Thoughts on "Nice Feminists"

[UintatheriumParticipant 1861]

Hi Broz. In this thread, we will talk about “nice feminists”.

We’ve all met someone like this before. A “nice feminist” is a feminist who avoids explicit anti-male rhetoric. They usually say “We don’t hate you! We’re trying to liberate you from the emotionally suppressive patriarchy!”

This is probably going to be a controversial topic with many comments going both ways. What do we think of “nice feminists”?

I, personally, have no use for them. They claim that they are trying to free me … but then they claim that I have “internalized sexism” because I love a lot of politically incorrect movies. They are similar to “nice Christians”.

“We want Jesus to free you … but he can only free you if you burn your collection of Slayer albums.”

“Nice feminism” is just a left-wing version of that self-righteous crap. I don’t think that anyone should aim for any sort of “internal purification”. I think that we should all just be ourselves.

Overall, I never get along well with feminists … even if they are “nice”. They never share my sense of humor. Furthermore, most male feminists have no sense of male brotherhood. They can do what they want but I, personally, have no use for them.

“I hate purity. I hate goodness. I don’t want any virtue to exist anywhere. I want everyone to be corrupt to the bones.”
– Julia from Nineteen Eighty-Four

MGTOW: because you can (and should) say anything about a woman as long as she isn't within earshot

[Anonymous 24]

Uintatherium wrote:

“We want Jesus to free you … but he can only free you if you burn your collection of Slayer albums.”

Joe says- “You can have my Slayer albums lady, but if you touch my Iron Maiden Number of the Beast album I will cut you with a rusty lawn mower blade.”

And nice quote from Nineteen Eighty-Four, maybe my favorite book of all time.

[Anonymous 54]

Oxymoron.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I have never met a nice one.

[Anonymous 18]

Ask a nice feminist what feminism is.

When told it’s about equality, proceed to ask her definition of equality.

Next ask her about current laws about accusation against drunken sex as rape, divorce laws that give women so many leeway and advantages, or default access to children even if she isn’t the better parent, or the claim that women make less for same work with equal hours and qualification, and also ask why more than 70% divorces are initiated by women or why despite half a century of feminism later only thing that has sky rocketed are single mothers whereas women’s overall happiness continues to decline.

After this if she is nice she would just say :oh gosh I wasn’t even aware of all this, feminism has lied to me and I want my gender studies tuition back.

Or she would be just like the stock hostile feminist who will proclaim misogyny based on abstract ideas when evidence proves otherwise.

Goodluck.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

What has become obvious is feminists do hate men, I have never met a lesbian I have liked intact most have been horrible people, yet over the years I have worked with a few gay guys funny enough they have not hated anyone and have been decent to work with a couple were very funny.

If a feminist lesbian hates men , she is mentally ill as I see it how can a person hate a gender ? And they do, I don’t hate women they are what they are.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I consider Sarah Silverman to be a nice feminist. I may not agree with her political views, but I wouldn’t mind having a drink with her in a bar ’cause she has a sick sense of humor (something I appreciate).

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 24]

FunInTheSun wrote:

I consider Sarah Silverman to be a nice feminist. I may not agree with her political views, but I wouldn’t mind having a drink with her in a bar ’cause she has a sick sense of humor (something I appreciate).

I like Silverman as well, the show she had for a few years was pretty damn good. Female comedians sometimes get a pass because they tell the truth about s~~~ more often than your average lady. I despise Amy Schumer though. Likely because she is talentless and somehow still made it to the top.

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

About “saving” me from emotionally suppressive patriarchy, that doesn’t hold up to scrutiny. Sweden, most feminist country on Earth, doesn’t have a better male suicide rate
than less feminist nations. There’s no correlation.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_rate

But that’s their one mens rights issue. “Men should be allowed to be feminine”. Which is actually very low on the list for MRA’s. But it’s the only one these “nice” feminists ever mention. They believe you’re smothered by your own male privilege.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

: “We don’t hate you! We’re trying to liberate you from the emotionally suppressive patriarchy!”
: “Really? Well then you can start by eliminating alimony, child support, the male-only draft, lower sentencing standards for women… Those are all patriarchal institutions. Once you’ve gotten rid of all those, come back and we’ll talk. Meanwhile I’ll be Going My Own Way.”

There’s no such thing as a nice feminist, only selfish feminists (redundancy) who want something from you and know they can’t get it through their usual whining and demanding.

[UintatheriumParticipant 1861]

Unbelievableyetnot wrote:

About “saving” me from emotionally suppressive patriarchy, that doesn’t hold up to scrutiny. Sweden, most feminist country on Earth, doesn’t have a better male suicide rate
than less feminist nations. There’s no correlation.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_rate

But that’s their one mens rights issue. “Men should be allowed to be feminine”. Which is actually very low on the list for MRA’s. But it’s the only one these “nice” feminists ever mention. They believe you’re smothered by your own male privilege.

Apparently feminists don’t realize that male emotional repression is more complex than that. Society expects us to be masculine and not feminine … but emotional repression goes far beyond that.

