Times Are Getting Tough

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Times Are Getting Tough

Recently

1) Lost my source of revenue.
2) Confirmed: tax specialist worked out the numbers and my tax bill will put me into debt.
3) The bank keeps calling me more frequently because of mortgage related problems.
4) I struggle to maintain activities that are healthy: eating well, exercising, socialising.
5) Lawyer seems to be taking too long to get things moving along.
6) Insomnia starting to be bothersome

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Having a divorce process hanging above my head is a huge daily pain in the ass!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 18]

Hang in there brother. Please try not to get on any meds for sleep, mood symptoms. We are here – let’s talk it out.

I haven’t been around much lately so not sure what’s cooking up with most regulars on here. Are you supporting kids too with everything else that’s going on?

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Anonymous wrote:

Hang in there brother. Please try not to get on any meds for sleep, mood symptoms. We are here – let’s talk it out.

+1

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

Hang in there brother. Please try not to get on any meds for sleep, mood symptoms. We are here – let’s talk it out.

I haven’t been around much lately so not sure what’s cooking up with most regulars on here. Are you supporting kids too with everything else that’s going on?

That’s exactly what I want to try to avoid; taking meds. I don’t take any meds because I don’t need them and I certainly don’t want to start down that road if I can avoid it. It’s a slippery slope. For now, I’m still managing to eat in a healthy way, and exercise, and socialise too. I’m just finding it harder and harder. It’s been almost six months since I’ve separated and I’m starting to feel the financial effects of the whole divorce process. I’ve applied to have my child support changed because of a change in my revenue, so we’ll see how that goes and by next week I should know what to expect. Thanks for the concern iLearn, I appreciate it. It’s good to know that other MGTOW are keeping an eye out on things happening to other MGTOW.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Go for long walks tell the bent pig pharma scam to shove their side effect useless drugs up their ass.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Remaining cool, calm and collected is not easy in a dire financial situation but it’s what allows one to weather the storm until it passes. I still have a roof over my head. I’m trying to mentally accept going into debt. I’m trying to see it as something that will attach itself to my name, but also something that I’ll be able to handle down the line. From what I can tell, my new journey into debt looks like it will be unpleasant but not impossible to deal with. I’ve told myself to now put effort into putting ‘the breaks’ on the debt. My mission now is to prevent it from spiralling out of control.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 18]

Point Of No Return wrote:

My mission now is to prevent it from spiralling out of control.

That won’t happen brother. That’s women-territory and you are wise to have no such drain on your resources.

It will pass, things come together – perhaps not always in ways we want them to be. But compromises in adult life are part of a rational being’s plans for the big picture.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

My mission now is to prevent it from spiralling out of control.

That won’t happen brother. That’s women-territory and you are wise to have no such drain on your resources.

It will pass, things come together – perhaps not always in ways we want them to be. But compromises in adult life are part of a rational being’s plans for the big picture.

I agree, they will pass, and another bro said something similar to me: Things will not be the way I wished them to be, but that doesn’t mean things won’t be good. Or something to that effect. I think that, is one of the bigger tests in life. It’s Life’s way of seeing whether you can adapt and deserve to continue.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

stay strong brotha

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Bro – we are with you ALL THE WAY.

Don’t give up. This all shall pass. It’s only temporary

You are your worst enemy – don’t overthink. Take it as it comes.

Stay strong bro!! Yoda agrees.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Remaining cool, calm and collected is not easy in a dire financial situation but it’s what allows one to weather the storm until it passes. I still have a roof over my head. I’m trying to mentally accept going into debt. I’m trying to see it as something that will attach itself to my name, but also something that I’ll be able to handle down the line. From what I can tell, my new journey into debt looks like it will be unpleasant but not impossible to deal with. I’ve told myself to now put effort into putting ‘the breaks’ on the debt. My mission now is to prevent it from spiralling out of control.

Been there several times long walks helps take the edge off my own situation aint great so I know what it’s like.

DON’T USE ALCOHOL -it’s easy to make that mistake. Drink only at weekends

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Learn from this my brother, never have only one source of income. It’s acceptable in your 20’s but you can’t go your whole life relying solely on your job. Especially in this day and age where technology is eliminating millions of jobs on a yearly basis.

Stay strong and keep pounding away. Nothing can break you unless you allow it to. And never get married, not until these f~~~ing laws are changed.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

I had some business setbacks and as a result I’m unable to pay about 5-700 a month in credit bills at this time. I was STRESSED about it for months to the point of making me ill but I flipped the NFG switch!!! Torched my credit no doubt but I’ll pay it back in time and clean it up. S~~~ happens and life can suck sometimes. It ain’t life or death however so I’ll not let it bother me!

Flip the switch brother! Flip it…It’s only $$..

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Thanks for the feedback guys!

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[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Point Of No Return wrote:

4) I struggle to maintain activities that are healthy: eating well, exercising, socialising.

I wish wish wish i had done this during my divorce. I stopped working out; i was eating like s~~~, and drinking like crazy. It did not do well for me.

When i finally came out the other side my vitamins/bloodwork were a mess. So keep up with the healthy habits. They will serve you well through this tough time, and the rest of your life.

Even if you don’t feel like working out 3x/week, socializing 1x/week, and limiting the junk food – gotta do it man. Just like brushing your teeth.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

MattNYC wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

4) I struggle to maintain activities that are healthy: eating well, exercising, socialising.

I wish wish wish i had done this during my divorce. I stopped working out; i was eating like s~~~, and drinking like crazy. It did not do well for me.

When i finally came out the other side my vitamins/bloodwork were a mess. So keep up with the healthy habits. They will serve you well through this tough time, and the rest of your life.

Even if you don’t feel like working out 3x/week, socializing 1x/week, and limiting the junk food – gotta do it man. Just like brushing your teeth.

I agree, it just has to be done. I don’t always attain my weekly goals but I keep giving it a good shot every week. Some weeks I attain all of the healthy goals, so it depends.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I don’t always attain my weekly goals but I keep giving it a good shot every week

And that is all you need to do. Your best and no one else’s. You have the right attitude and will get to the other side successfully.

[Russky2Participant 3086]

I hope it gets better for you. Everytime I feel depressed or like s~~~, I think about what my ancestors had to go through WW2. It’s all about perspective. Life is not a bitch, it’s a C~~~! But F~~~ HER RIGHT IN A PUSSY!!!

MGTOW AKBAR

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