuff, whatever, have a good time. It’s still not worth the squeeze in my eyes. You still gotta put up with them, even if it’s just for sex. It’s pointless.
And now, a woman’s value is being seen for what it really is. Once it’s realized that women have no love/affection like a man thinks she does, her sexuality has no more value than that of a prostitute. And most guys aren’t interested in paying for sex. Why? Because they were never looking for sex, but the love they identified to free sex. Now it’s being shown, it isn’t like that, and it was never like that.
On the ideas of women only choosing these guys because they are in finance banking. A guy can just lie and say he’s in finance banking. These chicks are coming straight to their house to get laid, they aren’t spending more than hour with them before sex.
New York is very very different from most towns in the US. It’s highly highly competitive, and quite lonely. The whole “No one gives a s~~~ about you”, you can really really feel that in a big city, no one means anything. There’s just so many people, that it’s difficult to have relationships outside of work.
In small towns, where women have relationships, have plenty of guys kissing their ass at church, their gym, etc. Yeah, women use tinder for validation, attention whores, etc. But New York, and bigger cities, it’s becoming the “only” way to date or get laid. This is the result. And I believe in 5 years, this will be how it is everywhere. People will literally be having sex within an hour of meeting, that will be the “norm”.
Me personally. I don’t want anything to do with. It’s still not worth the squeeze. With out the illusion of love, a woman’s sexuality has no power. Her sex never had any power, it was the idea of love being behind that sex. “OOO she’s having sex with ‘me’, that must me she likes ‘me’ and only ‘me'” That’s all her power ever came from. If you don’t believe me, why is it so few men see prostitutes, and if they do, why is it on such rare occasions, for the majority that do see prostitutes. Because it was never the sex that men wanted.
Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.
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