Society forces me to oppress plenty of emotions that cannot be classified as “feminine”. Many of my suppressed emotions are weird and aspie-ish but not exactly feminine.

MGTOW: because you can (and should) say anything about a woman as long as she isn't within earshot

[UntamedParticipant]

What ‘nice feminist’ ?!
Where the hell did anyone see a nice feminist besides in their dreams? My circuits fry up with the non-sense, those two words go together like a moonlit day.
I’m sure they can act nice to each other ( if catfights are anything ‘nice’ to go by ) but as a mgtow man, a ‘nice feminist’ is one with an agenda… well f~~~, they ALL have agendas.
I picture a hunter laying traps for unwary little game. That’s a ‘nice feminist’ to me.
When the feminist hoes can’t win in frontal assaults they pretend to be on your side hoping you’ll let your guard down. Do that long enough and you’ll find out, to your detriment, how you were played into complacence.
The only ‘nice feminist’ in my view is the one who shuts up and gets the f~~~ out of my face.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

Did you say nice or ice? Must be an “n” typo.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Untamed wrote:

What ‘nice feminist’ ?!
Where the hell did anyone see a nice feminist besides in their dreams? My circuits fry up with the non-sense, those two words go together like a moonlit day.
I’m sure they can act nice to each other ( if catfights are anything ‘nice’ to go by ) but as a mgtow man, a ‘nice feminist’ is one with an agenda… well f~~~, they ALL have agendas.
I picture a hunter laying traps for unwary little game. That’s a ‘nice feminist’ to me.
When the feminist hoes can’t win in frontal assaults they pretend to be on your side hoping you’ll let your guard down. Do that long enough and you’ll find out, to your detriment, how you were played into complacence.
The only ‘nice feminist’ in my view is the one who shuts up and gets the f~~~ out of my face.

That’s right. Proof

16 Feminists Who Have Taken Over “Conservative” Media

Maybe Christina Hoff Sommers make a honest mistake in judging too hastily, but no, When confronted why she put down her signature and ask about the video, she double down and on things not related to the incident and why should the man be fired

Nice feminist is just all talk, no action of changing the bias law, worst, may back stab man later. Action speak louder then words.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Uintatherium wrote:

I, personally, have no use for them. They claim that they are trying to free me … but then they claim that I have “internalized sexism” because I love a lot of politically incorrect movies. They are similar to “nice Christians”.

All cults will be nice when trying to indoctrinate you,
just like a con man will be nice while trying to fleece you,because your guard is down.

Buller100 wrote:

What has become obvious is feminists do hate men, I have never met a lesbian I have liked intact most have been horrible people, yet over the years I have worked with a few gay guys funny enough they have not hated anyone and have been decent to work with a couple were very funny.

I’ve worked with some bull dykes that were just like a man,rude jokes,sexual comments about other female co-workers,sports talk,hobbies,ect,good to work with.

I don’t even mind working with a gay guy as long as he is the ‘macho’ type,it’s the little f~~~ing queens that get on my nerves-just as bad as a broad IMO.

I hate dealing with them in some of my contracts but what can you do?
The office world is filled with them.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

“Nice feminists,” are called Undercover c~~~s.

Man hating feminists are called Upfront C~~~s.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[UintatheriumParticipant 1861]

When I talk about “nice feminists”, Christina Hoff Sommers is not what I’m talking about. Christina Hoff Sommers is an old-fashioned feminist who disagrees with modern feminism.

I’ve been to university. There are plenty of women there who wholeheartedly support modern feminism … and argue that it will help me.

That’s what I mean when I talk about “nice feminists”. They are the ones who portray modern feminism as something I would enjoy.

In practice, most “nice feminists” do absolutely nothing to criticize they nastier counterparts. Some modern feminists have been surprisingly polite to me … but if I started hanging around with them then I would be regularly exposed to their illogical bitch friends.

I was abused by my sister when I was growing up. The “nice feminists” argue that feminism will help me. In practice, most modern feminists won’t give a s~~~.

MGTOW: because you can (and should) say anything about a woman as long as she isn't within earshot

[BzsyParticipant 76]

Most of the “nice feminists” I’ve known have only been such because of blood ties or just completely avoiding gender topics.

I went through a male feminist phase, didn’t make too much of an ass out of myself though, never got active in it but went through some of the thinkings. This probably won’t be a popular opinion but I do still agree on some s~~~ they talk about but I also see how much that pales in comparison to all the s~~~ that is ridiculous. Mostly what I can agree with is social complaints (stuff like getting yelled at on the street, actual cat calling not “good morning”) crap where it’s negative social interactions that are legitimate, not the blown out of proportion victim complex garbage they keep blabbering about.

I’ve met one or two feminists that I still somewhat respect but most now I see as idiots. Both my sisters are self proclaimed feminists, the oldest has a more reasonable outlook but the other is freshly turned and has that c~~~y air about her. We clash every once in a while but for the most part avoid the topic. Ultimately I’m going to break off all contact once our parents pass but for the time being I guess she fits in that category.

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