Thoughts on female physician "marrying down"…

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

So the guy moving into the cubical next to mine at work is engaged to a physician. Both probably late 20s. He’s a working stiff like me-couldn’t be hauling in more than 60k per year. His future bride is also pretty hot. Trying to figure out what’s in it for her. Even an internist in the Chicago area pulls in at least 200k per year. If they split – she’d be on the hook potentially for big time spousal support. Doubt she is the elusive Unicorn – Any thoughts Gents?

[Anonymous 54]

Marrying down puts her in charge. Role reversal from the old days. Whos got the money calls the shots.Ive been with wealthy women. F~~~ that s~~~.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I have a buddy that married a Dr (she isn’t hot), and she is a libtard. He stays home with the kids and never gets to do s~~~.

My experience/observations are that when a man marry’s down and the woman stays home or earns less, she still tries to rule his ass and sponges money. He tries to treat her like a princess as covert contracts to make her give him pussy or be nice (never works).

When a woman marries down, she still tries to rule him and treats him like s~~~.

So a man gets hosed either way.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

AWALT

But women with more money are more abusive, when they made more money, they think that they always deserve more. Possibly she is already cheating at him, but will marry just to receive the pre wedding attention that all women want. Just to have “her moment”.

I bet a beer, that she doesn’t really give a s~~~ to him, he is just a dick an some emotional support to her. But there are some manipulative bitches that fear to die alone, so they keep weak men around, and a specially weak and obedient man to be her man. He will be like a dog, both will f~~~ her but he will f~~~ her.

[EinherjarParticipant 608]

An interesting role reversal this. Ever we usually hear of the opposite, women marrying up or across. An inexperienced man could be fooled into thinking he has found one of the fabled unicorns among the female population. I think it is a lure.

I think it is well known here in the MGTOW-community that women are attracted to men in two different ways: The material and the physical. It is most common among women to marry a man she is materially attracted to, while having an infidelity with a man she is physically attracted to. This is the female viewpoint of what a relationship is, and it has been so all the way back to the Neolithic era.

As to your thoughts Truthseeker82, I think this woman is marrying your colleague on a basis of physical attraction. Perhaps there is something about him which she finds very appealing. It could also be that this woman is too young to have her hypergamy fully kick in yet. Or it could be that she is thinking of quitting her job once she is married, thus living of him for free for the foreseeable future.

It is difficult to tell, but your colleague should be careful. As the old Romans used to say: «He will live the longest, he who is on guard even when everthing seems safe»

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Chance of divorce 100%.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

She will be wearing the pants, and controlling the purse strings. He is voluntarily entering into a life of a complete man servant. He will have to bow to her in every which way. Better him then me.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Nice Guy EddieParticipant 527]

Doctor here.

Have pumped and dumped a number of female doctors.

This poor schmuck will be so relentlessly humiliated that he will be begging for a divorce within 2 years.

NGE

[TuneoutParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Chance of divorce 100%.

Yes but in this case he’ll come out on top

Her childish power play motives will hurt her in the end

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Perhaps it’s a massive long game, she marries him he has nothing.

After 2 years divorces him, then she has such a gold card to mega rich guys as ‘She has proved she has not married for money ‘

It will look great on her CV for the manginas.

[RoyDalParticipant]

My guess is she is “in love.” When the hormones wear off — this will take about six months after the wedding day — she will do the around the clock humiliation thing on him until he has a nervous breakdown, and then she will divorce him.

In ancient times, this would have been unremarkable: Her Majesty has discarded another slave.

I have known men who were married to doctors and lawyers. This was the general path of their marriages.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

So the guy moving into the cubical next to mine at work is engaged to a physician. Both probably late 20s. He’s a working stiff like me-couldn’t be hauling in more than 60k per year. His future bride is also pretty hot. Trying to figure out what’s in it for her. Even an internist in the Chicago area pulls in at least 200k per year. If they split – she’d be on the hook potentially for big time spousal support. Doubt she is the elusive Unicorn – Any thoughts Gents?

Why is it marrying down? That’s insulting to men. Male doctors have been marrying girls with barely a high school education forever and no one blinked an eye.

Frankly, this is how marriage should be (women wealthier than the man) due to the risks a man goes through by getting married and having kids that they would lose custody of.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Awakened wrote:

She will be wearing the pants, and controlling the purse strings. He is voluntarily entering into a life of a complete man servant. He will have to bow to her in every which way. Better him then me.

Right, because we know how much power men have in typical marriages…

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

Like i mentioned under another thread, i knew a Belgian safari guide from South Africa who was going to marry a corporate high flier in Australia. He was going on about the insane amounts of money she earns. And he was literally earning peanuts as a safari guide in Africa. He told me he decided to settle in Africa and become a guide as that is what he truly loved doing and enjoyed it for years. So it makes me wonder why he decided to throw that life away and move in with this woman. I wonder what happened to him. I last spoke to him in 2013.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

sonofthedestroyer wrote:

Like i mentioned under another thread, i knew a Belgian safari guide from South Africa who was going to marry a corporate high flier in Australia. He was going on about the insane amounts of money she earns. And he was literally earning peanuts as a safari guide in Africa. He told me he decided to settle in Africa and become a guide as that is what he truly loved doing and enjoyed it for years. So it makes me wonder why he decided to throw that life away and move in with this woman. I wonder what happened to him. I last spoke to him in 2013.

Pretty sure he could get his job back tomorrow if things don’t work out with this woman.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

Making 200k doesn’t mean you don’t spend 250k a year. I suspect a large amount of women simply spend more than they make and charge the rest on one of their many credit cards. Nothing like a reliable doormat to help offset those CC bills so the spending can continue.

Or she’s just waiting around for the next best thing and he is good enough for now… give it 3-6 months and let us know how it turns out.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Good luck to him but this doesnt sound like a recipe for a succesful relationship, she will met a doctor with more money and more status and he is gone. As for spending money, no problem there. Females excel at spending money and spending insane amounts of money is not a problem as demonstrated by Mike Tyson who was spending 80 mio per year during peak of his carrer when he was making 70 mio per year.

While most man have a sound concept of personal finance responsibility, most women dont.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

He’s f~~~ed! Anyone wants to play over/under 5 years till divorce? Im going under….

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Only time when mine is mine, hers is well hers, is when the c~~~ has more money that you do.

When she has more money, its every man for himself.

When she doesnt, its lets share.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

FYI:

More money c~~~s make, less chance their spend money on you.

Thats for damn sure!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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